So today at the club, long story short, a beautiful dancer came and talked to me for about 30 minutes. We had so many laughs and it was a great conversation. She did not even once ask for a dance. She even invited me to meet her outside the club. So after a longtime, she finally told me that she had leave now. I immediately asked her for a dance, and she agreed. However, here's what makes me wonder a bit. When I asked her for a dance, she seems a bit surprised and caught off guard. It makes me wonder, why did she not ask me for a dance? So my question is, is it possible for a girl to just want to be friends with a guy in a club? I feel like I kinda messed up our friendship when I asked her for a dance, because I turned myself into just another customer. Am I right in thinking this way? any help is appreciated. Thanks.



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She could be using more of a friends hustle (I've done it), genuinely be interested, or be planning to rob you out of the club. Hopefully, it's one of the first two. I have made a few friends over the years and dated two guys, but that's out of HOW many customers?


This last one isn't at all meant to insult you OP, just mentioning it bc I have seen a few girls over the yrs who really didn't have half the brains they were born w/ when it came to their personal safety.
. My guess is that if she spends 30 minutes with you for nothing, she might genuinely have liked you, you were respectful, the conversation was interesting, etc., and you may well continue to enjoy this bonus treatment from her as long as you act like a customer. I'd just be very cautious about assuming anything more at this point. But that's okay, no reason not to totally enjoy it for what it is


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