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    Dizzy What do you say to the men?

    I am still new to camming and still learning the ins and outs that work best for me . one problem i had and still have is that im not a good communicator conversation starter or finisher (lol) BUT i have gotten better since camming . i know these men like when ur into yourself and what not but what are some good conversation starters or like even comebacks to questions they ask that may catch you off gard. i hope this makes sense

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    thanks for the links

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    I'm not sure it's something that can be taught.
    Although it is something that can be learned.
    I think, if you have a "sales" personality, or a "flirty" personality, that it can come naturally. (with a little practice)
    If you don't naturally have a sales or a flirty personality, it may be a good idea to read a lot of books about flirting and about sales (they are different yet inter-connected in my mind) and also to watch those who are good at it, and practice following their lead.
    One thing you'll never see the good ones doing however, is saying/doing something that isn't "natural" to them. (they may not believe it or actually *be* it, but anyone listening to them will never know that)
    I've been in sales (and a flirt) my entire life (it seems) so it's hard to tell others how to do it. With some guys, you call them on their bs, with some guys, you encourage their bs, with some guys, you build them up, with others, you laugh at their bs. It is probably good to always have the type of personality that (at least from the outside) exudes confidence and charisma.
    The most important thing is just to have fun. If you're having fun, and drawing others into that, you should do well. Be yourself, but more. (unless you have a certain personality you're trying to portray, and then do that!)

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    Don't say anything your not comfortable saying it is obvious and they can smell fear...

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    "hey baby, do you want play?" That's a start.





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    The Jenna Marbles guide to talking to men on cam

    When they come in
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    Tell them how eager to please you are
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    Dirty talk
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    Make sure you always say thanks after a show!
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    Use lines from Austin Power movies.
    "Are you horny, bb?" lol

    Are you corny?
    Are you a seductress?
    Are you funny?

    Go back to old movies from the 30s, 40s, 50s. You can find many females from them to take inspiration from. Like Jane Russel, Rosalind Russel aka sexy smart broads, Marilyn Monroe/Jane Mansfield breathe sex kittens, check out EVERY Mae West movie. Sultry then do Sophie Loren. Hot & bitchy go to Betty Davis & Joan Crawford.

    Watching old movies, concentrating on how the females handled the males & one liners will teach you much. How to flirt, body language, how to dress, how to be SEXY without giving all the goodies away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post

    Go back to old movies from the 30s, 40s, 50s. You can find many females from them to take inspiration from. Like Jane Russel, Rosalind Russel aka sexy smart broads, Marilyn Monroe/Jane Mansfield breathe sex kittens, check out EVERY Mae West movie. Sultry then do Sophie Loren. Hot & bitchy go to Betty Davis & Joan Crawford.

    Watching old movies, concentrating on how the females handled the males & one liners will teach you much. How to flirt, body language, how to dress, how to be SEXY without giving all the goodies away.

    Sam
    Yes, yes, yes!!!!! I love Mae!

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    Hell, you can probably bank just by using Mae West quotes alone. Write down your favorite 10 to 20 post them on your desk or wall behind the computer.

    Mae West should be the #1 example for ALL of us.
    She wrote her own risque plays. in 1926 had a play on Broadway called "SEX". It was raided & she was prosecuted for it based on Moral charges. Got sentenced to 10 days in Jail. In which, she turned into a MAJOR media event that made her even more popular. KK didn't do it first, Mae West did.

    Her next play that she wrote & tried to put on Broadway was called "The Drag" that right, she was fighting for gay rights before men came out of the closet & it was even a thing. But it was banned from being open.

    Despite being 40, yes, that's right 40 Hollywood came a calling. Which makes it ridiculous when females come on here & ask if they are to old to cam or strip.
    But even more so, she asked how much did the owner of the studio made a year. Was told 1 million dollars, so she demanded & GOT 1 million and 1. Her films for Paramount pictures kept them from going bankrupt.


    By 1935, West was the highest-paid star in Hollywood — and the second highest-paid person in the United States.

    She gave Cary Grant his chance in movies.
    Mae West was allowed to rewrite her scenes. Actors & especially actresses didn't have that kind of power back then & not for decades.
    She wrote nine of the 13 films in which she starred.

    When the Beatles asked permission to use a picture of West on the Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Band album cover, the actress joked, "What would I be doing in a lonely hearts club?” When the Beatles finally convinced her, they put her (#3) next to Lenny Bruce (#4), another comic known for pushing the boundaries of freedom of speech.

    Mae West preferred dating younger men. Her long-term partner Paul Novak was 30 years her junior.

    http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/259666.Mae_West

    Please I beg you click on the link. You will laugh & see her wisdom.

