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    Hello,

    I just want to ask if you had these customers who wants to do role play in prvt like.. you will pretend to be young.. Like 16 or younger than that.

    I often get requests like that but then they always end up asking me in prvt "How old are you now baby girl?" or something like that.

    I don't know how to answer because i am worried that it might put me in trouble. So most of the time they leave because of that.

    Have you experienced privates like that? and what did you do or how do you answer to that question?.

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    If they ask for younger then 18 I type & say out loud it's against site rules and ban them. I don't mess around with this, same goes for rape & animal play or incest. I get rape & incest requests often. If they leave you shitty feedback for not doing their creepy request screen capping the conversation covers your ass. You can also repot them through their profile tab on SM and say you have a screen cap. When I have guys asking this in open I call them out and say something like, "you need help, help I cannot offer you. I'm going to screen cap your ass now and report you. Wise asking this with your credit card on file. Let's see what admin does when I report you.". Don't feel bad about not doing the request even if they being nice in open, it was going to be a long show or whatever. These guys are scum.

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    Yea I don't get how girls get age play tags... I don't care to do it as long as I don't acknowledge I'm underage and they don't acknowledge it as well like keep it to yourself weirdo . But most want you to admit and talk about it... I always say 18 youngest that's it, if you wanna imagine me younger keep it to yourself in pvt because once u tell me I will ban you
    I know some guys will try and say I'm your stepdad instead but I'm still weary about that borderline stuff.. I always say I can call you sir or mr.
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    That's true. I've seen girls with age play tags and I'm thinking... how could that be? But well... I've seen girls doing lots of "not allowed" staff. They eventually will get caught and be suspended or banned.

    If a guy asks me that, I will ban and report him. Pedos belong in hell!

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    those guys are fun and loyal and I've had some great night's on cam simply running them around in circles by saying 'so tell me more about your fantasy', 'how would you like this to go?', 'mmm you like me sucking my thumb like that?' and looking cute. You don't need to say an age, answer their questions, or engage with them in any way that is incriminating. If they can't be swayed off track and keep insisting on you telling them how young you are you can simply say 'I'm your biggest fantasy' then a little wink, or if you're not comfortable with that then just 'I'm a naughty girl, barely turned 18/ whatever older age.... you like being my older guy do you Sir?'

    The ones who keep insisting on a specific age are trying to shock you. They get off on your reaction x
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    "Performer agrees that s/he will not violate any law concerning obscenity. Performer shall not portray depictions of sex involving any person under the age of eighteen." Just say it's against the rules and don't offer taboo shows.
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    That's true. I've seen girls with age play tags and I'm thinking... how could that be?
    Voice ... demeanor ... there's ways around it. Or because they make a lot of money for the site. Money talks over anything.

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    There's nothing morally wrong with age play. It's frequently done in the kink community and I engage in it myself.

    However, in my opinion, there's something morally objectionable when a customer insists on you saying you're under eighteen. Frankly, when I mention I will not do it, they tend to leave before I get the chance to block them.

    As for "depicting yourself as a minor", I've always thought the rule was ambiguous.
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    I just flat out said NO. The word 'NO' is a complete sentence. I don't feel comfortable with the underage thing. It's against my moral compass.
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    I noticed a few front page girls that would have their profiles etc say things like daddy's girl or whatever not have that on their profiles anymore. I think SM reviewed some of these profiles because some of the "daddy girls" are no longer promoting that. I think that age play may also overlap with baby fetish, like diaper, mommy type thing? I can't really speak much for that one, but pedo requests make my skin crawl. Maybe it's just me, but there is no way would I feel ok accepting money from this type of show.
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    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    ... As for "depicting yourself as a minor", I've always thought the rule was ambiguous.
    I do believe in porn/adult work when they use the term "minor" it means under 18. It's a pretty clear cut straight forward concept.

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    This 100%! There is nothing ambiguous about "minor".
    Quote Originally Posted by Prussia View Post
    I do believe in porn/adult work when they use the term "minor" it means under 18. It's a pretty clear cut straight forward concept.
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    I do age play. I don't mind acting young (like, high school young--super young gives me the creeps and is just not worth the money for me.) However I tell them straight up that I can't say any specific age under 18. If they try that "How old are you now, baby girl?" shit then (depending on the vibe I'm getting from them) I'll either say that I'm a teen girl (in a sexy way) and change the subject/try and distract them or if they keep pushing I'll tell them "I told you I can't say that I'm under 18. Stop asking." Normally I don't like to break character during a roleplay but they need to know that I am totally comfortable killing their boner if they try to violate my limits.

