Sooo yesterday my husband found all his bank accounts arrested. When he called the bank, they sent him to the bailiffs office. He was really surprised because he didn't have any payments due and never took a single loan from any bank but had no other choice, so when he came there he found out his ex-wife has sued him for child support 8 months ago and he's about $ 3,000 in debt. He never heard about this happening. More than that, the lawsuit is utter, obvious and impudent bullshit because: 1) the child was conceived 5 months after their divorce; 2) the reason for divorce was that the woman didn't want to have sex with my husband anymore because he gained much weight after spinal trauma (and not like she'd change her mind all of a sudden a half a year later); 3) all the common acquaintances know who is the actual father and my husband was told about him by her personally; 4) my husband is sterile and his ex is well aware of it as they took fertility tests together; 5) the monthly payment was calculated as if he made around $2,000 a month - a nearly outrageous amount for our town, like top-management level; 6) the court somehow let this bullshit pass - wrote him in as the father, set the monthly payout etc, all without giving him or having him submit a single piece of paper ever. Maybe the woman pulled some strings (from what I know, she has an aunt who works as a judge). Anyway, now my husband has to use all his vacation time and a shitload of money (like $1, 000 trip and independent testing included) to go to our hometown, gather the proofs needed and impeach the bullshit impossible child support - which is ridiculous because it should've never been enacted in the first place.
I don't even know what that person and her family thought of when applying for it. Probably she is just desperate as the kid's father left her alone and HIV-positive (her daughter probably has HIV too). But she has a mother and an aunt who could've told her there was no way she could benefit from it (other than messing with our family, but ffs there are easier way to do it!). Did she just want to break ny hubby's crayons? Or did she seriously expect him just to hand over $ 425 every month, no questions asked, when he only makes around 350?
My head is a fucking mess now because a) The situation fucks up our plans badly as sorting this shit out can take months (hopefully, my husband won't have to quit his job because of it). We planned to move cities (like 5000 km, so my husband wouldn't be able to go to our hometown and back every time needed) in May and that's when our rental contract is terminated, so if the landlord doesn't let us stay we'll have to look for another place to live. I'm SOO happy we haven't bought the plane tickets yet because the economy tickets can't be returned ot transferred to another date! b) The expenses won't be compensated because the ex probably doesn't have the money anyway, and even if she had - c) I feel really bad for the woman and her kid because we're messing with them when their situation is already terrible and I don't want to make it even worse; d) I don't know what to expect of a person who conceives such weird ideas and obviously spares no trouble to put them into life. TO be honest, I feel threatened.




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)))and after i saw that you are from Russia. Im russian too.




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