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    Default Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    I would definitely like an answer to this question as well. I was just about to post and ask the same thing. I'm currently in CT. It's so so here. Very cheap clientele with very few good ones in the mix. Providence sucks. Boston area is very racist. And New York is very over saturated with girls that it's difficult to stand out. I'm thinking about trying New Jersey soon, but I heard you have to be very careful there. Where are you from?

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    Yea, me too. But I hate stripping and I honestly suck at it since I don't have much of a hustle. I've read numerous articles and posts from other escorts, and they make it all seem so easy, but I have yet to hear that a black girl has made 3k a week easily. It honestly makes me feel sorry for myself. I feel like I'm at a disadvantage in anything I choose to do in the adult industry because I'm black. Regardless, I still have money that needs to be made and a family to take care of so I'm not giving up.

    I've read so many interesting things about touring and I'd like to with my new rates, but it will have to wait until I have more saved up.

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    Find a hook. Something to make you stand out.

    I work with a few black girls who are top earners. They don't brand themselves as black. But exotic - and have interesting back stories about where they are from.

    They are not model like but real women with flaws.

    One girl has a huge butt. Guys love it. Another one has great massage and builds rapport and keeps things very interesting.

    One thing that comes to mind is mixed race porn? I know zero about it except its meant to be hugely popular. So could you do doubles with a white girl?

    Or something along those lines.

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    I have to play devils advocate here...

    In reality there is disadvantage for black women in stripping industry especially where beauty is concerned and the common ideal of white standard of beauty still prevalent. And the idea that being mixed or being 'less black' makes one more attractive to me is archaic nonsense. I mean if you have a pretty face, a pretty body, and a good attitude then you are attractive no matter what skin tone you are.

    Some people will try to tell you there is less demand for black women but I believe there IS a demand you just have to have confidence you'll find these opportunities.

    If I was you would want to go places where its more culturally diverse and larger market for escorts. Maybe atlanta or houston or vegas?
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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    well wherever you land try to charge in like with what other escorts of your caliber and experience in the area are charging. Best of luck to you.
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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    I heard that Atl is over saturated with black escorts and dancers. I was thinking about touring DC and VA some time after the holidays. I heard there's good money there.

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    DC/NOVA has great money!




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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    I just started working in ATL. There is definetly a lot of competition but you can make money here. Especially advertising yourself as NEW and here for a limited time. I have a large amount of black men as regulars. When I've worked in other cities that was never the case.

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    I actually used to consider dancing but I'm out of shape I'm an ebony and everything depends on attitude, personality & looks.Black women are considered sort of like taboo(to a few other ethnicities). Yes there is always a demand for something different including black women.Yes we have to work harder but it is possible to make $$$$, and it can be done.How do you look?How do you present yourself? All these things play a role too. Don't give up, just keep pushing.
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    Yea, me too. But I hate stripping and I honestly suck at it since I don't have much of a hustle. I've read numerous articles and posts from other escorts, and they make it all seem so easy, but I have yet to hear that a black girl has made 3k a week easily. It honestly makes me feel sorry for myself. I feel like I'm at a disadvantage in anything I choose to do in the adult industry because I'm black. Regardless, I still have money that needs to be made and a family to take care of so I'm not giving up.

    I've read so many interesting things about touring and I'd like to with my new rates, but it will have to wait until I have more saved up.
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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    If youre open to overseas travel I heard of black escorts literally bathing in money in Australia. There's one girl I follow on twitter thats currently touring there and it sounds like shes the best thing since sliced bread over there. At one point on twitter she mentioned getting 3 overnights in a row, and her rates are right on par with the other white girls.

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    Many cities in the Upper Midwest. Don't wanna name them since Law Enforcement has been cracking down lately, but they are mentioned on regional hobby boards. Classy WOC are a rarity up here. Also a lot of the better clients are married men who pay well because their marriages to small town Midwestern frigid fat women are suffocating/miserable and they are deeply grateful for the services of an organized, exotic traveling girl.

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy1 View Post
    I'm also following a black escort on twitter who's touring Australia. It looks like she's banking there.
    We're following the same girl then LOL!