    Smooches,
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    Sam, you are awesome, girlie! You gave me some great ideas. I went onto my amazon prime and found every prime instant movie of all the stars you mentioned just to watch and study them. It'll give me something to do the 5 days I'm home with family next week. Merry Christmas and thanks again.

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    Mae West: If I can't a man with a million dollars, I'll a million men with one dollar.”
    ― Mae West

    LOL was she talking about gold shows & tipping count downs...

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    A man has one hundred dollars and you leave him with two dollars, that's subtraction.

    I've been in more laps than a napkin.

    Virtue has its own reward, but no sale at the box office

    I've been things and seen places.

    I believe that it's better to be looked over than it is to be overlooked.

    She's the kind of girl who climbed the ladder of success wrong by wrong.

    I believe in censorship. I made a fortune out of it.

    Personality is the most important thing to an actress's success.

    When I'm good, I'm very good. But when I'm bad I'm better.

    Save a boyfriend for a rainy day - and another, in case it doesn't rain.


    I used to be Snow White, but I drifted.


    Personality is the glitter that sends your little gleam across the footlights and the orchestra pit into that big black space where the audience is.


    I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamonds.

    I'm no model lady. A model's just an imitation of the real thing.


    When women go wrong, men go right after them.

    One and one is two, and two and two is four, and five will get you ten if you know how to work it

    Look your best - who said love is blind?

    I didn't discover curves; I only uncovered them.

    Cultivate your curves - they may be dangerous but they won't be avoided.

    Ten men waiting for me at the door? Send one of them home, I'm tired.

    I speak two languages, Body and English.

    She's the kind of girl who climbed the ladder of success wrong by wrong.

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    My mother instilled a love for old movies in me! Mae West is my role model... fearless, curvy, and gorgeous!

    Favorite quote: "I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond"

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    Also, She Done Him Wrong is the perfect hustler movie...Mae teaches you how to do it right!

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    Hard part about camming is answering the same questions over & over & over & over & over & over & over & over again....

    Sometimes by the same guy. Gets to be mind numbing.
    I don't even allow close friends to ask me how I'm doing...

    Hard part is answering the same questions over & over again without being bored & it showing or irritated by it. Hence, acting skills.

    If I read on my screen "do you like bbc" never again, I will be the happiest person in the world. As if the color of a dick is enough to do my job for free or make me want to fuck them.

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    Taking on other personalities has never been a strong ability of mine, so I'm just me: chatty, clumsy, and kind of goofy. I can't help it. Yes, I can turn on the wit and sex appeal, but eventually I'm going to bump my head or fall off the bed on live cam. So, I just talk and joke in chat. I let my personality shine and it works for me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    Taking on other personalities has never been a strong ability of mine, so I'm just me: chatty, clumsy, and kind of goofy. I can't help it. Yes, I can turn on the wit and sex appeal, but eventually I'm going to bump my head or fall off the bed on live cam. So, I just talk and joke in chat. I let my personality shine and it works for me!
    Oh honey... Lucy Arnez...
    I love Lucy, the most money making, longest running showin reruns ever on tv, all around the world. To this day, it has never ever had the reruns taken off the tv. Why? It was that good. The physical comedy on it doesn't need to be translated into any language. She insisted upon major movie quality film be used. When all other tv show at that time used a much cheaper not very good quality film.

    Played that roll all the way to the bank. She BOUGHT that studio it was filmed in over time. Tv show stars didn't get royalties, she owned, wrote, caste, produced that show With that studio, green lighted, owned some of the most forward, culture changing controversal money making shows ever put on tv. "All in the Family" "Star trek" as in Captain Kirk, black and white, 1st mutli-racial show first kiss between races ground breaking, spin off after spin off tv series, movies, merchandising show in the WORLD.

    Goofy, chatty, clumsy, not afraid to laugh at yourself WORKS! Lucy may have played dumb on tv. Make no mistake one of the smartest females ever in business.

    Maybe we should make this a game. Tell me your character, how you are on cam and I will come up with a female legend Icon for you get inspiration from.

    Smooches,
    Sam

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    ^Sam, I like this game and I love old movies. I want to play! My character/the part of myself that I channel on camera is a sweet, soft-spoken seductress with a dark side. Intense, open-minded, kinky as hell, tending to eat the weak boys alive (dominatrix) but let the stronger sort think I'm their toy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophiaSylvan View Post
    ^Sam, I like this game and I love old movies. I want to play! My character/the part of myself that I channel on camera is a sweet, soft-spoken seductress with a dark side. Intense, open-minded, kinky as hell, tending to eat the weak boys alive (dominatrix) but let the stronger sort think I'm their toy.
    Sophia Loren!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophiaSylvan View Post
    ^Sam, I like this game and I love old movies. I want to play! My character/the part of myself that I channel on camera is a sweet, soft-spoken seductress with a dark side. Intense, open-minded, kinky as hell, tending to eat the weak boys alive (dominatrix) but let the stronger sort think I'm their toy.

