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    Sad advice/vent: New Manager is a Nightmare!!

    For the sake of anyone I know reading this I'm going to use fake names
    My club recently got a new dayshift manager, we'll call him Asshole, and at first he seemed alright. Helpful, asking the dancer's opinions on things, etc. But as time goes by, he is showing his true colors. Idk where to even start so I'll just list the situations I've personally witnessed...

    A customer who's been frequenting the club is coming through the door, and as soon as asshole sees him, he puts his hand in his pocket and clearly has a baggie of some sort .customer walks over, and the exchange the not so subtle exchange, and customer puts baggie in his pocket. He hands Asshole two 20 dollar bills... So from my experience, he's selling drugs to our customers.... I will also note, I'm sure it was drugs since said customer was geeked up 45 mins later.

    Next, Asshole is showing me pictures of something on his phone while I'm sitting at the bar. He's getting bad reception so he gets irritated. Out of nowhere he slams his phone down on the bar and literally starts screaming at it. He tries again, still no reception, he then proceeds to stand up and throw his phone halfway across the club. Keep in mind, there were customers in the club at this time.

    A buddy stripper of mine was looking for a floorman to walk her back to VIP and she couldn't find him. She sees Asshole and asks him if he can do it (wouldn't be the first time a manager has played VIP host) he looks at her and says "well, where's Bill?..... Oh wait there his, over there running his cocksucker" instead of saying mouth...All in front of the customer.


    Next, Asshole initiates conversation with the bartender, and after a minute he says "you have customers get the fuck back to work" she thinks he's joking around because it was so awkward, and comes back with "no, you get the fuck back to work haha" he screams across the bar "I'M YOUR FUCKING BOSS, DON'T YOU EVER FUCKING ARGUE WITH ME" She looks at him like he's crazy, obviously. He walks away,literally pushing through customers, and yells "I swear to god I'm gonna beat this dumb bitch's ass"

    I have worked at this club for 3 years, i have alot of regulars here. I dont want to have to leave our old manager went on to pursue a different career and it sucks because he was the best man I've ever worked for. Quiet, professional , all around a great manager. WTF do I do about this nutcase?? I've never liked my job, but now I dread work for a whole new reason.

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    Default Re: advice/vent: New Manager is a Nightmare!!

    Three words abt this mgr: Ticking. Time. Bomb.

    Can you & the other dancers/staff not bring a complaint against him to his higher-ups? If it's not possible to fix the situation from w/in, then find another (read: safer) club & take your regulars w/ you.

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    I'm not even sure how to complain or who to complain to. I'm worried complaining might not do anything, but then he will find out about it and I'll be his next target.... And what sucks is while some staff and dancers is aware of his behavior, others are totally oblivious to it and think he's the best thing since sliced bread since he puts on this charade. He reminds me of an episode of Friends when Rachel dates Ben Stiller and everyone loves him, but then Ross sees he's a total rageaholic! I'm just so conflicted about it.

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    Then fk it & take your regulars sm place else. The last thing you need to be worrying abt is walking on eggshells around this guy & praying you don't end up in the wrong place at the wrong time, & end up injured or fired.

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    This describes half of the management at my club. The two good managers text me their shifts at the beginning of the week and I will only come in when one of them is in charge or at least there to witness the asshattery. In February, if I'm still dancing, I will be going elsewhere.

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    He's obviously on drugs or something. Call the owner and tell him this manager is selling drugs and alienating customers and workers. I doubt the owner wants to get busted by cops over a $12/hour employee. I've seen many a manager and bouncer get fired over less.

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    Default Re: advice/vent: New Manager is a Nightmare!!

    We're dealing with this same situation at my club. Old manager was amazing, left, new manager is a complete nightmare. Within a week of starting he's managed to piss off almost every girl. Two people have quit, and a few others are threatening to. I have no idea what to do except keep my head down.

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