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    Ok so, I have been camming for about two months now. I am married and try to do this while my kiddo is at school and after he goes to bed. Def don't want this getting in the way of my regular life. However how do some of you ladies handle your husbands/bfs/gfs? I don't care if husband watches but sometimes he will just poke his head in and out to see what I am doing it completely distracts me :/ I don't want to hurt his feelings and be like stop doing that but for once I have no idea what to say or do when I am on and he is home! When everyone is home I just don't get on and then feel like I am missing out on the money I could have been making! When I danced he never came and watched me but because I do this from my home he is always in and out, great sometimes, but when I get these idiots that are like 5 min privates it's so distracting!

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    Have a chat with him and tell him what you just told us. Like any work at home job you need to handle it professionally and ask your family to respect that this is 'work time'. I can't help with the kids issue as I don't have any, but my oh is wonderful at just ignoring what's going on upstairs while I'm working. Yet he's happy to jump in and 'help' in whatever way is needed when asked x
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    if you're afraid you'll hurt his feelings, you can tell him to please knock/send you a whatsapp if he needs something, because you can get in trouble for having unauthorized people, even off screen.

    I get you and it's a hangup I have to overcome, because it's keeping me from camming at nights.

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    There's no way around it but to the point. Say 'hey buddy, when I'm working, that's off limits'. Be sure to say it with a smile. It's amazing what you can say and get away with when you do it with a smile.
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    my wifey is sometimes there....she actually acts as a second set of eyes alot of times, checks my feed, if traffic slows suddenly she'll check to see if someone is running or about to run a gold show or something. Really having her around has generally been a big help in sorta keeping ahead of whats going on since she can spy ^_^ Also led to more tha a fw funny stories when I get the idiots and all I can hear from her is her falling out of her chair upstairs and cackling her ass off. *nods

    when It came to camming it was actually her idea to start with, shes the one who looked around and did major homework on different sites to figure out which may work best, shes the one who watched others at first to get a good idea on how things worked before she had me do the same and so on , being the organizational ocd sort too she also keeps track of all the analytical information, like time of day vs traffic vs spending and so on so atleast in my situation I love the fact that shes involved. if shes not in the room to whisper me things, she also just texts the phone


    that said I cant really say much more than what the others have basically said, I simply add- its a business in the end, and its a team thing when your in a relationship. It shouldn't really ever be an issue when both are on the same page. May even not be too bad of an idea to get him involved in a way eventually by asking him for creative input and ideas for new gimmicks and such.
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    I go to work, shut the door and he sees me again when I finish my shift, unless I nip downstairs for a drink. It's that simple, it my job and I don't bother him at his! These days I rarely work when he's home though, as he works 60+ hour weeks and I like us to spend our days off together.

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    My man works at home, too. I know it depends on your personal relationship, but I have found that an honest heart to heart conversation helps! Make sure he still feels loved, but phrase it with a logical cause and effect.

    Ex: When you come into my workspace, it makes me feel interrupted and if a customer sees/hears you I could loose my account.

    When you do x, it make me feel y and results in z.

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    Thanks guys! He has helped with looking into different things and what not. It's not all the time that he does it but I have noticed that when he does it def gets in the way and I have tried to tell him hey guess what I just lost a private cause you came in here, even though your quiet they still watch what I am doing and notice that I notice you in here. I used to dance, he's never came to watch me dance and it's probably a good thing too cause I would have been distracted.

    Usually he's gone during the days but a lot of the time he comes home and then I am just done for cause I can't concentrate...anywho when we get home I will have a talk with him. I have my goals I want and etc and when it interferes with that I get all bitchy LOL.

    I even set up our upstairs bedroom as my "playroom" and I am just not happy in there...so I cam in our room when I have the house to myself and have noticed a bit of a difference.

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    Also, do any of you say yes I am married when customers ask? I try to pull it off as a oh that's none of your business with a "does it really matter" remark and some get mouthy with me and it's all I can do to not jump through the computer and strangle them lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridget Gives View Post
    Also, do any of you say yes I am married when customers ask? I try to pull it off as a oh that's none of your business with a "does it really matter" remark and some get mouthy with me and it's all I can do to not jump through the computer and strangle them lol.
    I try to feel the customer out and tell them yes or no depending on if I think it will make a sale. Usually I say no. They are paying for a fantasy, not real life so whatever works.


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    Yeah I have been playing the whole "Does it really matter" attitude with it but I these assholes just piss me off with their comments LOL. Sometimes I say yes and sometimes I say no...this has all def been a learning experience for me!


    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I try to feel the customer out and tell them yes or no depending on if I think it will make a sale. Usually I say no. They are paying for a fantasy, not real life so whatever works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridget Gives View Post
    Also, do any of you say yes I am married when customers ask? I try to pull it off as a oh that's none of your business with a "does it really matter" remark and some get mouthy with me and it's all I can do to not jump through the computer and strangle them lol.
    I tell them the truth. I wouldn't be able to lie to everyone, and I can't handle telling the truth to some and lying to others. Frequently, they just say "lucky guy," or "I hope he fucks you well" or whatever. To be honest, most guys think it's hot that I'm married and cam.
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    Yeah I will do that if I am not in the mood to play it up.....I can't stand the assholes who come in there and start on how your a horrible wife your doing this and blah blah, well sugar my husband and I are swingers...its not any of your concern....but its so frustrating. Or I am just super high strung LOL


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    I tell them the truth. I wouldn't be able to lie to everyone, and I can't handle telling the truth to some and lying to others. Frequently, they just say "lucky guy," or "I hope he fucks you well" or whatever. To be honest, most guys think it's hot that I'm married and cam.

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    take it easy. It's none, NONE, of their concern. Tell them you're married to a goat. Tell them you're married to a girl. Tell them you're a nun during the day. Fuck with their minds don't let them fuck with yours.

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    You are taking it way to personal.

    You don't have to answer every question.

    Change the subject. Flirt, be fun, move onto a question that you can convert into a sale.

    I'm not married, but when they ask I tell them I dont discuss my personal life. Then smile, shake the boobs or booty, men are easily distracted.

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    Thanks, I've been trying to do that. When I get back from vacation I am def changing somethings. LOL I generally say well, I have a husband, bf, gf, two dogs and a cat...what else would you like to know. I guess some nights I feel like a smartass and some I just don't want to deal with it...when I have nights like that I try not to even get on cause I can be a real bitch :/

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    My hubby is ok with it. He's supportive when I do well and whines when I don't. lol go figure! But if I tell him I'm going on cam he stays out of the room. He will sit in the livingroom and watch TV. I come out on break to get a drink or a snack and I get a bear hug and a kiss. Every now and then he will do something stupid that will be a distraction to me and it will piss me off so bad that I have to log off and then I lay into him for days about it because I have ZERO tolerance for the crap he's pulling when he does this.

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    when it comes to telling them Im married? yeah I do actually, and mention my wife, and my boy toy.....because they instantly translate that into some wild wicked constant 3somes at all times with me in the middle- in their minds and that seems to get them more hot and bothered.

    I dont mention Im also a parent of two though >.>
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