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    Exclamation Positive vent!

    Just to clarify before I start my post: my old username was HSVKR. I'm not sure if it's still active but I decided to make a new one because I was always talking about my ex on there and it reminds me of the bs that I put up with. I hope that makes sense to some of you lol. I just wanted a clean slate.

    Anyway... I have been so happy lately! After I got out of my shit relationship I started dancing again and moved to a beautiful area! I am been single as a Pringles which feels AMAZING! I am so much more personable, and enjoy meeting people and also having my alone time. I don't mean to "brag" about my happiness or annoy anyone with my post, I just want to say that ever since I cut my mother, ex "best friends", and was done with my shitty bf I am finally starting to let good people in and I am so shocked at how much a difference it has made in me all around. I even look better? I love my life so much and I want to stay single for a LOOOONG TIME! If anyone has a toxic person or asshole in their life drop them, it's not worth it. I laugh more these days than I have in years. Sometimes it makes me cry thinking of how sad I was and I didn't even know it, I just thought that's how life was but I was wrong.


    What are you grateful for?
    1. My cats!
    2. My job!!!!
    3. My home
    4. My body and hair
    5. My good friends!
    6. Being able to travel
    7. FOOOOOOD
    8. Being young
    9. Sex, lol
    10. My cousins who love me

    sorry if this post is super obnoxious! But I thought something positive would maybe cheer someone up or inspire them to make a change. What are you grateful for?

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    I've discovered that a guy I wanted to marry a long time ago is now batshit insane- I now realize the heartbreak I mourned over like a idiot for years was the best thing that happened to me. In short the guy's not all the way in touch with reality and seems to be exhibiting signs of serious mental illness. I now realize life with him would have been unbearable. (I also know he didn't finish high school so some of his mistaken ideas actually stem from his not learning some basic info taught though grades 10-12.)

    In short, have faith in the Universe. In this culture we are taught to treat our romances like big deals when in reality some of these experiences are not meant to be more than a short term spark.

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    I'm grateful for my job as well, especially when my non-dancer friends talk about their vanilla jobs--the long, hard hours they work for so little compensation. I'm grateful for financial stability, that I could buy my baby all new winter clothes, coats and snow bibs without even looking at the price tags. Just months ago that wasn't possible. I'm grateful that I will not have to reapply for food stamps when they run out in February. Sitting in the DHS office for hours was a humbling experience and helped me to never judge anyone for needing help, but I'm so glad I don't have to do it again! I'm grateful for my husband who spoils me so much...He's always making me food and driving me places because he knows I hate driving here. He supports everything I do. Also (kind of silly) but I LOVE my new blonde hair and the fact that my baby weight is almost gone. My thighs don't rub together when I walk anymore. My confidence is high and I feel like a hottie. Life is good.

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    I'm soo happy You are back! I have lots to say on this very subject, but for now I'll leave you with this...7409904aeac9db7e35bc6e230b15b9a3.jpg

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    what a nice thread

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    I want to say that I really enjoyed this post! Bunnyxo is right about if you have toxic people in your life you need to get rid of them.I just decided to do that with someone for good because I haven't been appreciated as a good friend to her and I'm done.When all hell was breaking lose with her due to her poor choices in men...I was there to listen and unfortunately see some of that toxic drama...It's been over 2 months since I heard from her and then she calls me yesterday to tell me that she's not going to be cooking for Thanksgiving after all and OH...how busy she's been. I decided today to just delete her from my phone and after I had called her yesterday and left a vm and then called her again today and STILL never heard back from her...well I am DONE. I wished her a good life under my breathe and I'm moving on.I an grateful for the good friends that I do have left that do appreciate me and I'm good with that.No more toxic people in my life..

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    Oh man! I love threads like this.

    1. I am very grateful for my job, because it provides me means to be financially secure, to have fun and express my sexuality all at once.

    2. I am very grateful for my amazing body, because it works so well, it is beautiful and I LOVE being a woman!!

    3. I appreciate soooo much my awesome car, because it takes me everywhere I need and want to go, it is a BEAST and it runs very well.

    4. I am very grateful for the Stripperweb forums, without which I would probably be a clueless and broke barista still.

    5. I LOVE my apartment, because it gives me a little haven to call my own, to rest and relax with a cup of coffee and a good book (and wifi).

    6. I appreciate ANIMALS because they make me sooo happy because they are so wonderful!

    7. I appreciate my amazing friends, because they enrich my life and make the world more lively.

    8. I appreciate my family, because they support me in everything that I do, they are amazing and I am very grateful to have such a wonderful family.

    9. I appreciate coffee because it makes the world a better place.

    10. I am grateful for money, the symbolic exchange of energy, with which I can fund my travels, my makeup addiction, my alcohol dependence, my coffee habit, my clothing addiction, my hobbies and my priceless education.

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    Default Re: Positive vent!

    Quote Originally Posted by Bunnyxo View Post
    ever since I cut my mother, ex "best friends", and was done with my shitty bf I am finally starting to let good people in and I am so shocked at how much a difference it has made in me all around. ....If anyone has a toxic person or asshole in their life drop them, it's not worth it.
    Glad to hear you're much happier in life now.

    I agree people with their toxic attitudes can really be a drag but sometimes it's not so easy to ditch them. Those I can ditch I am glad that I can just love them from a distance and go on about my life. Those I can't ditch so easy like 'close' extended family members, etc. I just find everything within myself to deal with them maturely while working to change whatever in myself makes me feel negative when I am around them.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bunnyxo View Post
    What are you grateful for?
    That would be what I'm grateful for - having the mind that wants to learn something new and to constantly be evolving in life.

    I am thankful for holidays when most people are in the giving spirit. Keyword 'most' as I unfortunately have encountered a few ugly grinches.

    I am glad I can have a close relationship with my child and to see opportunities that I didn't have at that age.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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