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    What's her twitter name? Lol I'm curious cause I've been approached by Australians that told me I would make good money in Australia if I danced there. I wasn't sure of the laws and if they would hire Americans. I've met allot last summer in Hawaii but I've never left the country before and I'm slightly intimidated ha

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    According to what U heard, WOC's are Killing it in south France!


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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    Ladies, don't believe the hype. Yes, black women DO clean up just as much or as more as other backgrounds. Ask for what you want and the right clients will seek you out and won't balk at your rates.




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    I want to second what Kourtney Kay just said. I am a Black American Woman and I love my own heritage and am pretty patriotic! I absofuckinglutely REFUSE to pretend to be "exotic" as those other ethnicity/nationalities are not more valuable or special. While I have only been dabbling in escorting, I find that I may not have a high volume of clients but, the guys I have attracted and booked have usually been excellent,loyal,long-term suitors that have supported my endeavors and have provided me with almost sugar type relationships.

    I do believe Black Women may have more challenges but they are not insurmountable. You HAVE to present well,invest and master marketing (which I have not lol). For example, I am SEARCHING for an assistant that is a marketing mistress, creating a significant advertising budget and still researching heavily after 4 years. You may also need to travel a few days a week to a very receptive market. We must keep in mind this isn't a hustle or get rich quick thing. Its a business and requires a lot of planning, discipline and investment. If you are lacking but serious, I think hiring and outsourcing the support you need will pay off.

    Again don't be fooled, self defeating or discouraged. The number of views my photos, website and ads don't lie. Nor do the covert stares and lusty looks I get from all sorts of men out in public. It may be a possibility that some guys are scared of something different, have to overcome their own racist upbringing or whatever. But, Black Women are certainly wanted and have a market.

    Keep in mind, I'm speaking from the viewpoint of a 36 y.o. mother. I am not young, my body is flawed nor do I fit the typical standard of beauty. But, I've had success, fun and awesome experiences in this and you can too. Also, while it maybe slower, I find that marketing myself mid-range, avoiding most practices that would be considered low end (Ss,Hh,rates under $250, instant appointments etc.) and not being desperate for money has really made a positive difference in my experiences vs. others I know in the industry.
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    ^^^^This! i REFUSE to down my background and say I'm "mixed" just to make extra money! It is kind of hard,especially whenever you're of a darker skin tone...but I'll be damned if I down my "blackness".
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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    don't come out this way...I live in the DMV area and honestly, being a black girl here is basically saying, I'm ok with sitting around for hours and going home with nothing, possibly being felt up, and insulted on a constant basis... Baltimore sucks, stadium is the only club in DC that's high end that will accept black girls,VA is pretty much if you're not white you're not right... so I'm not trying to be a soul crusher but that's about it, I regret leaving California so much cos I always walked away with something vs.... nothing

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    Default Re: Best Cities for a Black/Mixed Escort?

    I've heard CHicago is good, but screening is complicated there. Make sure you have a good screener or verification protocol.

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    Also, i've heard from girls who have traveled that the UK loves women of color don't know what it will be like now that there economy collapsed but it's worth a look-see.

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    I understand your points about dancing in the DMV as I have danced(BIG haha) in the area many years ago and you aren't wrong but keep in mind, I think this post is about a completely different sector of Sex Work i.e. escorting. And there are huge differences between the two.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kballar View Post

    Keep in mind, I'm speaking from the viewpoint of a 36 y.o. mother. I am not young, my body is flawed nor do I fit the typical standard of beauty..
    Well of course. Black Women don't age. I advertise myself almost 10 years younger than my actual age. That to me is the biggest advantage= longevity in a business that values youth.

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    I have to chime in here and remind you ladies about the old saying from Henry Ford "Whether you think you can. Or think you Can't. You're Right". I've worked incalls in the Philly and NYC where you have to line up and the client chooses, so there's no saying you're background, you just say hi I'm Sugar or whatever you decide to be that moment in time and I would see women of color getting picked all the time. I did phones for an outcall agency and one of the top earners was a Lady of Color she had many regulars and requests. Hell, I even took a stab at one of those legal brothels in nevada for a week (couldn't hack it there) and the Black Ladies got picked many times. They were even trying to give me pointers because the custies weren't having Me at all LoL.

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