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    Default How do you deal with stretch marks?

    Do you think they would effect income?

    I just noticed I think I have one on my boob, and I have gotten them in other areas. The hormones I am on cause me to gain weight and since my body is changing dramatically as well I feel like I may get some more.

    I am mortified. I loved my new breasts, and now I feel so anxious thininking of having stretch marks on them. My customers always talk about how nice my boobs are, I feel like this would really screw me over.

    what should I do? Do you all deal with this too?

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    Embrace them! Stretch marks make us REAL women! I have lots on my legs, hips and breasts. They don't bother me...they are part of me. Men don't care...they want to see real women, that's why they are on a cam site. If they want perfected, edited looking women they know where to look.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    If they get really bad there's a laser treatment that can reduce the size and turn red/purple discoloration back to your skin tone. There will still be a difference in texture, but at this point nobody will notice.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    cocoa butter if you apply once you begin to get the stretch marks will help soften and fade them, as long as you keep taking care of them they should be fine. I have stretch marks on my stomach, my hips, my breasts, even my shoulders. No one has ever noticed them, guys will be too preoccuppied jerking off to your tits and ass anyway to care. I even have dark spots on my ass and marks from breakouts and no one cares. I'm new so I havent encountered many jerks but from my experience guys don't really have a problem They are simple creatures after all. You'll be fine <3

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    There's a lotta creams for it, out there. Clairins makes a highly rated oil for it..also check out Body Biz section & search. Should be a lot of threads for you.


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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    I have some stretch marks (the white kind, which I believe are the kind that are not going away easily) on my boobs and on my love handles.

    I have never had a single man notice them on cam. My lighting makes me look quite light-skinned, so maybe that's why, but maybe not. By the time they see me naked, they don't give a fuck!
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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    I got 'em all over. The cocoa butter and vitamin E will both help reduce the stretch marks. All of mine turned silver within six months and are barely noticeable. They just look red and angry for a bit, promise. Hit 'em with the creams and they'll fade quick/happen less.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SoloDesire View Post
    Embrace them! Stretch marks make us REAL women! I have lots on my legs, hips and breasts. They don't bother me...they are part of me. Men don't care...they want to see real women, that's why they are on a cam site. If they want perfected, edited looking women they know where to look.
    Agreed! So many cam models, just like most women, have been pregnant, had weight fluctuations, and/or developed breasts and curves very quickly. There are some women who are blessed with amazing genes or who manage to keep their weight very stable, and they may never develop stretch marks, but those ladies are a serious minority. For the rest of us, cam models included, stretch marks are just part of reality as a woman. Maybe you can celebrate this as just another thing that makes you a woman. Plus, this isn't something you got in order to be a woman - it's something you got by BEING a woman.

    Of course, I realize it's not so easy to deal with at first. Most of us have wondered why we have to have painful, messy, inconvenient periods, hormones that fuck with us on a monthly basis, hormones that make us more prone to weight gain than men are, and a host of other issues that women experience. Likewise, I think most women that get stretch marks are horrified the first time they notice them. I still grimace a bit when I see myself in a certain light and all my stretch marks are totally obvious.

    Having said that, stretch marks have never hindered my ability to make money on cam. No one has ever commented on them (on cam or in person). In fact, I had to point them out to my husband, who said something like "Oh, I would have never noticed that. Who really cares about that kind of thing?" I'd be surprised if men notice, and if they do, I'd be surprised if they care. If anything, camming has taught me how little men care about things that we consider "flaws," and sometimes they think our "flaws" are downright sexy.

