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    So most of you probably don't know but i work from a physical studio, all in all its been great and has made me really productive, but i can't deal with the cattiness, and i actually hate having to socialize with other cam girls, because theres still that level of jealousy, negativity and bullshit that goes on. I started working at a studio because my bf's kids moved in with us like 2 yrs ago, There mother new what i did and was always talking crap about it so i decided to find a place to work from where i felt more comfortable, plus i always had to jump off when they came to visit before they lived with us and that always sketched me out. I just need to think of other options because this is NOT an ideal situation for me to cam from a studio, because alot of weird girls come through there and i like my privacy, my clean space etc.
    financially i've done well here so thats not the issue, and i do remember the downsides of working from home, like not going out, being out of touch with reality etc. but i dont want to be in this studio setting any longer, i want to find a solution by the first of the yr because it is just not me to work around sketchy people and i feel thats what it is. I often feel like my privacy is at risk with random camgirls finding out my real name and possibly being jealous and outing me..... (this could be completely made up in my mind, but i do tend to think of the worst case scenario's) I want to tell my BF at the first of the yr i am coming back home to work while his teenagers are in school and just jumping off when they get home..... Would this be risky? Does anyone else work from home while the kids are away, is it against the law? I dont think it is, i think my biggest issue would be his ex wife creeping on me and finding my room online and noticing that im n a house and probably start raising hell that im camming from my house that her kids live in........ Idk i just do NOT like this situation.... The money is not the issue but i HATE working around girls, that was one of the reasons i quit dancing....... This just isn't me... Id love some advice.... Thanks in advance!
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    always did that when my boys are away, you know how long they are gone, time yourself for that time period- not really risky unless your really bad at putting things away and cleaning up after, or leave things open. May be harder with teens since they can be more erratic time wise, mine are 14 and 10 so not really coming and going on their own just yet,
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    Two things I would suggest doing.. either/or:

    To work out of your house: Change the background in your room. You can do this by purchasing those wall/room dividers. You can find some with flowers and such on them. Buy some really cool lighting, like maybe some floor lamps that are really pretty. Also when you are working, change your bedding to "work bedding"... these would be things that make your room unrecognizable. When you are done working for the day, just put those things away. You'd want to make sure you put them away and the kids or their mom would not recognize them (as if she would ever be in your bedroom), but still.... Also, put a lock on your door in case someone were to come home. You might even think about getting an alarm system on the house (vivint or similar) where the system speaks to you if someone comes in a door, and tells you which door. This may help you in case someone comes home early (if you can afford it.. I think it's around $70 a month, but for the notification that someone is home, it could work).

    Also try disguising your looks - different wigs and maybe do different makeup than usual (youtube tutorials for this).

    OR... rent a small office space if you can afford it. This may not work, because you may not be able to be loud or say naughty things on cam if you're in an office that has other businesses in it. Anyway, those are my suggestions. I hope they help.

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    There 12 and 15, i was thinking of installing security cams so i can see ppl coming in or an alarm system may help. Thanks a bunch but oh man i didnt think of summer : / this is my full time job. May take more planning ill figure it out. Thanks so much for the reply
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    I always want to believe that physical studios where cool as shit and just a camgirl paradise. This makes me sad and disappointed that its catty as fuck





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    I don't let anyone in my camroom who doesn't need to know my business. If you have a space that you can designate as your own, do it. Change it up a lot. Or pick a wall and cam in front of that. If not, I second with the room dividers. Some girls just work out of their office chair and put the dividers behind them.





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    Put a lock on the door, one that your kid cannot just open it. Also, use a lock cabinet to store your toys or whatever.




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    thanks you guys, all great ideas! The kids already have a clue to what i do, because of the stupid ass mom and there grandmother outing me, who tells 10 and 11 yr olds that dad's gf is a "naked model" i mean if u really didnt like what i do wouldnt u try to insulate your children from it, Anywho thats old news.... I think they just think i model, i dnt think they really know what camming is and i use geoblock (i know that isnt always reliable) i may just have to deal with being here in the studio for awhile, Usually the idiotic girls come and go because they think its going to be easy and once they realize its not there out..... So im going to try and not get upset over being around them, i hardly see them away i just hate negativity..... The studio model isnt all bad, i mean when things are good and ppl are in a good mood around here its pleasant and a nice way to socialize but when ppl start clicking up is when it gets weird..... idk but i like all of the ideas... I could probably just work from the studio during summer times then from home with a room divider and dif decorations or something! Really appreciate the advice and i hope u all have a great day!!!! TGIF
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    I do cam while my kids are at school, I know what time the bus comes and I stop camming 20 min prior, gives me enough time to lock things back up. I also use something as a backdrop so my room isn't noticeable. during the summer I would cam at night while they slept, but didn't do that this summer, it was to hard as some of my kids stayed up later then I was able to. (I'm getting old!!)

    I have been putting away an extra 5% from each pay for summer money to help that out some, Mine do NOT know what I do..

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    It's interesting to me that when gorgeous men like Boris Kodjoe and Tyson Beckford pose nearly naked (underwear ads), it's sexy and great. But when women do it, we "don't respect ourselves," and people question what kind of mothers we are. WTF.

    Trust me, if you weren't camming, you'd just be doing something else that someone would find reason to bitch over. You could be working 2 or 3 jobs at fast food restaurants, and someone would talk shit about that. It reminds me of that meme I see on Facebook. I'll start caring about what people think when they start paying my bills. Haha.
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