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    Default How "Giving" are you in Public Chat?

    Here is a "newbie" problem I'm running into:

    Its the fellas who don't pay who make the most demands- "Bend over, bb","Stand up", "Let me see ur soles" So on an so forth. For paying customers I'll turn backflips, but how giving should I be to free-loaders? Money talks and bullshit walks. How do I silence their leeching without turning off other clients?

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    You can put up a tip menu in your room topic box. This much for tits this much for booty this much to stand/any other request. I only show for tips, unless I feel like moving around or something. Most of the guys that are demanding without tips usually leave once you show anyway.

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    If this is on SM, are you camming in classic or party chat? Party chat tends to bring out the most trolls and the most demanding assholes. I am not very giving in free chat at all. All they get to see is my beautiful face, my shoulders and a bit of cleavage. I don't stand or show anything in free chat. The guys who are serious about taking you private will value your time and not making you bend over backward with million requests and question after question. I shut them up by kicking or banning. I love having money goal AND banning goal.
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    I am on SM. I don't bother with the free chat window, just party chat. I've read enough in the forum to ignore those assholes altogether!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    I am on SM. I don't bother with the free chat window, just party chat. I've read enough in the forum to ignore those assholes altogether!
    The free chat window you are talking about is not what we are talking about I don't think. Party chat = free chat. The free chat at the very bottom are guys who do not even have a credit card registered. If you go into your settings you can disable that one. I see no reason to leave it enabled unless you are trying to get a TV gold show offered.

    In party chat or classic chat I don't do things for guys who do not tip. I don't even do requests to stand up if they don't tip me.


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    On my screen there are three windows:

    Paid
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    Free

    I ignore the free chat at the bottom. In guest chat, unless I'm tipped I usually ignore the requests. But I didn't know if that would be a turn off to paying customers, you know, making it seem like I'm difficult. Most of the time I've found a good position and don't want to fucking move (without incentive) because I would have to reposition my camera... or because I'm comfortable (whichever. lol).

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    I give a lot but it's only because I enjoy moving around and dancing to my amazing playlist. It keeps me in a good mood and playful. I stand up and show glimpses of underboob/sideboob/cleavage and ass cheek and respond to nice guys. I'm also splitcamming 2 to 3 other sites at the same time so the majority of the time I don't go more than 5-10 minutes without a private or tip.
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    Hi Laurie! And yes, that's my motto: I don't do anything I don't get paid/gold for!

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    I don't even do requests to stand up if they don't tip me.
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    I don't even bother with FREE free chat. I block the conversation right away (You can disable the chat, but still allow them to sit in free chat. If they want to communicate with me, they can register their credit cards. I'm not gonna waste my time with someone who hasn't proved their self worth.

    Party Chat. I have no problem with chit chat. I don't talk dirty though. If someone comes in and start dirty talking right away, I send them a private message reminding them dirty talk in private only, please. For flashes or twerking, they have to tip me. I have a tip menu already on my room topic. But if people start being demanding, I send an auto text of a tip menu. If that doesn't work, I am verbal about it.

    Gold Shows. I tend to show a little bit more, but not at as much. I only show my ass or tits, after people pledge.





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    I'm not very sweet at all because I like to remind everyone in my room that I'm running a business but perhaps these lines will help.

    Just smile sweetly and be firm in your approach. "Awww you're sweet honey but unfortunately I'm a pay for play type of gal. If you'd like to see more, please be a gentlemen and take me private or exclusive."

    "Take me private and I'll show you."

