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    Default how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    I'm getting sick of the same script and I think the guys in my room are as well.

    Hi *** how are you? Where are you from? What's your name?

    What other things do you guys do or say to greet and converse in free chat?

    It's getting unbearable at times to say the same things over and over. I actually think it makes me look phony when a customer sees me saying the same thing to someone else that came in.

    Also sometimes I don't know when I should stop conversation in free chat. Sometimes I let it go on and on and I realize I'm probably LOSING money by getting too into my conversations with other people. When do you guys cut it off and start getting a little pushy about privates?

    Also how do you kindly get lurkers out of your room without kissing them off and not having them possibly spend some money?

    I have this one guy who comes in my room and sits there for HOURS. He has taken me into private before but not for very long. I feel like he may turn into a regular who can bring steady income so I don't want to be rude and turn him off, but I also don't want to sit there talking to someone for HOURS who isn't paying me and making me lose out on privates.

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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    I rely very heavily on scripts. It goes like this.

    Dude: Hi bb hru
    Me: *big smile* I'm doing great, how are you?
    While he is typing a response, I send a PM with a saved autotext: "What brings you here today?"

    At this point he either tells me he's horny/wants to see boobies/otherwise gets down to business OR he starts bullshitting about my alluring eyes, smile, whatever, or otherwise *not* getting down to business.

    If he's bullshitting, I'll try to bring him around again with a "what are you into" and "do you want to play". If this doesn't do the trick, I ignore him from that point.

    Since I started following this algorithm, my freechat life has become smooth and pleasant, because I don't get exhausted by talking to timewasters.

    I will sometimes have a conversation with an imaginary guy to keep myself looking animated and engaged, but my imaginary guy looks like Hugh Jackman, so we have a great time



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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    Oh, and:

    "Where are u from bb?" - "Narnia".

    That brings an end to that particular line of enquiry, so we can return to the question at hand, that is, the show he's going to buy.


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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    These days!.. I just say hi how are you doing.. oh that's great .. whatcha doin?? or what are you into?? or sometimes I just only ask how are you doing?? I try to refrain from conversation in free chat.. Like tonite I had maybe 2 conversations on topics not pertaining to CAM STUFF and the room cleared out.. they aren't interested.. I mean guys leave mid sentence.. normally the guys who do want to talk are BROKE that's why they want your attention anyway they can get it!...lol.. AND one thing I find that helps is NOT singling out each guy and pinpoint their desires and needs.. I prefer to address the whole room and say anyone wanna have fun?? anyone wanna tip me to do anything? and also, Like I have said before I log out every 30 mins if there are NO privates!.. so that means If some guy is trying to have a lengthy convo with me.. I announce that I am going on break since no one is interested in pvt.. have fun guys!! see ya in a few mins.. this way the Loooooooooooong 2 hour conversations don't happen.. haha

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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    I usually start with "don't call me bb or I'll shoot you with my bb gun."
    "Do you do tech support in exclusive?"

    Don't call me BB...I'm not the prime minister of Israel!



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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    Thank you all for the replies!

    Part of my charm on the site and my thing is how I'm usually very chatty and use my personality to bring in the $. BUT you brought up some very good points.

    I DO think that I'm clearing out my room by talking for a long long time.

    Also I do think I should just stay on the topic of getting a private. It's great to talk and chat but you know what I'm there to make money, I'm working, and I'm sick of guys treating this like it's some game. I'm not there for free entertainment, I don't really want to be your friend, I'm not doing this for fun, I'm there to pay my bills. And sometimes but nice things...

    I do think leaving every 30 minutes is a good idea as well, just taking mini like 10 minute breaks when there is no private for 30 minutes straight seems like a good way to shake things up, make myself not seem as predictable so guys may just nab me in a private right when I get back before I leave again, and it definitely seems like a great way to get those annoying lurkers yet possible customers off of free chat and into private or away from me.

