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I'm having a glass of wine and then logging the fuck on/staying the fuck on for at least 5 hours. Money wise, I have zero expectations. Whatever happens, happens. Now is the most important time to push myself because I don't ~feel~ like logging on, and I need to break the habit of acting based on emotion instead of discipline. I'm mostly logging on because I want to keep my word to myself. I'm not going to allow myself to be weak and wimp out after an hour, either. Doesn't matter if I spend the next 5 hours reading, watching captioned Netflix, browsing SW, working my texting sites, taking selfies for social media, or staring at a screen. Bottom line is ...5 hours, no excuses.





I still have a little more than half my goal to make before logging off. I would rather crash but I want to see if this morning will be profitable so I'm taking breaks and staying the eff on.
Believe In Your Brand




Last week was rough, but I decided to take a new, more positive approach, as well as 'staying the fuck on' and it has paid off the last two days. Saturday was rough, all day, but I stayed on and worked my first ever late night shift and it rocked! Def. going to keep stfo and adding those nights to my split shift!
Last week was period- ish week. I hate that a month I am perfectly fine during period, the next month I can be awfully sick, no energy at all and in pain. Last week was that bad one. Obivously my schedule screwed, I only worked 3-4 hours'ish a day. I was able to work only 4 days and the earnings were embarrasingly disastruous)).
This week, I aim for 10 hrs per day, since I can only work 4 days, again. And I saw what 3 hours a day of work means in my pockets)).
I want to log off so freaking badly, but I told myself I have to hit an hours mark, even if there are 0 people in my room, my placement is shitty (SM still totally has placement, I don't care what they tell me re: smartplacement). I need to cultivate discipline!
So glad I found this thread! I am a serial offender of logging off when it gets slow. From now on, Im practicing this. Ive done it before and it has worked wonders, Time to get back into the swing of things and hustle. thanks ladies!




Yesterday I felt like shit all day, couple with zero shows....but, I stayed my course, stayed on and a very very nice guy got me to my low goal on SM taking me for a long pvt just....talking. No sexual stuff, just talking. I needed that after such a long, fruitless day. It may have taken 9 hours, but I stayed on and I made it.
My favourite thread - help me so much when it's slow to read for your succesfull "stay on" stories. Here is mine from yesterday![]()
I decided to log on even if it was morning, because I have bills that won't wait my mood to be "right". It was slow, so two or three times I logged off and on. But then in the last minute when I decided "Ok, 10 more minutes and if I am still earning nothing I will log off and read a book" one of my regulars showed up, did my goal, made me very happy and then a new guy took me for a long show and my favourite type of private - when the guy just want you to have fun, and don't tell you what to do) So, short story - staying on paid well this day. Now drinking my coffee and gonna do this again today
Good luck all!
What I've found is staying on to make hourly goals make me so much more money and eases my attitude and anxiety rather than sitting down on cam anxious to make my daily goal. I've done rough calculation and thought I was working for days and days. Then when I started counting up the hours I was on cam (no breaks, no ragequits with a 3 hour break) and discovered I was actually making more than I thought and only worked for about 30 hours, not even a full day's work. I now aim for 60 hours but this is because all my work is sit down anyways so it actually aids me to sit on cam and do work that I need to do.
I'm kind of a potato and I don't entertain unless I'm tipped to or I'm talked to. Before I would be doing all sorts of stuff to tempt men into tips. I discovered that sitting, putting on some anime/ a podcast/ doing hw/ working on my business/ brand and staying on for longer hours have not only made me reach my goal but excel in it.
Not gonna lie, it feels like I have to 'camathon' some days out of the week but as long as I STAY ON I always make it even when I look like poo on screen. But then I checked out this video about how much pornstars get paid and how long they have to stay at their shoots (some literally have stayed at their shoot for over 16 hours shooting) and how they built a big part of their world and business around it, and I have to say I agree- this job can be very rewarding, but it takes a hell of a lot of time, patience, and effort (getting on cam) to get the income you're looking for.



