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    My first night camming was a few days ago and only lasted like 20 seconds. Lol. The personality I was going for did not work for me (SUPER FRIENDLY) and I think I freaked out when I had to try and act with that sort of head space. I've also never done anything sexual, at all. I'm pretty, but we all know that's not gonna get me very far in this. So, with that in mind, how sexual are you ladies outside of camming? Is your camming persona similar to your real life one? If not, how did you change it?

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    Why not just be yourself?!
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Mostly cause I feel and sexy and open as a Q-Tip? I'm also not very good at accommodating the advances of men. I was hoping by putting on a different personality it would make it easier.

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    Great topic...

    If you want to make money, you better get one or the other quick.

    Most of all you need to be comfortable with your body & sexuality. To know your boundaries, to know yourself.

    Read a book or watch documentaries on acting & modeling to figure a few things out. You went in without a plan. Watch lots of porn & figure out what turns you on so you can build from there.

    Film yourself being sexy & then watch it. Figure out how to improve.

    Dance infront of a mirror naked. Learn how to feel sexy without any pressure. Sexy is a state of mind, a head space you have to learn how to tap into it.

    Good luck,
    Sam


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Great topic...

    If you want to make money, you better get one or the other quick.

    Most of all you need to be comfortable with your body & sexuality. To know your boundaries, to know yourself.

    Read a book or watch documentaries on acting & modeling to figure a few things out. You went in without a plan. Watch lots of porn & figure out what turns you on so you can build from there.

    Film yourself being sexy & then watch it. Figure out how to improve.

    Dance infront of a mirror naked. Learn how to feel sexy without any pressure. Sexy is a state of mind, a head space you have to learn how to tap into it.

    Good luck,
    Sam
    Thank you! This really helps, like I said, I've never seen myself as sexy or a very sexual person, so it's hard to exude that... I think doing some research would really help!

    Thank you for the advice!

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    Yeah, my 'persona' is just me! I have always been a "highly sexed individual" (haha)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Briarwood View Post
    My first night camming was a few days ago and only lasted like 20 seconds. Lol. The personality I was going for did not work for me (SUPER FRIENDLY) and I think I freaked out when I had to try and act with that sort of head space. I've also never done anything sexual, at all. I'm pretty, but we all know that's not gonna get me very far in this. So, with that in mind, how sexual are you ladies outside of camming? Is your camming persona similar to your real life one? If not, how did you change it?
    When I was a baby beginner camgirl a veteran camgirl told me that you don't pick your persona. You persona picks you and to just wait it out and within six months I'd find my own way.

    I thought it was the biggest crock of shit that I've ever heard in my life --- just like you are probably thinking right now. But much to my surprise it was true!

    The easiest way come up with a persona is to start shaping your personality around what the guys you naturally attract seem to expect you to be. Do they talk to you like you are the girl next door? Do you get a lot of guys that want to be your slaves?

    Every girl is different so I can only tell you about what it is like for me. My camming persona and who I am in real life are the most polar opposite you can get. I started out as the girl next door persona (I think most beginner camgirls default to this personality) but the guys who were attracted to my physical characteristics weren't looking for the girl next door type so I started shaping myself around what it was they wanted me to be.

    It sucks to be stereotyped in your everyday life but you can profit from guys projecting their fantasy image of who they mistakenly believe you are onto you.

    I sure hope that all made sense.

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    Just relax. you can plan until the cows come home but it's guaranteed a customer will come in who mucks it up completely by asking for something random - like will you wear a shoe on your head? when you were all prepared and ready to act sexy and get naked!

    I still cam the same now as I did my very first night - say hello to the guy and ask where he's from, has he had a good day, what's he been up to/ general chit chat. then I ask if there's anything he particularly likes to talk about or to see? This is the easiest way in to a cam show ever as he will tell you what he wants. then you just pay attention to his cues throughout the show to tell you where to go with it/ what to do next.

    For the uncommunicative/ undecided/ "just make me cum bb" guys I just do a standard slow striptease, and again pay attention to their cues as to what to do more/ less of.

    Then ask them for feedback at the end of the show. this is the perfect way to check what they liked about your show

    I agree with JAC above as well. You can't really force what isn't there x
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




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    THIS!! I think guys appreciate my quirks and silliness on cam...oh and my big boobs!
    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Why not just be yourself?!

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    http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/how-to-flirt

    Learn how to flirt. It is an underrated talent that will get you far in life.

    Go out & try those flirting tips in public. At first you will feel foolish & might fail, but no big deal. Don't be afraid to try, you will get better at it. This will help you on cam & life in the long run.

    Sam

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    Thanks for all the replies guys! I got back on last night and tried to be myself and just ignored the skeevey guys! I got a private pretty quickly in so that was awesome! I very much appreciate all the advice <3 You guys are gems!

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