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    Question what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Did you keep dancing until you started showing.did you have money saved up until you were able to work again? I'm 3 months already showing what should I do to make money while pregnant?

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I kept dancing until I was about 7 or 8 months. It made no difference in my money. Guys loved it. Lol

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I didn't had money because it was spent on moving. After I was too big to dance (I showed quickly, so around the 16th week), I entered the world of camming and clips. I highly recommend pregnant and lactating dancers to cam and/or sell clips in the mean time because there is a big market for pregnancy and lactation fetishes.





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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    ^ Also, I would think that dancing in heels in the club could be quite dangerous in addition to the heavy bassline pounding through your body and affecting heart rythms too.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Girls should think of this BEFORE getting pregnant.

    Or at least have a day job that has benefits.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Quote Originally Posted by gypsylove View Post
    Girls should think of this BEFORE getting pregnant.
    While I agree with this overall, it comes across as highly judgmental. Some times, birth control fails. Even in planned pregnancies, a lot of women are more concerned with how having a child is going to affect their lives than their jobs at the time they choose to get pregnant.

    As far as I'm concerned, there are a few options that can be mixed and matched to suit your personal preference:

    1) Continue working and save every penny you can until you need to quit, for whatever reason that may be (body is telling you it can't keep up, doctor tells you to lay off, changing shape affects confidence, etc.)
    2) Look for alternative work. Whether that be camming or vanilla work is up to you.
    3) Talk to family and the father, if he's involved, about how much help/support they're willing to provide.
    4) Check your eligibility for government programs like Medicaid, WIC, food stamps, income adjusted housing, etc. I may get some flack for including this one but, the way I see it, it's only fair to make use of it when you really do need it if you paid taxes on it.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.


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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    do camming and clips..its a gold mine if you are pregnant/lactating

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    A curious question I have is how, when pregnant, did you girls not seriously attempt to maim or murder customers who kept trying to get their grubby paws all over you? At least I think that's how I would feel if I danced while pregnant.

    I had considered this if I got pregnant, to dance in the early stages just to get some fast cash for silly baby accessories later. But I most likely will not dance during that time.

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    I heard a rumor yesterday that a pregnancy themed strip club was opening up in Portland, OR. Girls are being asked to be at least 5 months along, and showing. The name of the club is going to be "Baby Bumps."

    I don't think there are enough women in Oregon in their 2nd and 3rd trimesters willing to dance naked. This place is going to have to recruit from out of state to keep a regular dance roster full.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I worked in a bikini club up until 3 or 4 months, so I could easily cover my bump..and I also started showing early. But I could not deal with men touching me and I worried constantly about falling in those heels. I quit and my husband worked a second job up until our baby was 1. Also signed up for WIC, clipped coupons, bought and sold things on craigslist for a little profit and lived very frugally.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    You could also check out pregnant modeling!
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I ABORTED asap.... I swear I started showing immediately like super bloated

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    ^ I believe the OP wants to keep the baby; financial suggestions for pregnancy combined with adult work, right OP?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I danced until I started showing then did part time vanilla work and got help from my significant other. I've heard camming is a gold mine for pregnant and lactating women so I agree with the suggestion of doing that if you are looking for adult work/WAH. If not, wear something that hides your bump and apply for vanilla jobs and public assistance if you are not getting help from the father of the baby. Best wishes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starling View Post
    A curious question I have is how, when pregnant, did you girls not seriously attempt to maim or murder customers who kept trying to get their grubby paws all over you? At least I think that's how I would feel if I danced while pregnant.

    I had considered this if I got pregnant, to dance in the early stages just to get some fast cash for silly baby accessories later. But I most likely will not dance during that time.
    And to answer this question, the majority of the shifts I worked while pregnant were day shifts so the music in the club was never full of bass or too loud and I didn't have a plethora of drunk handsy guys to deal with just daytime regulars that knew I didn't like people touching or rubbing my belly.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Maybe talk to a manager about working as a waitress/bartender/door girl/cashier?

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    When I first got pregnant I worked two shifts. I was sooo tired and the booze and cigarette smell on the customers made me sick to my stomach. I just couldn't do it anymore. Luckily my boyfriend decided to support me. I wanted to start camming but he wouldn't let me I thought I could dance through out pregnancy, we had one girl that danced until she was 7 or 8 months. Now I see how naive I was and I see her in a whole new light and have TONS of respect for her. I'm just hoping that little man doesn't mess up my body too much because I'm ready to go back!

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    Quote Originally Posted by azaleanola View Post
    Maybe talk to a manager about working as a waitress/bartender/door girl/cashier?
    A girl at my last club did this when she was pregnant. They let her work the door. You should definitely try that option!

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    I couldn't dance after getting pregnant. I was way too tired, achy, sick, fat, etc,etc. I also have zero tolerance for men when I'm sober. I just focused on a day job. If I was ok with clips, I would be doing that too. It sucks being broke but you know it's not forever.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Im going to try camming while pregnant. I have a question, is it like applying for a job? Will they do a background etc? I read some places ALL you need a passport and I read other you need a full on job application social security and background.

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheWeirdOne View Post
    Im going to try camming while pregnant. I have a question, is it like applying for a job? Will they do a background etc? I read some places ALL you need a passport and I read other you need a full on job application social security and background.
    you can be solo performer, broadcastin from home, no problem

    i judge that girls who dance pregnant.. poor baby..that air and emotions that everybody feel...

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    Some girls I worked with danced until 7months and did very little to no podiums. Some customers loved it but I found it creepy when they were seductively stroking their baby-bumps during a lapdance
    "I just look in the mirror and I say, 'God, it's really fantastic, the Lord really gave me something.' So why on earth should I cover any of it up?" -Edy Williams

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    Default Re: what did you do when you got pregnant as a dancer?

    ^ ahahaha!

    I saved, saved, saved and worked until I was 6 months along. I rocked the hell out of those baby doll outfits-which look fantastic on pregnant womenz!

    Unfortunately, I didn't know about camming at the time. I think that's such a wonderful option!
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