    Luckily, I can't remember the last time I've had to do that because I am super fucking clear with them from the beginning. If you give them an inch they'll take a mile, so decide your limits and communicate them.

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    I work in AW and have my free chat disabled...so most of the time customers come in and boom they ask me those things and most of the time they only stay up to 3 minutes..

    I don't mind it as long as they won't ask me what my age ( the age they want) so most of them time i said. Just how old you want me to be etc. but then they leave after that.

    that's why i am asking what do you do in that kind of situation.

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    Let them leave then. There are ways to handle this kind of thing diplomatically... Dodging the question then distracting them like I described is a good tactic and works with most guys. However if they just can't get off without you jeopardizing your livelihood and your future (I'd be very concerned about the legal ramifications of producing porn in which you say you're 14 or whatever) then you can't help them.

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    Whoops, sorry, I shouldn't have assumed you work on Streamate. Ignore my other my post then. I don't work on AW, but I know they have something in their clause about taboo/age-play.

    If you don't feel comfortable with the age just say something cute and act like they didn't say it. That's what I do when someone wants me to say something I don't want to say. If they press on for me to say whatever it is I don't feel comfortable saying, I half cover my mouth and say something that sounds similar to what they said but I make it so my words aren't understood. And they love the 'I'm so shy, I'm talking in a quiet voice and half covering my mouth' thing. It's hard to explain though, and what works for me won't necessarily work for you. The best way to learn is through trial and error anyway. Consider the 3 minute shows as practice, and I'm sure it'll get better as you go along.

    Anyway, definitely never push your boundaries for the sake of a longer show. It's not worth it. The one time I pushed my personal boundaries, I stressed out for weeks and was SO worried it'd be the one show posted all over the internet. It was a long show but the money wasn't worth the stress. That was 2 years ago, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Prussia View Post
    I do believe in porn/adult work when they use the term "minor" it means under 18. It's a pretty clear cut straight forward concept.
    No, I mean the word "depicting" is ambiguous.
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    Likewise, the other rules about things we can't do are ambiguous. At what point does it become scat? Are enemas ok? Must I keep the dildo out of view when it comes out of my ass? Fisting? The thumb knuckle or the wrist?
    It's clear that the folks who made these rules are not very kinky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Prussia View Post
    I noticed a few front page girls that would have their profiles etc say things like daddy's girl or whatever not have that on their profiles anymore. I think SM reviewed some of these profiles because some of the "daddy girls" are no longer promoting that. I think that age play may also overlap with baby fetish, like diaper, mommy type thing? I can't really speak much for that one, but pedo requests make my skin crawl. Maybe it's just me, but there is no way would I feel ok accepting money from this type of show.
    AB/DL has nothing to do with pedophilia.
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    AB/DL has nothing to do with pedophilia.
    Right on. That's why I said I can't speak much for this topic.

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    Likewise, the other rules about things we can't do are ambiguous. At what point does it become scat? Are enemas ok? Must I keep the dildo out of view when it comes out of my ass? Fisting? The thumb knuckle or the wrist?
    It's clear that the folks who made these rules are not very kinky.
    I would most definitely say when it's intentional. So if you're doing anal, or even pussy fucking and there's an accident such as icky or opps I got my period a few days early, whatever, then it was obviously not intended. As for fisting, pretty sure the general rule is 4 fingers max for cam sites to be clear it's not fisting. But this is all digressing from the original topic.

    Honestly, it seems to me you are being purposely obtuse in your point and are trying to make strawman arguments to defend the fact that you are ok pandering to pedo requests. Whatever the case may be, I'm done with this thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prussia View Post
    Right on. That's why I said I can't speak much for this topic.



    I would most definitely say when it's intentional. So if you're doing anal, or even pussy fucking and there's an accident such as icky or opps I got my period a few days early, whatever, then it was obviously not intended. As for fisting, pretty sure the general rule is 4 fingers max for cam sites to be clear it's not fisting. But this is all digressing from the original topic.

