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    Dizzy Rough situation calls for money help

    Hmm where do I start....

    I was doing great! I was renting a room, had a decent job and school was my main worry!
    Then I quit that job and relied on school money. The reason I quit that decent job was because I knew a regular part time job wasn't for me, and the feeling has never left.

    Almost a year later I had to move back with my parents and boy does it SUCK!! I've had issues with my family that I don't want to write a long story about but i guess the main reason for this thread is that I need help. I'm in school right now and I am working at a part time job(retail). I'm not where I want to be at all. I want my own things such as: car, place to live, food to eat or whatever else. I cant just get a regular job because there isn't anyone helping me. I find that all of my peers who have retail jobs with apartments and $5,000 cars receive help from family. Which in my situation, it isn't possible.

    The reason I am on SW is because I want somebody who has the same/similar situation I am in. What I am wondering is when do you finally decide to do something that is right but feels so wrong to think about it? I've been wanting to walk into a strip-club and do what I need to do, but I guess I cant find the confidence?

    When did you decide that it was time to make a living for yourself? and not question your instincts anymore?

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    When the only thing keeping me from completing nursing school was a lack of money. I ended up hating nursing, but that's a whole different story. Have you ever been in a strip club? I'll bet you money when you go in you see at least five or six girls you don't think should be there. They're making money. You'll make more. Just try it out, most clubs will wave fees the first night. Try one that's newbie friendly and not super strict.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: Rough situation calls for money help

    Yup just one. It was a rundown one though. im 20 and live in portland if that helps ;P!

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    I went against social conditioning and started working for the same reasons. Lack of money, part time jobs and I don't match for long. I am studying and I have medical expenses I had to pay.

    The first walk in was weird I found it very confronting. Girls in skimpy clothes and I felt judgey and awkward. Super nervous my first day and then now 6 months later its normal, easy and I have money and Im more confident. I don't blink.

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    Default Re: Rough situation calls for money help

    Thankyou! I also want to know how to find a good club, can i get into/dance in 21 and over clubs if im 19? lol and stripclubs vs gentlemens club

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    When my daughter needed food and diapers.

    Just get to it, girl. Most of us started out of desperation and serious situations. Sounds sad but true. Dancing has allowed me to take charge of my life and provide a great home and environment for my child.

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    Default Re: Rough situation calls for money help

    Quote Originally Posted by Tylicious View Post
    Thankyou! I also want to know how to find a good club, can i get into/dance in 21 and over clubs if im 19? lol and stripclubs vs gentlemens club
    There is absolutely no difference between 'stripclubs' & 'gentlemens clubs'. Same purpose, same m.o., just maybe more expensive drinks. Sm 21+ clubs will let you work at 18-20, sm won't. Depends on local ordinance.

    Also, there is a huge difference between 'instinct' & feelings rooted purely in social conditioning. Just smtg to think hard on, bc it sounds like you're confusing these two concepts if you feel 'instinct' is the core of what's keeping you from starting your journey to financial independence.

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    Default Re: Rough situation calls for money help

    when i was working 7 days a week and still didn't make enough to get my own place or support my son, and i was sick of being homeless on and off or living with my parents. the only thing holding me back was my incredible shyness and fear, and that wasn't going to hold me back from being financially independent. but I'm not sure what you mean about instincts?

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