I read the link from a post in "stripping" about a stripping article on CNN.
I think these encounters occur occasionally for many strippers. I know it's not your job to listen to this, but many of your more mature customers appreciate it.I've also been exhausted by my own compliance when it has meant more money, which I desperately needed at the time. Although it's rare to find love in a strip club, what is found there is a more simple intimacy: human connection, compassion, desire and touch.
Strip clubs exist because people are acutely lonesome. We walk around with these giant knots in our hearts, like a cramp that can't stretch out. It tugs and pulls at us all day while at our jobs, surrounded by people and gadgets and family members who don't listen to us like they used to, highlighting our own failures to connect to people easily in a meaningful way.
What I've learned about humanity in my protracted tenure as a dancer is that we are a culture dying of loneliness in a frenzy to feel less so. Sex workers offer a reprieve from that loneliness. I've learned that everyone may be fighting a great battle, caring for a sick spouse, worried about their meth-addicted daughter or struggling with a medical condition.
I've learned that timing and kindness are more important than big boobs.



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