    On a practical note, make sure you keep moisturized in any ares that might expand and be prone to stretch marks (tits, stomach, hips, thighs, ass, etc.). Massage lotion in thoroughly, as that will help the skin stay supple, so hopefully it can stretch without having the mini-tears that become stretch marks. Once the stretch marks are there, they are like scars - they can fade away, but you can't "get rid" of them entirely.
    Also, remember that a webcam is "HD," but these guys aren't seeing exactly what you do when you look in the mirror. The webcam can be pretty forgiving in that way. It's entirely possible that your stretch mark(s) won't show up on cam at all.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    2 words: spray tan

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    The men don't care. All they see is tits and ass. Camming does wonder for my self-esteem and confidence. Wherever I go, I feel like the most drop dead WHOREGEOUS bitch in the room. Own those stretch marks girl!
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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    Bio Oil and tanning are miracle workers. I use sunless tanning and color hides all kinds of things on skin.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    As others have said, keep your skin well moisturized! If they're really bad you can get them lasered (wait until you're sure your boobs are done growing) but they're not that big of a deal. They're just part of being a woman. In the meantime if they're still in that red stage you could use Dermablend or other body make up to hide them.

    I'm lucky enough to only have them on my hips/butt area (thanks, puberty ) but it's been so long that they're not visible unless you look for them, they just look like slightly uneven skin, and they don't show up at all on cam. I've noticed that tan lines help a lot, too--they break up the skin tone so the eye is drawn to them, not any other imperfections.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    emu oil. they sell it online ( thunder ridge is my favorite seller), or at hippy natural food stores. it helps with any kind of scarring, its seriously amazing (but expensive!). cocobutter is also great, but just spray tan over it..guys aren't going to notice. i have tears in the left side of my stomach and nobody has ever commented on it, ever. and honestly i think 99.9% of women either have stretch marks, or will develop them at one point in her life. you aren't alone

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    emu oil. they sell it online ( thunder ridge is my favorite seller), or at hippy natural food stores. it helps with any kind of scarring, its seriously amazing (but expensive!). cocobutter is also great, but just spray tan over it..guys aren't going to notice. i have tears in the left side of my stomach and nobody has ever commented on it, ever. and honestly i think 99.9% of women either have stretch marks, or will develop them at one point in her life. you aren't alone
    I have stretch marks on both sides of my legs RIGHT by my vag. I notice them, but guys never do or at least they do not say anything about it.
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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    You'd be surprised what the guys don't see. Stretch marks, stubble, acne scars... I've got all of the above. You can certainly make them look better with some of the great suggestions the ladies above me have mentioned, but ultimately, it'll take you accepting them as part of what makes you, you to not be as worried about them. Embrace your sexy, girl! Fuck em' if they hate! You're REAL.

    Oh you wanna make a comment about my stretch marks, bro? Next.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with stretch marks?

    I seriously have them bad. Like I look like I was mauled by a tiger. I gained 100 pounds when I was pregnant with my first child. No customer has ever mentioned them (I don't even think they notice them, with lighting they are invisible). I've managed to get them to fade and look a lot more noticeable than they once were. I'm doing a bunch of things now to try.

    These are the things I've researched:

    Derma rolling: Get a derma roller. It basically penetrates the skin and forces it to heal. There are alot of people who have had a lot of success. Especially with acne scars, it works magic.

    Helichrysum Oil: It's an essential oil and it has the ability to heal scar tissue and stimulate collagen production. Companies don't use it in their products because it is expensive. I dillute mine with rosemary oil which is good for collagen production.

    Thiosinaminum: It's a homeopathic remedy that you take internally. It's derived from mustard seed. It is supposed to dissolve scar tissue. Get the 30c and take it every day. With homeopathy you need to take it first thing in the morning before you eat or drink anything as that can mess with the remedy. Also storing it by a microwave or wearing perfumes will also have a negative effect on the remedy.

    Stretch marks take time to heal. You can't just apply something a couple times and expect to see a change. Take a "before" photo and do a comination of things for 30 days. Everyday for at least 30 days and see if you see a change.

    I love the combination of taking a remedy internally (vitamin e is also good for the skin to take internally) as well as derma rolling, and then applying the oil after you do derma rolling.

    Also, don't buy any creams that contain collagen. This is something that companies won't tell you, but collagen molecules are too big to penetrate the skin so they are just an overpriced bottle of nothing.

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