    Ava Gardner
    You are a classic topping from the bottom. It does truly fucks with their minds, but they can't get enough of it. Ava had that evil streak that always put her needs, her wants ahead of the men she was fucking. She tamed the number one matador in all of the world, impossible task for any woman.

    Classic Ava Gardner who did that to Frank Sinatra & Howard Hughes.

    Ava cheated on old blue eyes, the Chief, the Original leader and forever leader of the Rat Pack. An alpha male who was lord over alpha males till the day he died. Nobody cheated on Frank, he cheated on them. Yet, with a note, a phone call, even after their divorce he would fly to her side any where in the world and she often made him do just that only to send him away a few days later.
    When she was old, broke, no way to make money. Frank gave her plenty to live off of for the rest of her life. Despite being married to Mia Farrow who hated AVa.


    While Sophia Loren tried to be a tough lady, she was to much of a good girl. To soft hearted in life & in her rolls. Not quite enough selfishness it takes to pull that off. Sophia always put her husband & kids needs ahead of her own. Never cheated on her husband, is still loyal to him so many years after he past.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SophiaSylvan View Post
    ^Sam, I like this game and I love old movies. I want to play! My character/the part of myself that I channel on camera is a sweet, soft-spoken seductress with a dark side. Intense, open-minded, kinky as hell, tending to eat the weak boys alive (dominatrix) but let the stronger sort think I'm their toy.
    I love this. I'd like to think this is me. I was inspired by Audrey Hepburn for my name, but I love bdsm, so got that dark side too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audreymadison View Post
    I love this. I'd like to think this is me. I was inspired by Audrey Hepburn for my name, but I love bdsm, so got that dark side too.
    Then you are no Audrey Hepburn, she was way to altruistic. She was the original celebrity to lend her name to charity with being the spokesperson for The UNICEF.

    No, Tippy Hedren. Melonie Griffin's mother.
    She was all about saving animals especially Lions. Her dark side, all those lions living on her property having full run of her house too. No safety or protections for her kids. Spent all her money, took eleven years $17 million to make a vanity movie about a family living with and among Lions. Which is what she did in real life. She thought they were all sweet and harmless. It all ended when one of the lions attacked Melonie. She does still much good work with animals

    Watch her in several famous Alfred Hitchcock movies. Her scenes in "Marnie" with Sean O'connory are twisted & dark, you cant look away, riveting.

    Every time you get your nails done think of her. Hedren played a role in the development of Vietnamese-American nail salons in the United States

    She was the cold blonde all men wanted to warm up whether she wanted to be or not.

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    Ava Gardner was born in my hometown. My dad did a service call at her sister's house the day before one of the great auction houses was scheduled to come look at Ava's estate belongings. Her sister (I believe her name is Myra) showed my dad a few love letters from Mr. Sinatra as well as designer bags and diamond pins. I would've
    LOVE to seen that stuff!

    Two of my favorite books:

    How to be Adored: A Girls Gide to Hollywood Glamour by Caroline Cox

    and

    The Bombshell Manual of Style by Laren Stover


    Both books give great insight to the lives and habits of Old Hollywood- beauty secrets, lifestyle choices, attitude, etc. I also adore Lauren Bacall. Any woman who could bag a Bogart with a stare alone is worth every ounce of my admiration!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    Ava Gardner was born in my hometown. My dad did a service call at her sister's house the day before one of the great auction houses was scheduled to come look at Ava's estate belongings. Her sister (I believe her name is Myra) showed my dad a few love letters from Mr. Sinatra as well as designer bags and diamond pins. I would've
    LOVE to seen that stuff!

    Two of my favorite books:

    How to be Adored: A Girls Gide to Hollywood Glamour by Caroline Cox

    and

    The Bombshell Manual of Style by Laren Stover


    Both books give great insight to the lives and habits of Old Hollywood- beauty secrets, lifestyle choices, attitude, etc. I also adore Lauren Bacall. Any woman who could bag a Bogart with a stare alone is worth every ounce of my admiration!
    Damn.

    That is uncanny, unreal. Maybe I need to sign up & work for the psychic network.
    Is your avatar how you currently look?

    If so try going a shade darker to be a sultry smoldering temptress that tamed the most untamable men to her wants and desires.

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