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    Fuck being humble. There is no point. When they tell you that you're beautiful or look like a goddess or whatever compliment, DO NOT tell them "thank you" for just that compliment. ONLY say "thank you" when they give you money. We must retrain men to not feel like they have satisfied us just by complimenting us. We are only satisfied when they give us money. I know this is like a "no shit Sherlock" moment, but I wanted to solidify this in my mind. I have to retrain myself to STOP saying thank you for just compliments. Unless the compliment is accompanied by CASH. Men are like dogs. They need to be trained. "I know I'm sexy. Making money makes me feel even more sexy." Be conceited. Be in love with yourself. Make him feel like he's lucky just to be in your presence.

    I used to act all "oh really? You think I'm hot? Awww...you're making my head big." in which they would usually reply, "you're making MY head big." etc etc. But playing coy and acting all humble doesn't make you money. You have to KNOW you're hot. You're hard to please. So they better spend more and more on you if they want your time. This may be a struggle for girls who are naturally sweet and don't want to act like a bitch. But you can combine the 2. Act nice, sweet, smile alot, but when they give you a compliment, just say, "I know!" and raise an eyebrow. It might throw them off, but they'll be hooked. Activate bitch-mode when they get out of hand. Train these dogs.
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    YEA! So good! wink


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    I so agree!!! Being nice has never worked for me but let my family and friends tell it im naturally a mean person so being nice would be way too much effort on my part.

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    Love this post <3

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    This works so well for me. I'm normally super sweet/shy in real life, which is why it's even more ridiculous to act like a total bitch in the club... But it makes me $$. I'm very tongue in cheek about it sometimes, but I think it kind of knocks the guys off guard in a way. Like I'll never ask to sit down, I'll just kind of hop into a guy's lap or sit down next to him. I never ask a guy to buy me a drink, but I'll call the waitress over and tell him, "you're buying me a drink now." Or, "you're gonna get a dance now." I'll also just say casually that I'm the hottest girl in the club and the best dancer there, even though I work in a club with 50+ girls most nights. I think it's easier for me to pull off because I'm very girl next doorsy, and if I say anything too ridiculous I can just smile all sweet and the guy will be completely into me again.

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    Preach girl. The more conceited/stuck up/bitchier I act the more $$ I make. I never thought of only saying "thank you" when they give me cash but I love that. If they tell me they aren't buying dances or tipping for my time I've taken to rolling my eyes and walking off silently, sometimes when they're in mid sentence. It makes them feel like shit (as they should.) They will sometimes chase me down later, apologize and give me $. If you're not spending, you're useless and you get ignored. If you are being a good boy and spending I will reward you with attention and gratitude.

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    i totally agree ! im fairly new to camming and genuinely sweet i was having a hard time getting that gwuap because of it then i realized they just want u to look sweet . when u shoot rockets out your mouth they love it

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    Quote Originally Posted by DEELICIOUSBANDZ View Post
    i totally agree ! im fairly new to camming and genuinely sweet i was having a hard time getting that gwuap because of it then i realized they just want u to look sweet . when u shoot rockets out your mouth they love it
    I totally agree new to camming as well and this post helped back up my suspicion and that is act like a bitch

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    Yes and no for me. I play a GFE hustle so it can work against me to be 'bitchy'. I have confidence in my own worth which is what makes the difference I think. I tend to be direct, assertive, commanding by nature which is communicated through my body language, attitude and poise to the customer anyway.

    I usually say thankyou or smile to acknowledge a compliment and I'm always closing regardless.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    lol ^^^right and im not sure if this happens to everyone but i noticed when i say thank you it kind of closes the conversation its like ty and then thats it ....awkward lol so yeai stopped saying it after everything it kind of kills conversation verses when u say talk that slick sexy shhit out your mouth mor than likely ur going to hear the sound of money

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    I like this post. There must be a hundred subtle ways to direct the guy's awareness back to the fact that you are a product and he is the prospective buyer. So if he says "You're so sexy," rather than saying "Thank you!", you can respond with something like "Oh, good! It sounds like you've found what you're looking for." After he confirms that you are indeed what he has been looking for, you can lead that right into a "Perfect! Well, I'm ready to dance for you...let's go!" If he balks or says that he isn't ready, you can remind him that he just told you that he wanted you ("What are you waiting for? You've found what you want!"), and he'll be pressured by his own words into spending.


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    Default Re: Attract more Money by NOT being humble $$$

    Man, I need to find a way to fit this into my hustle. I'm like Flickdreams, I tend to have a GFE hustle and it works for me. When my club is busy, it's usually asshats that want to party. Maybe a "I know I'm hot" hustle might be more beneficial those nights.

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    I would feel so weird doing this o.o

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    ^ It works though. If you say it kinda bubbly (you know, the fake voice you do when pretending to be happy, that's half an octave above your normal voice), it usually comes off as cute and cheeky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I like this post. There must be a hundred subtle ways to direct the guy's awareness back to the fact that you are a product and he is the prospective buyer. So if he says "You're so sexy," rather than saying "Thank you!", you can respond with something like "Oh, good! It sounds like you've found what you're looking for." After he confirms that you are indeed what he has been looking for, you can lead that right into a "Perfect! Well, I'm ready to dance for you...let's go!" If he balks or says that he isn't ready, you can remind him that he just told you that he wanted you ("What are you waiting for? You've found what you want!"), and he'll be pressured by his own words into spending.
    ^^ All of this I need to remember I hear this all the time and this will be a great closing tactic for me. I always seem to miss the moment after they compliment me and usually wind up in the OTC merry-go-round. Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prettyglitter View Post
    I would feel so weird doing this o.o
    Yeah, I felt weird the first 10-20 times I used more hardcore sales tactics like the one I recommended above. But once the money starts rolling in, you'll get over that feeling reeeaaaaal quicklike.

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    (from my previous post)
    I use the compliment to step a little closer and up the flirt, holding in my mind that I know that he knows I know he wants me and give him the big eyes and say .... nothing at all. He will usually sell the dance to himself for me at that point. Of course if he doesn't and kind of rambles of whatever I could very easily launch into Charlie's hustle or any number of hustles at that point BUT, sometimes saying nothing at all is the best way for him to feel that he is chasing you and that is a powerful technique.
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I like this post. There must be a hundred subtle ways to direct the guy's awareness back to the fact that you are a product and he is the prospective buyer. So if he says "You're so sexy," rather than saying "Thank you!", you can respond with something like "Oh, good! It sounds like you've found what you're looking for." After he confirms that you are indeed what he has been looking for, you can lead that right into a "Perfect! Well, I'm ready to dance for you...let's go!" If he balks or says that he isn't ready, you can remind him that he just told you that he wanted you ("What are you waiting for? You've found what you want!"), and he'll be pressured by his own words into spending.
    Charlie you're amazeballs. I used that line last night and I think it would have worked...but he said he had just gotten there and wasn't ready..but asked me to "pleeeeaaase come back!" Then someone else wanted dances...then I forgot about him and went home. Haha. I'll be trying it again tomorrow. Perfect line.

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