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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Yeah I figured it wasn't slander but I did think she might be violating some privacy/safety law.

    Well hell, if I adult performers have no right to privacy. And no one has right to privacy then if, OP for example, retaliated and post ol girls address and medication list on her Facebook for the public to see then she wouldn't be breaking any law either- just getting even??? I'm not saying revenge is right I'm just saying, in theory....or I'm just stumped at the laws on Internet and privacy.

    Posting her cam link in public without her permission is like posting her address since I'm sure a tech savvy hacker could get her IP address which could then be used to get her real address.

    At least the sites that are tracking our actions and collecting our private data are doing just that. They don't share it with 3rd parties or the public and would most likely need consent unless we're breaking a law.

    This girl had malicious intent (to cause her emotional distress - or possibly set her up for potential stalkers) when sharing her personal data wight the public.

    Well I hope the OP will pull through and make the best of the situation. Best of luck to you girlie

    I did find and interesting article about privacy and the Internet http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5378585

    What this chick did sounds like 'revenge porn'
    Releasing medical info is illegal. Having pill bottles with your info on them in camera site STUPID!!!!

    The laws cant keep up with the web, because our laws are based upon each city, county, state and country. The internet is world wide, no world wide laws or ability to enforce them. The U.N. and what is covers is about human rights and yet many people are raped, killed, sold into sex slavery all around the world.

    Now the girl posting porn links on fb can be reported to fb for doing it. Fb does not tolerate porn being promoted on it. You can have her shut down that way. Otherwise, consider it free marketing.

    Fan boys rarely leave the house, lol much less go to see bands play. If they are in your area and show up most of them will be polite and excited. But for that fact any man or female in the audience could become a stalker.

    No matter what you should be taking certain steps to protect yourself. Like not accepting drinks that you didn't see poured. Doing shots. Having the band members watch out for you incase you are drugged. Walked to your car. Making sure no one follows you home. Get to know always were the nearest police station is incase you are followed. DON't drive home if you are being followed.

    Take different routes home on a regular bases. Get a big dog, heck even a little dog barking runs off men who try to get in because you are warned. Get a shotgun. Nobody ever comes in a door when they here a shot gun being cocked. I don't care how crazy, drunk or high that sound means you are serious and not missing. A federal marshal told me that info.

    Men stalk and rape girls everyday who aren't cam girls or porn stars. We have to be protective in everyday life as a female.

    Girls dont cam under there real names cause the fantasy. We want to be the fantasy, even to ourselves. My real name is BORING!!! Boring is not what I want to project, a sexy name is part of the sales. Nobody chooses names like Bertha, Judith, Ethel, Ina, Mabel, Maude, Florence.

    Smooches,
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    Use AOL as your browser. They automatically changes your IP address to help you from being hacked.

    A guy who does it for a living told me:::: those nasty hated spammers that come into our free chat and post links to other cam sites use to keep from being permanently being blocked.

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    It's a cold world! When medical info is more secure than more personal identification like name and address and IP address.

    Now I know what obstacles webcam performers face - hats off to you all
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g
    My real name is BORING!!! Boring is not what I want to project, a sexy name is part of the sales. Nobody chooses names like Bertha, Judith, Ethel, Ina, Mabel, Maude, Florence.
    HAHA. This made my day!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
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    It's a cold world! When medical info is more secure than more personal identification like name and address and IP address.

    Now I know what obstacles webcam performers face - hats off to you all
    Your medical info is protected by law. Your employer can't release any info other than to verify you work there. "The Privacy Act". Now, if a fan boy finds such info and post if all over the web, while wrong, not illegal. If your doctor or employer release that info they face fines and sanctions by the gov, harsh ones.

    Rent.
    I know it is always told to us to buy a home. When you buy a place that becomes listed public document that anyone on the web can find. Got my worst stalker from it. You don't want to buy a place and put it under your husband or bf name, cause then he can steal it from you. Even relatives has been known to do this.

    While as when you rent a place, it isn't public record. Move every several years, maybe to even a new city or state. Makes it harder for them to stalk you.

    If you must buy, then go to those expensive gated communities with a guard at the gate.

    Sam

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    To the OP of this thread. Here is the right thing to do and might run her off. Cause the more you block, counter, ignore her more obsessed she will become at getting your attention even if in a negative way.