    "Just think of me as a vending machine, you gotta pay first. And don't think you'll shake me down." (my fav cheesy line)

    Sometimes being frank and a bit mean actually produces shows. I've had quite a few freeloaders demand shit so many times that I lose my cool and tell them straight up that they need to pay or get the fuck out of my room. Soon after my bitch fest they took me private




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    I tend to like the approach of hanging out, answering questions that aren't obvious free dirty talk seekers, and sitting pretty in a sexy outfit, sometimes showing just face and part of torso, sometimes full body (dressed). Sometimes I'm sitting up in bed, sometimes on my side, sometimes laying on my belly showing some side-butt. I don't do free flashes and it's in my tip menu too, if they ask I refer them to the cost for teases/flashes. I hate the "stand bb" requests but sometimes I'd do it--rarely--but I should just ignore them because no stand bb guys ever go private or tip. I think it's best to paste into chat a tip menu, sometimes I'm too far from my laptop to do it though. I tend to be too generous to those who tip for tits or ass, I notice most girls don't do much more than a quick flash. I've come to the conclusion that since my per min rate is higher than my flash rate, the flash should be shorter than a minute. If, like I'm planning, I switch to a more fetish-femdom persona I'm not going to do flashes for tips at all, as I think it suits the mood better. I'll probably be a lot less generous with my free chat teasing too.

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    Sometimes after my first tip I am a bit more generous showing off and teasing to show them what they get to see. Then I reign it in and encourage tips if more people are like, "boobs out now". Then usually my tippers are the silent ones who think its funny I put the beggars in their place.

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    To silence the leechers I type to them so it doesn't put others off .. I read something one time..actually on a studio page "advice for models" that made a lot of sense to me even as much as I dislike studios... The advice was for ever say no. Obviously you can say no if your limits are being pushed but the point is to turn ever "no" answer into a positive so instead of the exchange "can I see ass baby" -"no" it would be "can I see ass baby" -"sure as soon as you tip $x"
    Saying no can be very negative to people and remember we are selling a fantasy so negative doesn't work.

    As to how giving I am in free chat it depends on the flow of the chat...every customer set is different, every day is different.. As you become more experienced you will learn how to read the mood of the room and apply the best hustle to any given situation...
    I never show boobs/ass for free and I usually charge to stand or tease but if a regular come in and I know if I get up and tease a little bit they will go to private, I do it. This works about 80% of the time for some of my regulars so it's worth it considering there might be a 50% chance of them going private without it and then an 80% with it... I'll take it. If I know a certain sentence works on a certain type of person to lure them private I will use it... It's all in reading the room.

    As far as the "free chat" (the one on the very bottom) on sm goes I have a preset message set to something like "finish your complete registration to the site to talk to me and be able to go private!" Or somethig like that... I never read thier chat but if I see ppl are in that section I will send out the auto text... I don't really know how often it converts but it's something and it takes almost zero effort... If you do this remember it is in the tos on sm that you cannot add your cammodels link into that section! Those ppl are sm's customers not your affiliate traffic.
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    I've been doing it wrong all along. Jeez...

    Thanks for the advice, ladies! I think I have more research to do!

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    I don't give anything in free chat (if u are referring to sm). Only on token sites I do, because it works better to get tips there.
    On sm, I wore myself out years ago when I was constantly standing, turning, chatting, flirting, etc.
    I used to put up a tip chart, and a video pricing chart, but I only had a couple of people use it. Idk, maybe I didn't give it long enough.
    I have built up sooo many regs, that I privately type in key words, and they go to paid chat right away.one type of guy who I can't get a 'read' on, are the ones who ask if I have a specific thing for prvt---i.e., heels, stockings, a thong, a certain dildo, or a specific session request...Then when I say I do...they leave. (That never used to happen a few years ago).
    In my room, 'less is more'. It's the custies that made me that way, not the other way around....Just like they chose my 'character', and hustle techniques... I like that aspect of camming.. I don't have to guess what will work, and what doesn't.

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    usually i ignoring them, why they bothering if want nothing. They know how the site works i guess.
    Sometimes, i show them my middle finger lol if my room is full of assholes, in slow hours.
    Not coz i care, but what to do. :* i m not too giving i guess lol, looking nice, and ignore, works for me, luckily *.*
    I dont remember when i showed my ass, in free chat... years ago i think.

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    O boy does this remind me of my newbie days.....so popular and giving had long convos w everyone . Everyone loved me....but I was a very poor cam girl....

    Now I just lay or sit unless I get a tip for a request ass/tits... My room is emptier...less guest less convos.. But soooo much more $$$$

    Why is my room emptier now? Because all the talkers and freeloaders are gone!
    Btw it really burned me out doing all that stuff in fc for so long n no pvt n guys coming in then leaving..

