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    Hey everyone,

    So recently I've decided to cut a toxic "friend" from my life. I've struggled to do this for over a year now. I met him through my now ex boyfriend years back, and he honestly seemed like such a genuine, funny guy to be around. I considered him a brother - until things got rough for him financially and he moved in (at the time I was living at my boyfriend's mother's house).

    It turned out that he was mentally unstable, literally dirty (you could smell his penis if you stood near him/rarely washed laundry or showered), a liar, and just rude. After my break-up, he actually had the nerve to assume that him and I would be having sex. When I got upset at this assumption, HE got mad at ME. Continuously he insults me. Whenever he calls back to "work out" the problem, he denies ever insulting me and the things he says. Like what the hell did you even call me to talk about??? He's so manipulative. He'll victimize himself, say that I "misunderstood" and that it's "rude" of me to get upset at him. He's even taken a jab at my daughter for not having her biological father in her life, and for having a speech delay. How oh how did I not slap him?

    With everything that's going on in my life, and with 2014 ending, the last thing I need is such toxicity. In case you're wondering why I even communicated with such a person to begin with - he was deceitful, and well...when you've felt as lonely as I have these past few weeks, you'll talk to just about anyone. That's the only reason I'd ever go back. My problem is that I believe that people will go back to how they were before. Too much. When I told him I no longer wanted to communicate with him, he told me "good luck"...

    Why should I tolerate such a rude person who leaves me feeling emotionally drained after every get-together/conversation? He does nothing for me. I always suspected that his intention was to bed me, but like I said, I was so lonely and felt like he was the only one to talk to so I ignored my gut. My ex knows how he is, and I think for the time being will only tolerate him while he stays at his Mom's house. Once he moves out, he's not welcomed near my kids or me.

    I think the best revenge, is bettering myself. Look at me now! I'm healthy and doing just fine without ya. Good riddance.

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    Good for you! That's awful, glad you got rid of him.


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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