THIS! I'm a Streamate potato too and I zone out literally every shift, but my eyes aren't in the frame, so no one can tell I'm dead lmfao.
But seriously, this has been the most lucrative way for me to "stay the fuck on" to date. I get a lot of work done on my other sites by editing clips, creating PTV games for Niteflirt, texting sites, planning out my Twitter posts for the week, etc. And all the while I'll be logged into SM, so even on my $0 days, I don't feel the psychological burnout of not accomplishing anything.
Also, it seems like the moment I really do focus on another site and forget I'm streaming, I get taken to exclusive. If I in any way attempt to engage with free chat, I'm bombarded with timewasters and in-and-outs. God forbid if I were to just talk instead of type -- every time I try this, guys leave LOL.
I'm just happy I'm not the only one this works for. I'm always feeling torn about giving girls who work super hard in free chat this advice because obviously, that can be a way better hustle if you can get it to work, but I absolutely can't and this has saved me from logging out after 10 minutes of "dancing" and trying to chat up freeloaders. I can actually make it through a shift now lol.
Me, Your Vulgar Darling. Glimmering In The Swimming Pool.





Yesterday was so slow that I got scared. Like “what if my first week on cam was just a fluke and my girls and I are about to be homeless” scared. I had been on SM for 5 hours and had only made 64 bucks. I almost logged off but I told myself to at least milk $100 total out of these guys before calling it quits. Two hours later I left with $200 and all I could do was smirk and think about this thread.
MY REACTION TO 99% OF FREE CHAT





I got on cam 3 hours late and am fast approaching my “quit at midnight no matter what” rule at 11:47. But, no. I should’ve got on on time if really wanted to avoid disappointment. Plus I have a goal to reach. Staying the fuck on.
MY REACTION TO 99% OF FREE CHAT
Staying the fuck on to make my high goal, mostly because I am gonna be in a vacation (finalllyyyy 8 days OFF CAMMM!!!) and I only have 3 days left to work.



I’m on CB at the moment ready to off myself...it’s not been an hour to be fair but Omg, it feels like forever! Thank God for SW....I’ve been terrorized by freeloaders since I logged in. Literally tipped 2 tokens and demanded that I stand up and show tits B.B. lmao momma doesn’t play that. So I’m just reading through here and making myself stay on....




I need to stay 6h tonight and I'm trying to find all those excuses (tomorrow's my man's bday, I'm sleepy, I'm hungry, life sucks, I would rather cuddle in bed). So yeah, I'm going for a snack and deciding after my dose of sugar.





Yeah. I'm changing shifts. Everyone keeps saying how hard summer is for a cam girl but gah damn, am I feeling that truth right now. 4p-12 ain't working. Dudes just want to talk. I'm going to sleep so that i can get on tonight, midnight-8am. I tried that shift just this morning and it worked so I'm switching it up and doing that shift again tonight because i just CANNOT stay tf on.
MY REACTION TO 99% OF FREE CHAT
This summer has been a wreck train, regarding long hours online. Hikings, vacations and unexpected stuff. I was barely able to make my time goals and it;s visible in the pockets.
My earnings dropped and haven't had new regs in a while, wich is a red flag.
I took a look at top models on various sites and my jaw dropped. They still pull at least 10-12 hours on cam. No wonder they make 5 figures a month.
That was a huge slap and back to reality call for me.
I decided to take it easy and work 12 hours/ day only 3 days per week and keep 2 days for working only 7-8 hours. Till I get used to the new schedule and figure out my time off cam.





Girl same. I'm Also going to do 3 days a week on an intense schedule and 2 days on 6hrs each. That way I get some time off each week to just live life and do what makes me happy. Been feeling major burn out from trying to work too much, failng at it and then getting upset about it. So although this may not net the huge money, it's better for my mental and physical health, both of which I need to be able to even make it on cam in the first place.





I have been doing 4 days a week .. 8 plus hours a day now.. I dedicate those days to camming only.. I try my hardest to get 10 hours a day in but I just can't right now.. so far so good.. I have 3 days off and I can actually get things done outside of cam now.. it's great!
Trying this whole staying the fuck on thing.. it seems to be working lmao
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