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    Dizzy I finally did it. I had my first night.

    And I don't know what to think about it all.

    I finally went into the club close to my house...I was there from 7pm-2am, and after tip out I took home about $100. Everyone else was complaining how dead and terrible it was tonight, so I'm hoping that's not the $$ I'll be making on a regular basis. Not many people could believe I was a newbie to the club -- I had my look solidly pieced together and I was not entirely uncomfortable waltzing about to interact with customers. That could be thanks to a few drinks ...or more than a few. Jesus, I had a bajillion drinks I think! It felt like everyone I sat with bought me one. eek. But I didn't feel drunk coming home, or at the end of my shift. The exhaustion was all my brain could understand. I am naturally an introvert, so being that bubbly & fun character to every. single. person. I met was a bit overwhelming. It's only my first day though, right? I could get used to it....I'm just not sure what I'm willing to sacrifice in terms of my OTC personality.

    I am not new to the industry. I was an escort and prior to stripping, a bodyrub babe. Sooooo for me $100, for all the ass-kissing I did, is peanuts. I'm just hoping I can learn to hustle, and learn to manage these late hours, and find the right nights for me to bank. Ugh. I put myself in the club because I wanted some challenge and excitement, but the party atmosphere is starting to make me question whether I want to stay...another thing is, for a long time I really romanticized the work. I would go in and see these flawless strippers and tell myself, "I want to be that confident! that seductive! that charming!" I planned my next few years on working in the sex industry but I'm getting majorly disillusioned. Probably the result of starting 3 years ago...I'm just a baby though, 19 years old, if I wanted to I could stick around for a looooong time.

    Again, I reiterate...I hope the next few days are promising. I am questioning a lot right now, and maybe I'm just too tired and stressed out to be making such dramatic statements. ALSO they let me skip stage for my first shift! I am not as nervous at the idea of stage dancing now as I assumed I would be, except I know I'll look like a fool nonetheless. Ha.

    Thanks for reading...it's nice to just unwind this way. I better hit the sack hard.
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    Default Re: I finally did it. I had my first night.

    Before all the other Debby Downers come and spoil your happiness, good for you. Keep making consistent money.





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    Default Re: I finally did it. I had my first night.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    Before all the other Debby Downers come and spoil your happiness, good for you. Keep making consistent money.
    Thank you. I can't really say I'm happy haha but I am feeling some type of way...I am at least grateful to finally have enough confidence to work in that atmosphere.

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    Default Re: I finally did it. I had my first night.

    Congrats on getting your first night over with! I'll be the first one to say though that you definitely don't need to accept a drink from every table lol! If your club management pressures you to accept drinks, either order something non alcoholic or if you can't do that, just sip slow and abandon drinks before you finish them. A lot of guys will try to make you drink with them, but don't let them make you feel bad. They just want to get your time and attention for free. The best excuse that works for me is to say I've already had a few too many and I'm feeling pretty tipsy, how about we do some dances for now?

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    Default Re: I finally did it. I had my first night.

    ^^^^ agree here. Tell them you're already a little tipsy, or I have often said I'm diabetic. Don't ever say anything that suggests you're a 'lightweight' as that might inspire a certain kind of customer to buy you smtg strong then try to guilt you into drinking it. You are nvr under obligation to accept alcoholic drinks.

    If you run a search on 'drinking at work' sm of the threads have creative ways to get out of drinking completely, or how to handle unwanted drinks that have already been put in front of you.

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    Default Re: I finally did it. I had my first night.

    Congrats on getting started! Was your first shift at my club? Some clubs/shifts have varying income potential in this city, so that's something to keep in mind regarding your earnings. And the hustle will come to you!

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