    Start posting links rehab programs on her page. To all the local AAA meetings close to her.
    Info on how to get off of drugs and getting help.

    You might save her life.

    Sam

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    Sadly, Sam is right! The only right to privacy you have is within your own home. Anything you put on the internet is now pubic info. You have no assumption of privacy, therefor it's not illegal to copy and broadcast it everywhere. Just like when celebrities get photos takes of them no matter where they are. Even in their front yards! She's pretty sneaky in calling herself a fan page. If she portrayed it as herself, that would be a problem...but as a fan she's clear. You can get things like videos and pictures pulled, but you would have to send a DMCA notice for every single item. Enough violations and they may pull the page. Or you could post the page here and we can flag it for you....or PM some of us if you don't want that info here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Addison Lynne View Post
    Sadly, Sam is right! The only right to privacy you have is within your own home. Anything you put on the internet is now pubic info. You have no assumption of privacy, therefor it's not illegal to copy and broadcast it everywhere. Just like when celebrities get photos takes of them no matter where they are. Even in their front yards! She's pretty sneaky in calling herself a fan page. If she portrayed it as herself, that would be a problem...but as a fan she's clear. You can get things like videos and pictures pulled, but you would have to send a DMCA notice for every single item. Enough violations and they may pull the page. Or you could post the page here and we can flag it for you....or PM some of us if you don't want that info here.
    Wrong, you don't have privacy in your own home. Those video games where it has a camera to play those games, at anytime the Gov can turn it on & see exactly what you are doing.
    Your web cam, especially the one built into the computer, hackers or the gov can turn on without you knowing and watch you.

    That fancy phone we all have and want. Video and sound can be turned on by the gov anytime they want. Only way to keep it from happening is to pull the battery out. Turning it off is not enough.

    On google for a long long time you can view your home or anyone else can from satellites up in space.

    Anyone paranoid yet? Only way to live a private life is to live off the grid. No phone, no car before 1987, no electricity, deep out in the woods. Welcome to Alaska.

    Sam

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    Ha! So true Sam! I have thought about going off-grid. I might have a conniption without internet though. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Wrong, you don't have privacy in your own home. Those video games where it has a camera to play those games, at anytime the Gov can turn it on & see exactly what you are doing.
    Your web cam, especially the one built into the computer, hackers or the gov can turn on without you knowing and watch you.

    That fancy phone we all have and want. Video and sound can be turned on by the gov anytime they want. Only way to keep it from happening is to pull the battery out. Turning it off is not enough.

    On google for a long long time you can view your home or anyone else can from satellites up in space.

    Anyone paranoid yet? Only way to live a private life is to live off the grid. No phone, no car before 1987, no electricity, deep out in the woods. Welcome to Alaska.

    Sam
    And in some states and counties its ILLEGAL to live off the grid... insane world we are living it.

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    Just an update, I ended up outing myself on my band and personal pages as a webcam model, and outing her for exposing me. I hope it goes well. Thank you guys so much for your input and insight.


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    Sorry you had that experience though, that sucks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CookieSecrets View Post
    Just an update, I ended up outing myself on my band and personal pages as a webcam model, and outing her for exposing me. I hope it goes well. Thank you guys so much for your input and insight.
    Best idea!!!! You stole her thunder. Hahahaha FUCK HER!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CookieSecrets View Post
    Just an update, I ended up outing myself on my band and personal pages as a webcam model, and outing her for exposing me. I hope it goes well. Thank you guys so much for your input and insight.
    You did the right thing, always best to hear it from you rather than second hand. It is almost like coming out gay, afraid of the judgement and losing people you care about.
    A good friend of mine told me how he hid being gay, even beat up gay guys, always had a girlfriend. How scared he was coming out. His Mom says, she and everyone else knew and were just waiting for him to own it on his own terms. People know, but sometimes remain quite, then some are shocked.

    Honesty, is how the best relationships are built upon.

    Taking your power back, is ownership and prevents her & others from being manipulative. Good for you. You rock.

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    I am so sorry this happened to you. While my first thought was "sue her ass off," girls who intentionally do porn don't really get a ton of legal protection... keep us updated on how it goes with outing yourself and stealing her thunder...

