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    I have taken precaution to make sure that my family does not know what I do for a living. I always worried that stripping may seem glamourized to a growing mind , or worse - disgusting. Either one of these results was not a chance that I was willing to take.

    When I began stripping, my child was only 4. I thought for sure by now I would not be dancing. I have a degree in the medical field, and I love what I do. But guess what?? I'm still stripping on the side lol. Road tripping while hustling money....I just love it. It's very fundamentally who I am.

    My child is old enough now where sometimes....I wonder if she knows. Whenever a stripper comes up in a song or on TV, I get averted eyes and the body language changes a little. Has anyone told their teen before? I don't want to, but it would it be better than living a lie?

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    I told my son exactly what I was doing ... i.e. tolerating hundreds of a$$holes in order to earn the money for his college education.

    Beyond that, on one occasion, after he turned 18 I actually took him with me to a local club ( where I knew the clubowner well, and hadn't danced at myself for years ). That was a mistake though, since I wound up having to 'scrape' the younger dancers off his lap !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    I told my son exactly what I was doing ... i.e. tolerating hundreds of a$$holes in order to earn the money for his college education.
    THAT. Way to make em grateful, hahaha. My friend's mom danced when she was a single mom, and it has given her a respect of "My mom is a badass rockstar for doing that to support me" mixed with appreciation for every $ she makes herself... because she doesn't want to go tolerate hundreds of assholes.

    I will tell my kids when they're old enough and (hopefully) displaying some level of emotional maturity to where they could comprehend that it's okay, and to handle any backlash if their friends find out and give them shit. I plan on raising mine totally out of the "box" most parents stay within anyway, so telling them goes right in there.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

    "You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    I told my son exactly what I was doing ... i.e. tolerating hundreds of a$$holes in order to earn the money for his college education.

    Beyond that, on one occasion, after he turned 18 I actually took him with me to a local club ( where I knew the clubowner well, and hadn't danced at myself for years ). That was a mistake though, since I wound up having to 'scrape' the younger dancers off his lap !!!
    I didn't know you have a son!





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    ^^^ yup ... he's now graduated from college and working on his career. As a result, he has a much more thorough understanding of what a difference it makes to NOT have student loan debt to worry about !!!

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    Honesty is important in a relationship with a child. Lying leads them to distrust everything you have instilled into them over the years.
    Now, you don't owe them an explanation as to why, Other than I did what was necessary to provide & care for those I love. You also take any power away from any low life snake who tells them this kind of information that wants to harm your parent/child relationship.
    A neighbor, another kids dad, an aunt, you never know who will be that snake.

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    ^^^^ this 100%. I think the stigma associated w/ this job is all the reason needed to get ahead of the 8ball & tell the kids, instead of letting them hear it from sm1 else who will just feed them the usual mainstream lies & make them feel like shit for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Honesty is important in a relationship with a child. Lying leads them to distrust everything you have instilled into them over the years.
    Now, you don't owe them an explanation as to why, Other than I did what was necessary to provide & care for those I love. You also take any power away from any low life snake who tells them this kind of information that wants to harm your parent/child relationship.
    A neighbor, another kids dad, an aunt, you never know who will be that snake.
    I want to be totally honest with my kids (when I have kids) as soon as they can understand what escorting is. I know this is a Parent/Teen, but I think I can share this. My younger sister is the only one in my family who knows what I do? She was 15 when I told her and was having sex already, so I knew she could understand. At first she was a little freaked out by it. I share everything with her. The good and bad experiences. She is 18 and is OK with what I do to the point that she is now thinking of escorting too. When I told her, I never considered that.

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    I have teens and they do not know what I do. I do phone sex, not stripping. Mostly bdsm where I am dominating and/or making fun of guys with small penises, and/or spoiled bratty princess type stuff. I also do a lot of young teen with older man role plays. I do not tell them what I do for several reasons. The first reason is I am divorced and I don't need their dad having any type of leverage to use in court against me. The second reason is that my youngest child is transgender and does not need to be exposed to me teasing guys about being sissies, etc. My 16 year old would understand and be totally cool with it, but the possibility of her telling her dad does exist, and I just don't need that kind of hassle.

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