    I'm still nice and talkative but I keep it to a minimum
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    one type of guy who I can't get a 'read' on, are the ones who ask if I have a specific thing for prvt---i.e., heels, stockings, a thong, a certain dildo, or a specific session request...Then when I say I do...they leave. (That never used to happen a few years ago).
    That drives me crazy. I used to get up and show them the certain outfit or fetish item they requested. I wouldn't put it on. I can't believe girls change their outfit on demand before even getting paid. I might do that for a very good customer, but even those I've nipped in the bud. I might go get the items since I have so much stuff it can take me forever to dig out the right pair of stockings or find the right black latex item for my ensemble, and I don't want to waste their type and seem like a flake or stall artist.
    My theory about the "do you have _______" guys is that once they know you have it they go shopping around to see who else might have it, or if your rate is on the higher end like I thought mine was, this is when I imagined they checked my price and found it was too high for them and so they vanished.
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    I've been sick as a dog for the past few days, so I've been off cam. (There's nothing sexy about a hocking, snotting fat girl. lol.) This tip system is interesting to me and I'm going to try it out when I get back on.

    Is there a thread here about how to work the tipping system, like how much I should seek for tits/ass/whatever? Searching here is a bitch, but I'm also not the kind of girl who expects others to do her research for her. So, perhaps a push in the right direction?

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    Depends what you feel is worth it. Some seem to rate it on what part they think is hotter, or which they deem nudity. I've seen $3-5ass, $3-10tits, $1-2 stand. I do $5 for teases which is either ass, tits, feet or panties. I take off one or two if it's particularly hard to show one of those things due to my outfit. I see some girls charging $10 for tits, they're usually very busty.

    Edited to add: some don't do teases or flashes for tips at all. I'd imagine the theory behind this is that they should spend time in private chat to get to 2nd base or whatever. These girls may or may not be the type to stall or draw out the striptease longer in private--nothing wrong with that, lots of guys like a challenge. Also some girls don't like the freeloaders in the chat getting a glimpse for nothing.
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    The hustle is and will always be different for each girl! You have to find out what works for you. I've had customers who I would BS with in free chat, and although I thought they would never turn into paying customers, they became some of my best regs! Getting shows, tipping gold for no reason, etc. I've also had an instance where someone made a demand and I went bat shit crazy on them, and a long time lurker enjoyed that (oddly) and dropped 50 gold and spoke up for the first time. But for me, a general rule of thumb is the more demanding, the less likely to pay. So I have no tolerance for those types. Also, dirty talkers - I have a rule that I will answer TWO QUESTIONS MAX - if they want more I politely remind them I'd *LOVE* to talk dirty to them in private. And I REALLY like what miss beth said about the studio advice and it's something I exercise avidly, if they say "Show me your ass bb," I say something along the lines of, "Oh baby I'd love to show you my ass! Maybe even spank it for you for (x) Gold!" It makes it seem more like they will be rewarded rather than shooting them down with a no. (Positive affirmation, bb! Works wonders.) Anytime I've done this, SOMEONE ends up tipping, be it the person whom originally asked or another. I think what it ultimately boils down to, is be as generous as you feel comfortable with or as strict as you are comfortable with. In time you'll be able to smell a true free loader from a mile away and it'll be easy to focus on the paying customers. Good luck! <3




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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    But I didn't know if that would be a turn off to paying customers, you know, making it seem like I'm difficult. Most of the time I've found a good position and don't want to fucking move (without incentive) because I would have to reposition my camera... or because I'm comfortable (whichever. lol).
    Yes, I understand what you mean...just say it with a smile! Simply say "no" in a nice way and smile afterwards, that way you're not coming across as a bitch to the guys who don't want to spend their money on one. "I'm happy to if you tip me first! <big smile>"..."I have plenty of pics in my free gallery! <big smile>"..."how about a show instead?! <big smile>". If I can't help feeling pissed off by a rude request...a playful "not even a please? I'm not a performing seal you know! <big smile>".
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