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    Default how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    guys tend to like one of the 2:

    aggressive, slutty dirty talk, outgoing

    classy, shy, 'you don't belong here'


    Usually, unless I observe them before it's very hard to tell what they like. I can be both, but I find if you use the wrong strategy on the wrong guy you end up losing the sale...


    any tips on how to 'predict'?

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    I can only tell by listening to them in conversation. Some guys will tell you what they like. Others not so much. I would just spark up some flirty conversation and gage my response based on the customer.

    Most times I don't think that much into it.

    If it's a packed club, I think you can find guys that like your 'stripper persona' vs catering your persona to the customer.

    The cool thing is that even if you do 'mess up' during conversation, you can always turn it around or start again. Men can be quite forgiving with a sexy captivating woman. Worst case scenario you lose the sale with that one potential customer but again if the club is busy you can shake off the rejection and find another customer willing to pay you money.
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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    How often do you work? The more you work, the better you get at this. It's all about honing your stripper senses.

    How does he speak to you? What vibes do you get from him? Who does he notice (besides you)? Talk about the other girls (in a good way, of course) and see if adds his input. Play with your boobs or dance around a little and see how he reacts.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    My formula: 70% airhead, 20% slutty/flirty, 10% bitchy/demanding if they don't get their ass in the lap dance room asap. I don't think I'm overly aggressive. I just giggle a lot (covering my mouth so it's really feminine-They love that), act like everything they say is amazing and talk about hot girls and my favorite sex positions. I am always at least tipped even if the guy doesn't buy a dance acting this way. I will have a bit longer conversation with older men, but there haven't been many in my club lately. Even the older guys like a bimbo, just a sweeter bimbo with "hobbies" and stuff.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    Subtle body language AND facial movements/expressions. A guy that like you will either be looking at you from across the room, or kind-of inching towards you if you sit next to him. If he has that "Kid On Christmas Morning" vibe going on when you greet him....even better.

    I've noticed young guys love more aggro girls, whereas guys over age 35 (aka guys with more money to burn) want a more conventional dancer. These are generalizations, but imo that's how I split those looks up.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    With nervous or shy guys I play confident, relaxed, but more quiet, not aggressive or pushy. friendly flirty and sometimes a little awkward.

    Everyone else I'm playful and bratty with. The girl on the playground that would give boys cheek-kisses for a quarter and then laugh at them and run away yelling "EW" - grown up version.

    The only ones that doesn't work on are broke guys, or guys who like more conventional (big tits, long hair), or already have a favorite. lol. So I tell myself

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    I watch their behavior first. Sometimes, but not always I can size up a guy by how he is dressed. Watches, shoes, etc.
    I look for where his eyes go, and then take the lead.
    His conversational ways can be very telling.
    But I believe that EVERY man likes it dirty. It's just how to get there is all.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    No matter what, confidence is key so I cut out the whole normal nice shy girl act a while ago. For me it only resulted in guys being more quick to want my # or take me out etc. Kinda hard to explain what I do now, but it's basically: I'm the leader of the conversation but I let them speak, just not too much, I'm too impatient. I don't ask 40 questions in a row and I don't ask things like "...sooo, do you come here often?" I keep it really interesting, talk about unique subjects. I'm not a dirty talker, really.

    I speak clearly and confidently, laugh at what they say and when I do I gently touch their arm. No more touching than that. Lots of eye contact then simply say "Ready?" and tilt my head toward the lap dance area. I can't think of any time it's failed unless they were out of money.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    ^^ I like that AlenaRoza, a lot of times I'll basically cut them off if they're "boring me" with all that "smart talk" and "I just want to get in your lap." When they say "Don't you mean my wallet" I say, hey now, I'm getting in your lap, YOU'RE getting in your wallet" then try to drag them away. Most times they follow me, sometimes they don't. If they don't, I count down from 5, stamp my foot and walk away.

    Many times the guys I walk away from get a dance from me later.

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    I'm 20% classy 20% slutty 60% bitchy/demanding and for some reason it works lol

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    Quote Originally Posted by LexiConn View Post
    ^^ I like that AlenaRoza, a lot of times I'll basically cut them off if they're "boring me" with all that "smart talk" and "I just want to get in your lap." When they say "Don't you mean my wallet" I say, hey now, I'm getting in your lap, YOU'RE getting in your wallet" then try to drag them away. Most times they follow me, sometimes they don't. If they don't, I count down from 5, stamp my foot and walk away.

    Many times the guys I walk away from get a dance from me later.

    This is precious info lol! I can see this working very well on anyone

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    I gauge it by how they dress, their age and how they hold themselves, how they talk etc.

    Also usually I can't switch that quickly so I try to be all of those things at once to a certain degree then amplify one of them usually i'm normally pushy/aggressive/funny, I'm surprised I get dances sometimes as I'm not particularly flirty or sexual 80% of the time haha. Usually I'm 'classy' at the start of the shift then extra aggressive at the end hahaha.

    I really don't think any men ITC appreciate you being shy, classy yes but not shy, if you are even acting that they think they can walk over you and it'll be hard to get dances and you'll be friend zoned.

    in summation be pushy and aggressive with a smile on your face and come hither eyes!

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    Default Re: how do you gage if he likes the aggressive-slutty vs. the classy-shy type?

    Quote Originally Posted by Warped View Post
    I'm 20% classy 20% slutty 60% bitchy/demanding and for some reason it works lol
    This is truth. I doubled up my aggressive percentage last 2 shifts and I've been the only (clean) dancer making money. haha. Works well with spoiled princess angle

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    This is truth. I doubled up my aggressive percentage last 2 shifts and I've been the only (clean) dancer making money. haha. Works well with spoiled princess angle
    One of my friends worked the "spoiled princess angle" well b/c she really was a spoiled rich girl. Guys ate it up.

    I usually worked the "cowtown girl" angle. My look was exotic but my manner was that of a "Wild West" type. Once you know how to present that kind of image the customers can get their heads around it.

    Back on the topic of reading customers...it is true, a lot of guys give away clues about their personality via clothing and hairstyling. I noticed a lot of rich guys will dress like Parrothead slobs in an attempt to look poor- but if you check out their shoes, that usually gives it away.

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