7 min away from completing today's 4 hour goal. I almost threw in the towel today too. Now I only have 6 more left to hit 25.





7 min away from completing today's 4 hour goal. I almost threw in the towel today too. Now I only have 6 more left to hit 25.



Hey Ladies! Last time I asked you about cuckold shows,and I got so many useful tips and tricks. Since then I've been getting 5* ratings, and long shows, so I'm really grateful. My shows are getting better and better.
There is one thing I have no success with, and these are the joi shows. I use to show guys what to do on a dildo and talk dirty, but my joi shows are kinda short, and guys don't seem to like them. I get asked for joi shows from regular, not sub, neither dom guys. I would like to ask for some tips about how to do joi well, what these guys want?



It's funny but I have the OPPOSITE problem. I feel like I suck at the cuck shows and do pretty good in the JOI / SPH etc shows. I just can't seem to wrap my mind around HOW to do a cuck rp show. It's like there is another person (the bull/boyfriend/etc) person that is part of it and how the fuck do I conjure that entity into the show? I've just resorted to telling cuck "stories" I make up about going to vegas and swinging with a fake sugar daddy. Sometimes I'm not into the cuck thing and just say no to requests. On the other hand, I can talk the JOI guys through it no problem, use a dildo, show them how to use it, talk dirty etc. It's funny how we all rock some cam things and not others isn't it!...life of a cam model!




I did today over 5 hours plus an hour break. Sm registered 4hours because I did refresh and changed browsers so many times. Usually streaming in 2k or 4k won't get my cpu above 50%, but since last week and today, random days, is streamate (am sure of it) is rising my cpu to 90% and start lagging. And you know, my pc is gaming one, is top notch technology, up to date, nothing else runs. I am absolutely sick of Streamate and their tech issues. It was OK day, almost high small goal but, I am making money o ly from regulars (which happens to be very generous). Where are the new guys? I think I have 2 weeks or so am making 80-90% money from regulars? I do have a good bunch of them. I'm getting wee worried. Anyways, am having a new profile on adultwork via dailypay and I did promise myself that am not allowing streamate to fuck up my income, my days, when I see is pooey, I go on adultwork and do at least a bit of money that day. Or run in parallel. I will think of it how to. Good luck whoever is online x





I make them turn on cam so all JOI is EXCL.
I am a Domme. I direct them exactly how tight of a grip, how far up shaft, don't touch the head, slow down, speed up...STOP (talk dirty) START SLOW with a very light grip, no even lighter...barely touch it, go all the way down the shaft then stop & cup balls, all the way up & over the head now. Over & over...make them do exactly what you say & when...if they start speeding up tell them to stop! Lololll
Cum countdown after asking if they wanna cum, how bad they wanna cum & when you get to 1 draw it out & tease: I know you wanna shoot that load...how bad? Get them to the point of pleading.
Then if you're bold enough say "sure you can cum for 25 GOLD. Most pay & you let them bust at the big 0
![]()
Sha



Thank you, Sha!This detailed guideline is exactly what I needed, I felt so miserable after every joi session. When they turn off the cam after 2 mins and leave without a word just because I'm not good enough is frustrating, but from now on I'm gonna improve this skill.



So it's funny how you and naughtybabe1 mention using a dildo, I like JOI as my break from using a dildo or even getting naked. I learnt actually from this forum how to do it. (P.s. naughtybabe1 I also feel like I have no idea what I'm doing in cuck shows sometimes ha).
Everyone's different but this is my style. So basically I will first tell them to hold the base and not stroke at all, they want instructions, they're not doing anything unless told. JOI is meant to be in the Domme domain. Otherwise I'm like do you want JOI or just jerk off encouragement? It's different and I don't entertain it. Then I'm like you don't do anything until I say so, now I'm going to count down from 10 and I'd like you to stroke yourself firmly but slowly and when I reach zero you must stop, understood? And they must confirm (later you can instruct stroking faster etc.). Then I will get my tits out for example as I'm counting down with a little dirty talk . I repeat the pattern showing different parts of me, eventually it moves up to touching myself when counting, twerking with panties off whilst counting. And make them tip to be allowed to cum if possible. But yeah that's my template, if they misbehave and keep touching when you reached zero you punish them by making them wait to touch themselves again. Hope it helps.








Well. When I logged off on Thursday night I only had 5 hours left to hit 25, my plan was to do 3 yesterday and the last 2 today. Yesterday I ended up getting sick and only did 30 min, so I have to do 4.5 today. So that plus the fact that I'm drowsy from yesterday's meds and the fact that it's dead so far is not motivating me to stick it out at all. I currently have to do 3.5 more hours within the next 4.5 hours.
ETA I was literally ten minutes away from throwing in the towel but within ten minutes the beginning of a rush started. I am now an hour and 4 minutes away from 25 hours.
Last edited by Genoveve; 10-02-2021 at 03:30 PM.





