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    Default How do I be more of a bitch?

    The last night I worked, I danced for this young, cocky guy who would NOT stop asking me for a kiss. I kept telling him no, but he would not let the fuck up! He finally asked if he could kiss me on the cheek, which I genuinely don't mind at all, so I said yes and he BLATANTLY got the corner of my mouth!! HOW THE FUCK DO YOU DEAL WITH THESE KINDS OF PEOPLE?? Do you slap them in the face and tell them that what they just did is SEXUAL ASSAULT?? I would have done that, but I didn't want him to think he upset me because that would have given him more satisfaction.

    How can I make sure NO ONE tries to pull shit like this??

    I also had some nasty guy who was making it rain on me literally touch my pussy with his money while he did it!

    How can I be more of a bitch and still make shit tons of money? Inormally do not run into these kinds of people, but when I do, I want to be prepared. I want to be the bitch who owns the fucking club and makes bank, not the girl who can't stand up for herself and lets customers do whatever they want.

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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    I literally facepalm people's foreheads when they try lean in to kiss me and tell them that this isn't a high school dance or OKCupid. As for grope-y customers, I've learned to dance extremely defensively and if they try to touch me somewhere I don't like, I have a habit of 'accidentally' stabbing them with my heels or bending their fingers back. I'm very upfront with what my boundaries are before selling a dance and if they are crossed, you do not get a warning more times than not.
    I have a friend who does the 'ice queen' persona and make bank off of it, but she also has bolt-ons, great legs and is super Barbie so that works to her advantage as well.
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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    The last guy who grabbed my pussy onstage literally left the club choking on the teeth I knocked out of his head.

    Disclaimer: do not ever strike or grab a customer unless you're prepared for the possibility of getting hit back. After yrs of martial arts, & a couple past bfs who purposely put me in dangerous situations, this kind of 'give&take' is 2nd nature to me. I guess you can tell already that not many things get me worked up quite like sexual assault.

    The short answer: tell them ONCE. One 'No' & shut them down w/o further explanation, bc you do not owe them one. Walk if they press it. If you guys are already in the middle of dances --

    Guys who kiss/lick/etc w/o permission, or grab like that -- Fk 'not giving them the satisfaction of showing you're upset'. The second they start that shit, they're done afaic. They have intentionally violated your boundaries. The guy who kisses or licks -- take him by the throat, immediately under the jaw, squeeze his windpipe (not hard enough to cause damage but enough to get his attention)& tell him that action is unacceptable, & this is his only warning. If he so much as leans the wrong way after that, get up & leave. It's one of the reasons to collect your dance $$ upfront.

    A guy who tries to grab, finger, or otherwise touch your privates doesn't deserve so much as a NO. Plant your platform upside his face. He deserves to get hit. Forget 'giving them the satisfaction' bc like you said, these are sexual assaults & they aren't committing them bc they like you. They deserve to have their nite ruined when they pull that shit. Clock them once (or do what you need to do to get loose if you're being held down) & get out of their reach asap.

    Don't EVER relent when a guy keeps pestering you for smtg, like that POS who kissed you, even if they 'promise' to tone it down to smtg more innocent. Assume that every customer is going to be like him & try to pull a fast one. I guess my idea of 'being a bitch' in that kind of a situation, but in a way that's less likely to alienate the customer, is to tell them in your most no-nonsense tone (no cutesy bs) that you're not allowing it bc you're not comfortable w/ it, & if he's going to continue to be pushy & disrespectful he can go ahead & get bent.

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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    I don't consider it so much being a bitch as just keeping your boundaries set... I generally give one cutesy warning ("Now now, you'll get me in trouble/fired, stop that"), then a stern one ("Do you WANT to sit on your hands?") and after that, I air dance a foot away.
    Unfortunately, I've been getting a lot of "Oh you won't get fired, I know the owner/spend a lot of money in here/blah blah" bullshit lately, especially from old guys, so sometimes I have to snap at them and burst their little entitled bubble... "No, there is no amount of money you could spend in here that would make licking me okay."

    Astonishing how many of them don't take it seriously when a girl tells them no... I hate to be super rude and potentially miss out on more dances, but then again, if it got to the point of warning #2 I probably don't want to continue dancing for them anyway.
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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    I've been known to beat the living shit out if customers who try to assault me but, as Aniela said upthread, do NOT start something you can't finish. Your best option is to end contact and let security handle it.

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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    Asking for a kiss/extra/other things I don't do "Sweety not on the first date! Hehe" Repeated requests: I just laugh like they're joking, keep dancing and don't reply or if I'm in a bitchier mood "You talk too much Just be quiet and enjoy the dance." Touching on stage: Take my money and get away, ignore them. If it's really bad, call a bouncer to deal with them. Grabbing during a dance: "No no we're not allowed to do that." and/or make them sit on their hands, or end the dance have security deal with them. No need to get your hands dirty.

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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    Also never reward bad behavior. I can count on one hand the # of times I've kissed a customer on the cheek..They ALL: spent a lot of money on and tipped generously, were perfect gentlemen and kept their hands to themselves, and were people I wouldn't mind spending time with again. Guys that behave are rewarded with a hug or a smile. Guys that behave badly get air dances, are charged extra for pain and suffering and are ignored forever afterwards. You have to train them like dogs.

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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    I walked out of a VIP dance last weekend bc this idiot kept trying to stick his face in my ass. I was soo fed up with faking the nice stripper persona that without any explanation I just walked out & left him sitting there. Then the bouncer yelled at him & the guy left hahaha.
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    Default Re: How do I be more of a bitch?

    simple.... walk away or talk to a bouncer not too difficult

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