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    Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions.

    I see several threads here lately about falling in love, regular's lying to girls & such.

    This is a sales job. If you owned a car dealership had a couple say buy a new car from you every 5 years. Of course, you would appreciate their repeat biz. But meanwhile, you have to sell 500 units a month. So all advertising, all efforts are put towards getting NEW sales, NEW customers.

    Remember that is your job, to get new guys to convert into a sale. You should be always promoting, hustling & getting new customers.

    Men lie. Men lie to get what they want, they think NOTHING of it. They have magazines like Maxim on how to lie to females in order to get laid without even taking them on a date or spending a dime. They tell each other what lines of bs work. You don't see men out to lunch or coffee with unattractive females cause they just want to be 'friends' with a woman. NO< we are all potential fucks.

    They are NOT logging onto cam sites to be your 'friend' cause 'friend' means FREE


    Men like to compete for a female's attention. Dont make it so easy for them.

    ALWAYS be CLOSING the DEAL Do you go to someone else's job, sit down & chat them up all day without a thought or care that they need to make a sale or work? NO, why? Cause it is rude. Yet, you will let a regular do it.

    Men log onto cam sites for ONE reason ONLY HORNY!!!! They want to get off, get their ego stroked or humiliated or whatever it takes to make them cum. They are dirty perverts looking to cum. Not their next wife or girlfriend, not their soul mate. They log on to get off. Ones who sit there all day talking & never spend a dime, do NOT have a JOB or money and are wasting YOUR TIME & thus $$$.

    Now, you may think I hate men, but I don't. I love them. But I don't lie to myself about their intentions. I just try to play the game better & they recognize, admire a female who will call them on their bs & who plays the game better. They don't look down upon guys who married a gold digger cause she will be hot & knows what she wants out of life. They admire her for it. Only ones who hate is because they know nothing that hot & good in bed is FREE.

    I don't care how much money they spend on me, I deserve MORE! I am worth it. Getting to know a guy on cam, think he is cute, but feel guilty about taking his money... AS IF! I feel no guilt what-so-ever. Cause if he isnt spending it on you, he will be spending it on someone else. Why not YOU!

    I kid my Mom all the time about raising me right to be nice, fair & polite, to never demand or talk about money with a man. I tell her she was WRONG!

    A friend of mine logged onto camming for the first time the other night. She was BRAND new & didn't know the game. These guys started tipping her big in free chat so she got naked & did a whole show. Thinking that she was making thousands in such a short period of time. Logging off of chat to check her stats & seeing NOTHING.. Contacted admin to complain, to figure out what happen. Guess what? and many of you already know just like I did when she told the story. ALL FAKE TIPS, those guys in free chat scammed her.

    If you are NOT working them, they are working you. When they are not working you, they are working another girl either on that site or another. "It's NoT personal, it's business" to quote "The Godfather">

    Go make that $$$,
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    Sam, you really are the BEST!! I wish I knew females in real life with your thought process. It would be thrilling to be acquainted with someone who thinks as you do.

    Like really....

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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    YES!!!! This is so much truth. Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting it.

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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    #gospel #church

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Now, you may think I hate men, but I don't. I love them. But I don't lie to myself about their intentions.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    My grandma told me it was better to be a rich mans play thing than a poor mans slave

    Thank you Sam for your sharing your wisdom on SW - it is so helpful to newbie's finding their way and reminders to the old pro's


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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post

    Men lie. Men lie to get what they want, they think NOTHING of it. They have magazines like Maxim on how to lie to females in order to get laid without even taking them on a date or spending a dime. They tell each other what lines of bs work. You don't see men out to lunch or coffee with unattractive females cause they just want to be 'friends' with a woman. NO< we are all potential fucks.
    This times 1000. There is a whole culture of PUA's who devote their free time to manipulating women into sleeping with them. Guys really think nothing of using us.. I know, I just got of a personal relationship with a HUGE user, and have gotten fucked over in a major way.
    But I needed it to happen- all sympathy went out the window. No more thoughts like, "Well he spent so much already... I'll feel bad if I take anymore..." Fuck that!