I did it.Logged off as soon as I hit 1500 minutes. I will never do that again LOL. The last hour was torture; traffic slowed to an absolute crawl, I'd go stretches with literally no one in my room, at one point I went a twenty minute stretch with no shows and my potentials would not go higher than the tens.
I really had my ass convinced that I could pull off 25 hours last week starting Wednesday night, I barely did 10 :/
I am determined to do 25 this week starting with at least 5 tonight. I don't know what the hell was up with traffic earlier, felt like the hottest ugly person ever basically, but I need to work while I have the chance. My overall schedule isn't really in my hands for at least 6 months and when I am logged in I enjoy the distraction. I do need active customers for this not people staring at me. I have been trying to find the balance of meeting my needs and setting too many goal posts before logging in. So right now a concrete goal is what I am aiming for, but may dip out if it too rough out there.
back at it-5 hours down, overall was a pretty great night by the end. shooting for 5 tomorrow
Last edited by kamiliam; 10-03-2021 at 03:04 AM.
If you never knew me, that'd probably be cheaper
If you really knew me, you would know I don't need ya- Saweetie




Okay, I have all day tomorrow and tomorrow night to work. I’m horrible at working long hours. My lowest goal is 6, but I’d prefer to do 8, and would loveeee to make it to 12. We’ll see.




This week which ended was something else, didn't achieve the goal I wanted because tech issues galore, but I am thankfull with placing in 400 rank. Sat last night in an empty room for nearly 2 hours hoping to get a private or some tips as I was so close to 300 rank and extra 100$ bonus, but didn't happen no matter what lol. I admit, I was absolutely knackered and I observed that for members logged on they can hoover over models rooms without entering (that was implemented again this week, for a good while the hoovering wasnt available, now is back).Gotta keep smilling and ''on'' all the time eh? New week, new month, wish you all the best luck with your goals no tech issues!





I do a feet JOI that's pretty similar: using feet to instruct but it's more like encouragement. When I spread my toes: stroke and when I curl my toes: stop. If they like soles and wrinkles it's the reverse: stroke when toes are curled and stop when toes are spread.
In between is a lot of foot fetish dirty talk. I say it's more like encouragement because I'm not exactly detailing how to stroke just when and how often.
Yes, there is a difference between JOI and JOE, but guys who ask for feet JOI like the way I present it even tho it's more of a JOE.
Sha
Friday did 6 hours (8 with breaks)- $200 ish
Yesterday did 8 hours (10 with breaks)- $430
Maaaany dead hours, it wasn't consistent at all. Like... 3 hours in freechat, then a $70 private, another 2 hours in freechat, another $60 private and so on. I guess this is the new normal...
Today I will put another 8-10 and tomorow 10-12.
I'll see what happens. Anyway, I am excited because Jasmin took the best decision with introducing the tip toy option. The tips are adding fast since there are lot of switch guys who love to feel "superior" by making a domme moan, lololol)))) They really think this makes me a sub, while i collect their cash
))))
* Me, everytime a member has 100 requests in freechat, like he's at a 5 Stars All Inclusive Holiday Resort *





STFO 4 hrs today and high goal+. I made more today than I did last week during contest with 12 hrs streamed. That was a total shit week. I am def STFO this week at least 30 hrs.
Grateful AF for a couple whales today. This one just blew my fuckin hair back. Thank fuck for the new guys who appreciate quality!!!
![]()
Sha
I'm back with a bigger goal today and staying on as much as i can to make it happen!!!!!




I’ve been on about three hours and have made just over $200 so far. Not mad at it. Going to break soon and will be back for another 3 plus tonight. Definitely not going to hit anywhere near 12 hours but I will get at least that 6 minimum.
Ok i exceeded my big goal + more in 2 hours XD staying on for more!!!!!
Update: 10 hours (12 with breaks) - $505 on 4 sites.
Chaturbate: $100
Jasmin: $350
Streamate: $55
Exceptionally good day, considering september was a $1k ALL month))) I was lazy and didn't work either, so can't complain. Of course, it went good because it was weekend, so, I am curious for tomorow, as I am gonna pull same hours.
I wanted to only work for 4 days (friday- monday), but I am gonna work every day, till next monday. 8-10 hour shifts (10- 12 hours with breaks, i mean).
Really curious about how much i am gonna make.
Outside got cold af and it's not like i was having where to go anyway, with this pandemic. Malls are boring, i am not a fan of restaurants, netflix and my ps4 can fucking wait, it's not like all of these are leaving somehwere.
* Me, everytime a member has 100 requests in freechat, like he's at a 5 Stars All Inclusive Holiday Resort *
New day! I couldn't sleep last night so i only got 5 hours of sleep. Unfortunately, when i woke up, instead of just sleeping for 3 more hours, i did PROCRASTINATE for 3 hours, trying to get myself awake, lol.
Anyway, 10 hours today. Leeeeet's gooo!
I added Imlive again, let's see how that goes too. Now they kinda push traffic for those who put at least 60 hours a month, so i guess i will have to STFO for a while, before i see any dick around))
Update: 4 hours in and reached high goal thanks to one single member (the only customer in 4 hours). 8 more hours to go! Camming has really become a matter of staying the fuck on. Quiet and empty hours, then a couple of good spending clients and so on, in a 10-12 hour shift. What it matters is the $$$$. I try to remind myself that, when i am offline, other girl is online and takes clients that could have been mine))
Update: done, after 10 hours (12 with breaks). It would have been super slow without my whale, so i am a little nervous for tomorow, but gonna put another 12. Wheeewwwww!!!
Last edited by Cutie101; 10-04-2021 at 04:54 PM.
* Me, everytime a member has 100 requests in freechat, like he's at a 5 Stars All Inclusive Holiday Resort *
Bookmarks