    This just reminds me that I need to create a new Facebook page with all my friends and family who I don't want to know about my career and keep everyone else in my life on a separate page. That way if one person decides to "out" me on my old page, no family would know about it. Hell, my family is so broken anyway, I can hardly give fucks at this point. It's my husband's family that I'm concerned about.
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    Like, I'm happy having my sexy pr0n everywhere, but I don't really want a bunch of clips of me popping balloons in diapers all over the place XD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearl_Sugar View Post
    I am so sorry this happened to you. While my first thought was "sue her ass off," girls who intentionally do porn don't really get a ton of legal protection... keep us updated on how it goes with outing yourself and stealing her thunder...

    This just reminds me that I need to create a new Facebook page with all my friends and family who I don't want to know about my career and keep everyone else in my life on a separate page. That way if one person decides to "out" me on my old page, no family would know about it. Hell, my family is so broken anyway, I can hardly give fucks at this point. It's my husband's family that I'm concerned about.
    There is NO need for a cam girl fb page. It is a waste of time. Does NOT convert into sales. Keep a fb page for family and friends, NOT work. Let it be the one place you can go to without being work related.
    Use Twitter, instagram, youtube and tumblr for work.

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    So, the outing myself has gone really great actually...I've discovered I have lots of allies, and I feel way more empowered about the whole situation. I really want to thank all of you for giving me advice and helping me, I can't tell you what it means to me. I'd like to ask a final favor if it's okay: I was wondering if you guys would be willing to flag the facebook pages my stalker made and help me get them taken down? Although I'm relieved to be out of the closet, she still stole my images and is impersonating me, and I really want to see them get taken down if at all possible. I am going to PM the two pages she made to everyone who replied to this thread, and if you have a facebook and a few moments to flag them, I would be so grateful for the help. Thanks so much.

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    Many people pretend to be me or use my images. I just tell men to send their dick pics there for me to see it. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Many people pretend to be me or use my images. I just tell men to send their dick pics there for me to see it. LOL

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    Bahahaha OMG Sam that is hilarious, and GENIUS!

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    I'm happy to help love. PM away.


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    Quote Originally Posted by CookieSecrets View Post
    So, the outing myself has gone really great actually...I've discovered I have lots of allies, and I feel way more empowered about the whole situation. I really want to thank all of you for giving me advice and helping me, I can't tell you what it means to me. I'd like to ask a final favor if it's okay: I was wondering if you guys would be willing to flag the facebook pages my stalker made and help me get them taken down? Although I'm relieved to be out of the closet, she still stole my images and is impersonating me, and I really want to see them get taken down if at all possible. I am going to PM the two pages she made to everyone who replied to this thread, and if you have a facebook and a few moments to flag them, I would be so grateful for the help. Thanks so much.
    It takes so much courage to be able to do what you did, and personally it is empowering for me to see that you rose above, dealt with everything gracefully and are coming out on top

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Many people pretend to be me or use my images. I just tell men to send their dick pics there for me to see it. LOL

    Sam
    Omg that is an amazing idea, hahahaha

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    I cannot tell you how grateful I am for everyone's advice and help. You've all been so inspiring, and it would have been way harder to deal with this without your help and insight. I have never felt prouder to be a camgirl. THANK YOU!!!

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    That's so awesome! That takes some MAJOR balls

    As a Transsexual I can totally relate to what you're going through in the outing aspect. People always feel the need to expose us like it's something to be ashamed of. You CAN'T out a bitch that's already out and proud!

    To all you worthless busybody out there that like to out people because you are so miserable with your own life or lack of, I just want to say: FUCK YOU!

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    So, the outing myself has gone really great actually...I've discovered I have lots of allies, and I feel way more empowered about the whole situation. I really want to thank all of you for giving me advice and helping me, I can't tell you what it means to me. I'd like to ask a final favor if it's okay: I was wondering if you guys would be willing to flag the facebook pages my stalker made and help me get them taken down? Although I'm relieved to be out of the closet, she still stole my images and is impersonating me, and I really want to see them get taken down if at all possible. I am going to PM the two pages she made to everyone who replied to this thread, and if you have a facebook and a few moments to flag them, I would be so grateful for the help. Thanks so much.
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    You can pm me too! I'll help report it! She needs to be stopped!

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