    So another question I have is are there red flags to look out for to see if someone is going to be a time waster?

    I usually only know when I ask about a private / exclusive and they either don't answer, totally ignore it and continue the conversation as if I never said it, leave the room (duh), or when they give me the BS "family / GF / BF / work, I'm broke right now" excuse. Is there any other way to subtly tell?

    I wish SM would allow us to see how much a customer has spent on the site in their info tab when they enter the room. It would be a win win for everyone, it would encourage customers to spend money since the more they spent the more attention and "status" they have on the site ( they like that shit) and obviously the models could have a better feel for who's serious and who's wasting our time so we can make more money for ourselves and the site.

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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    something I just thought of.. I have had guys tell me after having lengthy conversations that they cannot spend money on me cuz now they feel guilty that I am a real person and not a sexual object to them.. So there is a good reason right there for not chatting...lol... so many times I have had guys say this to me, even regulars.. I remember one incident on Streamate I was talking to a guy ( don't remember if he was a regular or not??) But the subject was on nutrition of some sort and the thing he said to me after have a long conversation about nutrition, he said something about how I am just a whore... After sitting there talking to me about the science of nutrition?? after having SEVERAL conversations with guys on these cam sites over the last decade or more .. Honestly? YOU are good enough to fuck , sure they'll engage you and talk to you, but MOST of these men and IRL just view us only has someone to fuck! As much as you want them to treat you like a human, Most men don't think of us that way.. Sad but true. And of course you cannot even mention that to them ever because they will argue with you about how you are a person and oh btw bb can you spread your legs and show your tits and pose like a pretzel?? GREAT.. but you are still person that I respect bb, don't worry...LOL.. they are a joke.

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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    One of the great things about the 30 min log off free chats is that it lets them know you mean business, you are not going to sit around wasting your time away with no money. You are there to make a living, but appear to be that you are NOT , that's the key!

    Let's them know, HEY BUDDY MY TIME IS IMPORTANT TO YA KNOW?!
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    Default Re: how do you greet customers and converse in free chat?

    Honestly, this is a sale job so for me personally, greeting them by their username and saying hello lets them know that I am aware they are watching me. If they reply back, I ask them how they are and how I can help them. The rest depends on their answer but my whole intention is to land a sale. I don't want them to converse necessarily, I want them to CONVERT.

    Free chat is a war, a game of wits I should say. The majority of the customers know exactly why we are there which is to make money. However, a lot of guys don't necessarily share our same agenda. They believe a free chat site is a wonderland of beautiful women who just want to chat with them for free. It's an illusion obviously, but not entirely their fault as that's a marketing issue. Still, unless they are dumb, they know the deal! These are the types who go in your room with the intentions to wank and or get as much out of you without paying a dime. They know why we're there but they are like shoplifters and window shoppers. They're in your store but don't plan on spending shit.

    Each time a guy comes in my room I immediately go into sales mode. I may smile and laugh and joke but those are my manipulation tactics. Once I know the guy isn't going to spend money I move on to the next and even kick if I have to. If they aren't talking, tipping, or going pvt then they don't need to be in my room. No lurkers allowed! I have several auto messages as well, all very sales oriented and straight to the point. "How are you baby, did you want a show today?" etc.

    I have to remind the guys why I'm there or they'll jerk off to my cleavage alone. Free chat is awesome for them because they can sit there, wank, joke and have a laugh on the girl's expense. Free chat for us is a way to hone in on our sales skills and rope in money. I make sure I look amazing first of all since men are visual which is half the work but I don't mind being repetitive because again, a sucker is born every minute and I'm there to squeeze whatever I can from each guy that comes into my room.


    The only time I engage in drawn out conversations is with a regular but again, I still expect him to tip or take me pvt/exl if he's in my room. I'm not afraid to ask a reg "Did you want another show today sweetie?" This is a business at the end of the day, if you aren't adding to my business you need to move onto the next girl.
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