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    Question So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    So, right now I'm assuming that its just so she can keep in contact and get me back in the club at some later point. But here's the background.

    A friend and I found ourselves with a random day off starting at noon. So, we were thinking about celebrating a bit because I just got a new job and he just hit a good bonus. So, we went to a local club around 2:30 in the afternoon. We weren't there for dances, but we did enjoy the stage shows and tipped the ladies as they danced. Well, we started talking with the bartender and a girl our two came over while we were there, but as soon as we said we weren't interested in lap dances they left.

    Well, one girl decided to sit anyway and chit chat. We're all talking and having a good time. We start talking about some of what we do and we get talking geeky a bit. So that was a nice bonus, lol. We offer her a drink of her choice, but she declines as she's headed off shift soon. We tipped her a bit extra over what we did while she was on stage, but nothing crazy. Course we flirt a bit and the usual... but as we're leaving she writes down her number and gives it to me. Has her supposed real name(definitely wasn't the stage name). I didn't ask for it at all and I was a bit surprised. Not like we were big spenders or anything.

    Did I get a random unicorn moment, or is my first assumption the most likely?

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Many dancers give fake 'real' names, both to counteract the despised 'What's your REAL name???' question & as a contact ID for customers they want to come back & see them.

    This was most likely a hustle tactic. It's not personal, in either a good or bad way. Stop overthinking it & just enjoy the good times w/ her.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Unicorn moments happen, but your first assumption is the most likely case. Ultimately, does it matter? If you enjoyed your time with her, give the number a call to see how you can spend some more with her.
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    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Unicorns are out there, but you have the same luck on winning the lottery. So don't get your hopes up. Just have fun! But if it does happens, I'm sure you'd get a CLEAR answer.





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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    "Unicorn moments"..may have to borrow that! `I AM the UNICORN!


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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Not to burst your bubble, but I'm gonna bet it wasn't her real number.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    867-5309 is my number. Or the Montgomery County Coroner's office.
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    ^^^Ha! I've given customers each others numbers a few times
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    OMG! How'd that pan out?
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    OMG! How'd that pan out?
    Funny as fuck. They were both extras seeking guys, so since I wasn't gonna get any money out of them, I figured I had to have some fun. Oh, and I gave a homeless guy a twenty the next day to balance out my karma
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Dude, I've received countless stripper numbers. In this age of Google voice and disposable cell numbers, it doesn't really mean much. Don't read too much into it.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    ^ i read a story on here about a dancer who agreed to meet a customer at his hotel at a certain time and then later in the evening told another customer to come to her hotel room at a particular time.... obviously the fun being she sent the second guy to the first one's hotel room... It may have been BritneyIreland?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Dude, I've received countless stripper numbers. In this age of Google voice and disposable cell numbers, it doesn't really mean much. Don't read too much into it.
    I did this when I worked regularly. Gave the number to a "disposable" cell to customers I saw money potential in. If I didn't see money potential for myself but they were persistent about a number, I gave them the club's. Either way, I charged a dollar a digit for the full number.

    I've been debating, once I'm established and working regularly again, doing a similar system based on my experience with the tossable cells. Keep two "hard" cells (my personal and a work dedicated one) and a burner. Keep selling the burner/club numbers like I did before, and charge an inflated price (maybe $10 a digit?) to established regulars for the "hard" work number.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Its probably her way to get you back into the club more than likely. But thats just a guess like everyone said why dont you just go ahead and call the girl up give it a shot. It might surprise you

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    edit. duplicate

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    I'm not buying this unicorn stuff. I had this as an assumption but haven't run into this at all in actual practice. I run into the exact opposite in every occasion so far.

    The girls there are no different than would be in real life for the most part though I'm not going to give you a tutorial on how to accomplish such things. Should be obvious.,

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    My favorite keeps a disposable cell phone for talking to her regulars. That way we can know each other's schedules and not interfere with her personal life. I don't usually come to her club if she is not working, or if she will be busy with another regular, so it works well for both of us.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Nowadays, if you want a number from a stripper, you can usually get it. I have to say that I have been fortunate enough that 1) I've never been charged a per digit fee for the number, 2) never been given the club's number, 3) never been sent to the hotel room of another customer (wrong thread?) In my experience some have had disposable phones, some I advised to get a disposable phone, some used their regular cell number. I would say while you can't necessarily read something into it, its better than asking for the number and getting rejected. I would think you could read the not so subtle message being sent there. But, getting a dancer's number could mean nothing, something or whatever, but most of the time, it's probably nothing.

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    ^PS, I'm the one who did the hotel thing, but both guys were extra seeking. Well, they never said they cared who they were from I recommend burner phones, for everyone involved, to be honest.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lastone View Post
    My favorite keeps a disposable cell phone for talking to her regulars. That way we can know each other's schedules and not interfere with her personal life. I don't usually come to her club if she is not working, or if she will be busy with another regular, so it works well for both of us.
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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    Only time I've gotten strippers' numbers without asking, is if they wanted to see me out of the club for P4P. (Oh, one, not a prost., wanted a loan.) Very few times have I asked, or received, numbers (maybe 3 or 4). This is not a very common thing according to my experiences.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    I have a fake real name and a separate disposable work phone. Anytime I give out my number and "real" name it's always to try to get them to come back into the club. I will give out that number to anyone, it's mostly off when I'm not working anyway. Ask her on a date, if she's always too busy, wants money to take off work, or wants you to visit her at work then you will know.

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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    The two times I was given a dancer's number was from dancers who I had multiples with and they were honest about it, they said to give it a call if I wanted more dancing and it would be a VM saying when and where they would be dancing for the next few days.
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    Default Re: So, the ever present question... got a strippers number...

    It's fairly common to get a dancer's phone number. Those that give one out are usually giving out the number of a cheap prepaid phone. They usually use them to text you and try to get you to come in when they are having a slow shift. They can be useful if you want to see if they are working on a particular day, or need to coordinate an OTC with them. Beyond that, I wouldn't read any more into it.

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