    Honestly, it seems to me you are being purposely obtuse in your point and are trying to make strawman arguments to defend the fact that you are ok pandering to pedo requests. Whatever the case may be, I'm done with this thread.
    I see now that I misread what you had written in regards to ab/dl. Sorry for that.

    I specifically said that I am not ok with pedophilia requests, only healthy ageplay. You're crazy dude. I never pick fights on here. And since when is digressing bad thing? I have not completely derailed the thread, geez.
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    I work in AW and have my free chat disabled...so most of the time customers come in and boom they ask me those things and most of the time they only stay up to 3 minutes..

    I don't mind it as long as they won't ask me what my age ( the age they want) so most of them time i said. Just how old you want me to be etc. but then they leave after that.

    that's why i am asking what do you do in that kind of situation.
    I work aw for years and I can not count how many times I`ve got such requests.Even now when Im in my 30s I still get them.I did it twice in skype bookings,when I was new.First one I just had to call him daddy,I could get over that,no age mentioned.Second one mentioned what age he thinks I am and that made me sick.Was the last,I will never do it again and I still regret doing it but we all do mistakes.Few hours later and few showers later I still didnt feel clean enough. You need thick skin to be able to play with those psychos who want you to be a little girl.99% will have rape/abuse fantasy too.If I was a little girl I would not want a man to play with me the way x and y customer told me.I would just say stop feeding that sick fantasy ,no advice on how to handle them but tell them no ,even if no age mentioned all I can think about is that they imagine abusing a little girl.Easy money but not worth.

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    I am a kinky person and I love all roleplay that has to do with power dynamics.

    However, on cam when it comes to age stuff or incest I tend to err on the side of caution. It is one thing to know someone and experiment with these kinks and another to do these requests on cam. I understand some guys want a place where they can safely play with their fantasy, but I am cautious because in my experience, most guys push it the wrong way. I am also a Sub in my real life and I liken it to that, or any sexual power dynamic play. When it's on cam half those guys who say they are doms just want to watch you push your limits and hurt yourself/abuse yourself. I have had very few experiences with true doms online since trust, education and emotional intelligence is at the base of BDSM. Hard to do with a stranger.

    What I am trying to say is that I feel like it is the same with ageplay/incest RP. You may have a few guys who understand the kink and will play in a consensual manner, but most experience I have had with these dudes online is that they want to take it to an abusive place and I am not cool with that.

    Anyway, if you ever feel uncomfortable with what they are trying to do just tell them or steer the session away from what is making you uncomfortable. YOU are in control. And if you lose them as a customer another one will roll on by shortly after. Never push your boundaries for some mouth breather on the other side of the screen.

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    Interesting you make the connection between this and power play. i too find that all those who want to dominate are not actually aware of what it entails or how to do it. I don't offer sub services, in fact my profile actively says I will not be submissive, but now and then if in the mood I will say yeah sure if a guy asks am i into being dominated, and every single time I have to boot him because he seems intent on me showing the largest toy I have as far as i can into whatever orifice, chocking on a dildo, gagging to the point of being sick etc. Sorry but i'm just not into that. I barely use toys let alone huge ones, let alone hurting myself with them. From everything i've read about domination that's certainly NOT what it's about anyway.

    Put it this way I have only ever banned about 8 people in my 4 years camming and all but one of those were guys who wanted to 'dominate' me!

    On the other hand i've always been 100% comfortable with the age play/ younger roleplay guys. I feel every time that they are respectful, grateful, open, and not in anyway 'peado'. If I ever got a sense that they were, or that what they're talking about isn't just fantasy then I would screen shot, report, and find a way to alert the police. Obviously you can never know who you're really talking to or what their intentions are, and that is too much of a risk for a lot of girls, but personally like i say I've always found these guys totally above board. often they are into a bunch of other taboo kink too, so sessions can be extremely satisfying and fun and actually give me a chance to use my brain as well as my pussy !
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    I do a lot of taboo roleplay. When I get guys who want age play (I keep removing the tag after getting a warning from SM) who push for an age, I always say "now that I'm 18, we can really have some fun". That weeds out the guys who want me to say I'm young. Most of the guys though just want the experienced/inexperienced role play, the "first time" role play, and the only way they know how to ask for it is role play. The guys who really push you to say you're 12 or whatever, they are looking for either anger or for validation, and you don't have to give them either. It doesn't matter how much they are willing to pay, it's not worth it to break site rules and get banned or to make you uncomfortable.

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