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    Default Paypal & Cheapskates

    When a customer asks for a free preview but you tell him no, then he says he wants to pay by paypal instead of niteflirt, is that a good sign that's he's being cheap? Because I read up on paypal and from a blog (I can't remember which) this girl advised against using paypal because the customer can easily dispute the charges and get his money back and your account will be suspended and you will be banned from ever having a paypal account ever again. I have never been in this situation so I'm not an expect but the girl sounded insightful.

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    Yes.

    I'll put it this way: I've had quite a few good customers who initially asked for a free preview or for Paypal. (Neither of which I've ever obliged.) Some guys genuinely have had bad experiences with other girls or don't want a porn site showing up on their statement. However, if they're one of those decent, reasonable guys who aren't trying to scam you, then they'll listen to reason and will be open to alternatives. I'm verified on my main site, with lots of 5 star reviews, and if that doesn't persuade them I offer a (clothed) preview for a deposit. I also explain that (whatever site they found me on) is very discreet about billing.

    If that doesn't persuade them (and it won't for most of them--those are your cheapskates and/or scammers) then don't waste any more time on them.

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    You cant use Paypal for adult transactions. They are clear on that in their TOS and will shut your account down when they find out. NiteFlirt will also ban you if they find you having customers from NF pay you for phone or shows other than their site.

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    Depends. I don't condone using it but I have in the past and no one has ever cheapskated me because I don't play that. However, if you tell the guy your price no matter what you use if he balks at it, he's cheap period. PP doesn't condone adult transactions but some people still do it and don't have any issues. I'm again not condoning it but their reasonings for using pp could be to ask for cheap prices, or not. It depends on the guy. It's up to you if you want to take that risk or not.




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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    I have only used niteflirt to pay for my shows, and have never used paypal because of what i read on another cam girl's blog.

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    Not only will paypal ban your account if they find out, but they'll fine you $500 and if it isn't in your account they can take it from your linked bank account and even send debt collectors after you if you haven't got it. If that wasn't enough, guys can see all of your personal address details.

    DONT DO IT!!!
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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    Quote Originally Posted by KarilynDoll View Post
    When a customer asks for a free preview but you tell him no...
    Based upon my experience, every dude who asks for paypal or previews seeks only free attention; he can't afford anything more.

    Neurotic record-keeping has a purpose; it cut out all the broke losers.

    Never let a guy feel like you'll jump through hoops to gain his favor.He pays via the method you desire or he can kindly fuck off.

    For clients who find you elsewhere and need a payment method:

    in terms of US payment alternatives:

    Moneypak- with US clients, 100% payout, no cb risk

    Giftrocket- chargeback/NFSF/No Sufficient Funds/Do Not Honor Issue

    CCBill/Verotel/Epoch- 85% payout plus $1000 yearly credit card fee

    LCMS- 80-85% dependent upon volume, $100 weekly threshold for 85% on the total, no yearly cc fees

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    For niteflirt listings, I only pay through niteflirt and don't have any intentions of seeking any other forms of payments. I don't even accept purchases on my amazon gift list as payment. The gift list is just something optional they can purchase me if they enjoyed our niteflirt billed sessions. Besides if I actually did accept payment for niteflirt sessions via any other means other than niteflirt (such as paypal and gift list) then I would be breaking the rules that would lead to account suspension. I don't plan on breaking those rules.

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    Default Re: Paypal & Cheapskates

    Thanks for the heads up, but I never planned on using it.
    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    Not only will paypal ban your account if they find out, but they'll fine you $500 and if it isn't in your account they can take it from your linked bank account and even send debt collectors after you if you haven't got it. If that wasn't enough, guys can see all of your personal address details.

    DONT DO IT!!!

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