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    Default I can't make him cum :(

    I have a customer and i have played with him for 3 or 4 times already but no matter what i do he don't cum

    It makes me feel so sad and making my self confidence low.

    Should i just stop playing with him? Although i will feel bad losing money but then maybe he is fine just by talking to me?

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    LOL Honey, men have so many reasons health wise as to why they can't.

    If he didn't like the show, he would end it and won't be back. Some guys do want to just talk, hell, i had one play the piano for me. It was so sweet and romantic.

    Or maybe he did and you didn't see it. NOt like these guys have the best web cams & lighting so we can really see what is going on.

    I never stress about a show I just did but focus on getting the next one.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    It's not the destination, it's the journey. He's choosing to take the journey with you, and pay you money for it. As soon as he doesn't like it any more, he'll leave - in the meantime, keep doing what you're doing, he's clearly into it enough to come back for more.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Not all guys have the goal of orgasm. Sometimes, they just want you to come or just talk. That guy sounds like a keeper because he just likes to see you feeling good. He will probably end up being one of your best regulars.
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    Not my job to make them cum, just to keep them cumming back for MORE!

    haha could not resist.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    He could also be edging and making it last hours, going from girl to girl. But yeah, so long as he's coming back he's enjoying himself so don't worry!

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    That DOES NOT mean there's anything wrong on your part, so don't beat yourself up over it. A while back, there was a guy who I absolutely could not make cum from blowjobs alone (yet I've been able to make other guys cum from blowjobs in UNDER 3 minutes). He'd be clearly enjoying it, but couldn't cum until his dick actually felt some pussy. Lol. He even told me that, and it was the first time I had heard of a guy being unable to cum from blowjobs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    That DOES NOT mean there's anything wrong on your part, so don't beat yourself up over it. A while back, there was a guy who I absolutely could not make cum from blowjobs alone (yet I've been able to make other guys cum from blowjobs in UNDER 3 minutes). He'd be clearly enjoying it, but couldn't cum until his dick actually felt some pussy. Lol. He even told me that, and it was the first time I had heard of a guy being unable to cum from blowjobs.
    I've heard of them, just never met one of them that I didn't make a liar out of. hehe But that was when I was young. Now if a guy can keep me interested enough in him to keep going after I've gotten mine is the challenge.

    No longer care if men cum, even during sex. I got mine, great. Got things to do, you can go now. Which is why when I fuck male pornstars, no bid deal, they have to save it for set the next day.

    I think back to all the things I'd do to keep a man interested in me, how hard I'd try in bed. Now, I don't try. I don't care. I just lay there and enjoy. Now, I can't get rid of them. Life is funny.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Girlie, he's been back 3 or 4 times you said. There is nothing you did wrong. If he didn't like it or it was you, he wouldn't keep coming back. You are doing everything right. Just be there for him and have fun with him. Keep being yourself with him. That's what he likes. Good luck, hon!

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    As Robin Williams would say 'It's not your fault'. Robin Williams, wherever you are I hope you are happy. RIP.
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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Have you thought about sticking Your tongue up his ass? Or a rim job? Or finger play in his ass? (on a toy of course)
    A lot of men crave this type of play, yet are sooo afraid to ask for it. (I know, I married 2 of them!) Lol!
    I know it sounds impossible, but I've made many a man come by just a finger rubbing his prostate, without even touching his dick.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Lol, it sounds rude maybe, but at first,i tought, it s a trolling question. :*
    Well, maybe he s impotent lol :* no worries.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    The thing about camming is that there are TONS of girls to choose from. Zillions. He keeps choosing you. He likes what you're doing! You can ask him "how can I make you cum?", but frankly, he should communicate with you, or find another girl who he has better chemistry with, if it's an issue for him (which it seems like it isn't!).

    By the way, it's not just the subs who don't always cum, both online and IRL. Sometimes doms are so focused on watching you obey them and getting lost in dom-space that they want the focus to be on you, and it gets them off mentally, if that makes sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    That DOES NOT mean there's anything wrong on your part, so don't beat yourself up over it. A while back, there was a guy who I absolutely could not make cum from blowjobs alone (yet I've been able to make other guys cum from blowjobs in UNDER 3 minutes). He'd be clearly enjoying it, but couldn't cum until his dick actually felt some pussy. Lol. He even told me that, and it was the first time I had heard of a guy being unable to cum from blowjobs.
    I don't think I've ever made my husband cum from a blowjob alone, and only a few girls have been able to, he says. I know the reason, but I won't brag about it.

    Well, I kinda just did lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Not my job to make them cum

    Seriously. Repeat after me, "it's not My job to make them cum"
    it's not Your job.
    He is not buying an orgasm from You.
    You do not sell orgasms.
    We sell shows/sessions/time/company.

    When I started to truly embrace that idea, that I'm NOT selling an orgasm, I'm selling My time, that's when I believe I started to really cum into My own as a cam model (pun 100% intended)

    Don't feel bad. He likes spending time with You, so he's going to pay to do it until he's done spending time with You. Whether he cums or not is NOT your issue. You can't reach into his body and physically force him to cum.

    The fact that You even gave this a thought shows that You are a FANTASTIC cam model who cares about Her job. So kudos <3
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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Thank you everyone for your replies.

    Yes because i so want to make him cum i ended up always feeling bad whenever i couldn't. I really did feel bad failing like that, lol..

    thank you again. I will try to not feel bad or force him to cum if he can't.

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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    Some of the guys that don't cum have physical problem. Some have edged themselves all day long and by the time they're about to blow it just doesn't happen. Then there are the coke heads that will play for hours ( used to love them during cam phone sex because they keep spending trying hard too) lol.

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    Who gives a shit if he comes? Clearly, he doesn't, he keeps coming back.
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    Default Re: I can't make him cum :(

    I've noticed this quite a few times too. I always just think it's because they've been masturbating all day and their balls are empty!!! They're still having orgasms, but nothing is coming out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Some of the guys that don't cum have physical problem. Some have edged themselves all day long and by the time they're about to blow it just doesn't happen. Then there are the coke heads that will play for hours ( used to love them during cam phone sex because they keep spending trying hard too) lol.
    Oh God, a coke heads are either the best or the worst. They are the longest sessions and you can really bank, but damn it can wear you out too.

    Haven't had a "do you party" in a long long time.

    Orgasm, isn't the be all, end all of a cam session. If you go on autopilot and don't really read what they are writing and develop an instinct for what they truly want. You can be missing out on some really big spenders.

    With in the past 2 years had a great custie go from race play and talking super nasty to just being all lovey dovey and totally focused on the veins in my boobs. Even with a regular they can change and evolve. Being able to roll with that is what keeps them regulars for a long time.

    There are guys who just cum in a drip and you will never see it. ED is common, doesn't mean they ever stop pulling on it. LOL

    Like I said before "Not my job to make them cum, but to keep cumming back for more."

    Instead try focusing on making them smile by the end of a session.

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