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    I totally agree...

    Regulars are great for consistency and long term income but new customers are just as important too. Never know when a regular stops coming in or when you need to ditch a regular for acting up/not spending money and you need a pool of new customers to find a new regular.

    Finding new customers should be easy as long as you don't work in a dead a$$ club/shift
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Quite simply, we're using Ho-Tactics. And Sam has clearly mastered this! Amen to all the above.

    You control your camming destiny. You control the cost of your pussy...you can be Walmart pussy or Neiman Marcus pussy...it's your choice. The men who waste your time by talking to you in free chat and who don't spend money on you are window shoppers. Either they don't want your product or they can't afford you and in either case they are not worth your time. They have zero value.

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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    this thread should be a sticky


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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    You're so right! I'm on Streamate since about 2 months and every time I log in, I have some guys saying sooo many compliments, they are all very sweet. However, 5-6 minutes later: "You look so beautiful, would you show me your boobs?".
    It's always a pleasure to answer "No" with a great smile, haha

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    Default Re: Regular's are great, but sales are about NEW acquisitions

    Personally, I'm getting better and better at ignoring them and giving them as little attention as possible unless they're paying. It's easy being a bitter bitch!

    Great post Sam!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nastia View Post
    You're so right! I'm on Streamate since about 2 months and every time I log in, I have some guys saying sooo many compliments, they are all very sweet. However, 5-6 minutes later: "You look so beautiful, would you show me your boobs?".
    It's always a pleasure to answer "No" with a great smile, haha
    Actually, the answer should be "Sure, baby in private or exclusive". Always be closing the deal.

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    I HEARD THAT !!I mentor newbies and as I have always said this is A SALES JOB !! i go in and let them how I use to do telemarketing to hard/cold sales and sometimes id have bad days and some great ones but NEVER could anyone of the home owners get FREE work done !! a free estimate yes but not the goods I learned many things in sales that has helped me maintain in camming understand the number one rule in sales besides supply and demand is BUYERS ARE LIARS!! I love your post thank you for putting the way ya did claps hands** kisses all the way in cali!

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    aint that the truth .. my my my .. =)

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    Sam38g I love love love reading your posts, you always hit the nail on the head! This particular post is so true and should be 'bible' to ALL cam girls, actually ALL women!
    I once told my youngest daughter to find a rich man so she would never have to work, my eldest daughters response was 'no baby sister, work hard at school so you can get yourself the best paid job possible and won't have to rely on anyone, let alone a man!' I don't know how she got so cool, but the irony is she is marrying into a very wealthy family next year lol.
    Anyway I feel your post should not only be used as a lesson for new girls but also a reminder for us veterans. Would you mind if I quoted your post in the private area of another camming forum? I think it would be very much appreciated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    This times 1000. There is a whole culture of PUA's who devote their free time to manipulating women into sleeping with them. Guys really think nothing of using us..
    Fuck yes. I didn't realise just how bad it had got until a programme came on the TV (here in England) called "Dapper Laughs On The Pull". The title didn't make any sense to me, until I saw a trailer of it, and realised "Dapper Laughs" was the name of the male presenter.....ermmmm....yes. Anyway, he's this cheeky chappy who shows other young men how to pull women with almost just the snap of your fingers. Literally no flirt or tease, just out with the "let me take your number" to random ladies on the street! Massive PUA, on my TV, showing guys how they too can become a PUA. Urgh.

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    I really needed to hear this. The other day a big spender was pushing to get me to go against the TOS, so I told him to fuck himself. He obviously left in a diva huff. But then I spent the better part of a day worrying that I'd lost a regular, now what, blah-blah-blah?

    The reality is that there are hundreds of men going past my chatroom every day, and a decent percentage of them could turn out to be non-fuckwit customers. No regretting telling off fuckwits for this girl.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DancesWithSloths View Post
    I really needed to hear this. The other day a big spender was pushing to get me to go against the TOS, so I told him to fuck himself. He obviously left in a diva huff. But then I spent the better part of a day worrying that I'd lost a regular, now what, blah-blah-blah?

