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    I've been a regular customer of a dancer at a local club (all nude). I've been coming in once a week for almost the last two months. I get a few dances from her and then we go to VIP (at first it was half an hour but Its been an hour for the last 4 visits). This club has pretty relaxed rules and allows plenty of full two way contact.

    I've got a fetish for spandex/yoga pants. It's always been a fantasy of mine to have a girl grinding on me while she was wearing them. Would it be weird if I bought a brand new pair and bring them in for her to wear in the VIP on my next visit?

    Lile I said, I am a regular customer of hers. When I come in she visits with me the entire time I am there. She makes sure I am happy during our VIP time. We commicate almost ever day through Facebook messenger so I was thinking of asking her through messenger if she would do this.

    For or all you dancers, would a request like this freak you out even if it was coming from one of your regulars that spends a good chunk of money on you each week?

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Idk...a request like this seems like it may go against club rules.

    If it's not an outfit that came from store that caters to strippers/exotic dancer then I would say not to do that.
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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Just ask her. I've had more than one customer who brought in outfits/things to cater to their specific tastes.
    If it's not something weird/uncomfortable, I don't see why she'd mind... you're literally paying her to wear MORE clothes than she normally would... and that sounds spectacular to me.
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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    I would personally be fine with it, it is different, yea, but I don't see why anyone would make a huge deal out of it, especially a girl that you see as often as you do. I do recommend asking her first before brining them in, but I will honestly be surprised if she gets that offended. She could say no but I don't think it will be any worse than her saying she isn't comfortable with it.

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    MissA, just curious, why would it matter where I got it from? What would the significance be of getting it from a store that caters to strippers?

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    I think as long as she's only wearing them in the VIP room (right?) not out on the floor it should be fine. I wouldn't mind at all. That's a pretty tame request imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Footballguy View Post
    MissA, just curious, why would it matter where I got it from? What would the significance be of getting it from a store that caters to strippers?
    this is just my opinion and I never heard this type of specific clothing request from regulars. But that's why I like this forum. I do however understand men can be attracted to women working out and the tight form fighting clothes they wear. And hey if you're paying extra and she's cool with it then by all means do what works for you. I probably wouldn't mind going private with a regular customer and getting into a costume like role playing a yoga instructor or a regular buying me an dancer type outfit.

    But hey every dancer has they're own style different strokes for different folk. Like others mentioned I would definitely ask befor doing.
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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Unusual -- definitely, but you're asking her essentially to do your VIP session w/ more clothes on -- what dancer wouldn't like that? You have nothing to lose by asking

    As stated b4, it would probably only fly in the VIP room, & depending on the area, she may be forbidden (by local law if not also by club rules) from taking her shoes off, so just smtg to keep in mind, if she is down for it she will still be rocking her stripper shoes w/ the yoga pants.

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    I would just ask her beforehand... agreed that while it's kind of an unusual request it's definitely more agreeable than some of the shit we hear.
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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    I don't think it's that weird...just ask casually while you're fb chatting one night. Personally I'd love it if a customer bought me yoga pants lol.
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    Give her a gift card to buy a pair (maybe send her pics for what you like) and let her buy them, she knows her size, what will flatter her body best, colours etc- if it is a workout look you like then get her to do the whole outfit!
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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Second that - ask her.

    And give her a giftcard to choose a style that suits her and meets your preference!

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Yeah, I definitely second the gift card idea. I had a customer buy me a French maid outfit that didn't fit, and I ended up having to buy my own.

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    You are my type of customer! At my club I seem to be the girl who loves to attract regulars who like to role play / wear costumes / talk dirty / foot frtish types. But I seriously love these type of customers. I just had a guy buy me a school girl skirt in vip and we pretended I was a student of his he caught in a strip club. It's just a regular dance but with dirty talk and acting. It's fun for me.

    I'd say if it's vip you should be good. And just ask her before hand. If she says no come to my club lol!

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    When I was escorting last year, I had about two customers who were into the whole leggings/yoga pants look. They say it fuels their imagination.





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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    Wouldn’t it be simpler to ask her than to poll strangers on the internet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Wouldn’t it be simpler to ask her than to poll strangers on the internet?
    One would think. it's not like he wants her to walk around the stage on her hands, wearing a jester outfit & moose antlers, & barking like a chicken

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    Default Re: Would a dancer think this is weird?

    I don't think it's crazy at all. Girls love gifts and money! Free yoga pants and money. Just bring them in!

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    I don't think she would mind at all but of course it would depend on the dancer. One of my customers buys me fishnets just so he can rip holes in them during our VIP rooms.

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