    The reality is that there are hundreds of men going past my chatroom every day, and a decent percentage of them could turn out to be non-fuckwit customers. No regretting telling off fuckwits for this girl.
    Also some guys like to be told off/ stood up to ect (even if they don't realise/admit it).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Heid009 View Post
    Also some guys like to be told off/ stood up to ect (even if they don't realise/admit it).
    So true.


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    It isn't a matter of telling off regulars, but remembering no matter what they say, it is our job to make it a sale.

    Never be pushed beyond your boundaries or TOS, not worth losing this job or being suspended. If they do that & have to be blocked or they leave in a huff you can't focus on it & have regrets but move onto the next sale.

    Even men who come in & hate on me, crack me up. I do NOT take it personally, but will try to turn them into a paid customer. Then it is a victory for me, if they dont & I see no hope, will quickly cut my losses & block them. Instantly, refocus on being happy & making the next sale.

    When on cam, we should focus on sales. Sales to new guys, sales to regulars. Don't get emotionally involved. Do NOT take it personally. Always be moving to the next sale.
    Dont get caught up in their lines of bs. Don't get caught up in visiting with them in free chat.

    After each private or exclusive if they stay a bit after cumming to thank you & say good bye. Remind them a tip would be great or at the very least write a good review or give you 5 stars. After each gold show when they flood back into free chat remind them tips are a great way to thank you for a satisfying gold show. Even if it is $5 or they may surprise you & tip $100, makes for a better day & gets them in the habit. Also others may see that tip & think they need to tip you too.

    Don't get caught up in their bs, cause it is their game, your game is to make money. Not to hate on them for it. Recognize it is a game & have fun with it. They want what they can get for free, you job is to flip the script & get them to spend money & be grateful for it cause you are worth it.

    It is easy to get caught up with the regulars, you know they have spent money at least once & forget to focus also on new guys who come into free chat. When you visit with regulars & it is easy to see that there is history you may alienate new customers who are to shy & think you are busy visiting with the regular to go private with them. They want to be polite & not interrupt the conversation.

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    Unless it is part of a hustle I am running --- I will personally never tell off a customer because it can completely change the vibe of your room if you aren't doing it correctly. Do you really want guys who might be future prospects to see your face twisted and anger in your voice just because it feels good to tell a troll off?

    Yes, you will see some girls telling guys off in their room and being successful at it......but the ones that are most successful with this hustle never sound angry or screechy. Just bored and self-confident.


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    I still don't want them to think I'm horrible and not come into paid with me.

    I don't do shit for free, I don't stand twirl or any of that crap without gold or in paid, but after 5 minutes when I tell them not to lurk, most fuck off. Very irritating.

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    This is why I love that we can set time restrictions for free chat on AW! Love the thought of the guy having a sneaky wank in freechat then getting kicked just before he reaches the point of no return and knowing he can't come back for 24 hours lol
    Also this is the reason I don't show my face or have audio in freechat, they can't see my pissed off face and they can't hear the names I am calling them, still I can be horrible in type too, but only when it's absolutely necessary. We all have the guys that say 'you're sooo expensive' 'drop your price and I'll take you pvt for ages' 'I'm a student I can't afford to pay' I just say 'sweety if I am out of your price range then I'm afraid I am also out of your league' Then I use the kick button. I think this response is one of the best, it lets the guys know you are not messing around, it puts the cheap guy down without coming across as being horrible/nasty to the others and it gives you a boost, you are stating you are better then him, works for me anyway lol
    Quote Originally Posted by beauvoir View Post
    I still don't want them to think I'm horrible and not come into paid with me.

    I don't do shit for free, I don't stand twirl or any of that crap without gold or in paid, but after 5 minutes when I tell them not to lurk, most fuck off. Very irritating.
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    "Sweety if I am out of your price range then I'm afraid I am also out of your league." - Missymissdemeanour

    Fucking right on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Missymissdemeanour View Post
    'sweety if I am out of your price range then I'm afraid I am also out of your league'
    Best. Thing. Ever. I think I fucking love you.

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