Thats a beautiful ritual, chanting. The epsom salts foot bath is a brilliant idea! Im thinking you can also add different herbs and spices plus essential oils too. I'm really tempted to go get a foot spa!




Have a cigarette on the way home while I talk about my night to whoever is giving me a ride. Usually count my money in the car and make a quick note of it in the pad I keep in my bag if I didn't already do it at work; I'm private about my money, so I either wait for a moment alone in the DR or silently count with one person in the car, rather than risk people being nosy at home. Stop for a pack of smokes.
If I'm sober (or sober enough,) I eat whatever is quick and available- thankfully, that's healthy stuff when I'm working. Some times sex. Take a shower, wash my face and put on my night stuff, brush my teeth. Bed.
If I'm drunk, I wash my face off with a wipe and rinse with mouthwash before passing out.
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Exotic dancing is like any other job.If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

Drive home and probably stop at 7-11 for some smokes and a drink. Put my money away in safe spot. Nice hot bubble bath![]()




I envy you girls who get to have sex after work! I live alone so whenever I feel horny after my shift it's me and my vibrator...![]()



I took a break from dancing and did some spiritual searching before a big move and chanting helped me so much through that, that I knew when I got back to dancing it would be part of my nightly routine. It is so invigorating. There are times I wish my club had a quiet place that I could go and chant after dealing with catty girls or rude customers but at the end of the night, it is perfect to just clear my mind and fill me with joy. The foot bath is a must for me, I'm noticing as I get older, being on my feet in dancer heels is not as easy as it was for me 10/11 years ago and the foot bath helps relax me so much. Definitely invest in a foot spa and put it to use! I had mine for so long before using it on a daily basis and I'm wondering how I ever lived without it. I'm going to look into getting some essential oils, that sounds like it would be a great addition to the Epsom salts!





Awesome thread!
Take the dogs out. I make some tea. I count my money, split it up into bills/spending/savings and put it in its assigned stash spots. Update my spreadsheets (3 of them... starting to think I should have done business analytics...), write down any notes about why the shift was particularly good or bad, etc.
If boyfriend is home: annoy him with hyperactivity for a while, eat dinner, want to have sex but feel like I need to wash off the club first, so go take a bubble bath which inevitably leaves me in that wiped out, super relaxed state. Climb into bed and realize I'm way too tired for sex, and probably fall asleep halfway through an episode of some TV show.
If he's not home: get on SW for a while, then find something else productive to do until he gets home. I'm so wound up after work and "on" that it's actually a good time for me to do homework or clean.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."








Usually grab a bite to eat, come home & shower, then get comfy in PJs watching Unsolved mysteries or something from my childhood (which puts me in a relaxed state) then count money & sleep.
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"





I'm jealous of all the sex everyone is talking about, lol. After work, sex is the LAST thing on my mind. Especially after being around disgusting men all night, I just want to unsexify myself ASAP when I get home. How do you girls do it? Sorry threadjack.
"Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"





I never want sex after work! Ewww I feel disgusting when he wants it. I like my private time to unwind from work and don't want to be touched.
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"




Well, my unwind time is in the car. By the time I get home, I am the "real me" again. My "stripper self" is nearly asexual; I've been attracted to MAYBE five customers at most in my entire time dancing. When I have sex after work, work is the farthest thing from my mind.
Exotic dancing is like any other job.If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.





I think for me it's because I start really missing my other half if it's been a longer shift, or lots of assholes or grabby guys. I just want to get home and climb into bed and be loved on by someone who I think is wonderful, as opposed to the disgusting customers I've been around all day. Sometimes it's like "Gawd I am so glad you're the polar opposite of that, here, have everything those fuckers can't have."
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."




First thing I do when I get home is input my income into a spreadsheet I use to track earnings and expenses. Then I fire out texts to my customers who came in to see me that day thanking them for their friendship (business). Next I check my schedule and send reminders to my customers when I'll be at the club next. So I guess my work day doesn't really end until I finish up my "side work."
Then I do normal after work stuff, eat dinner, walk my dog, watch TV or surf the web etc.




This is a weird thing to recommend, but I used to eat beans after work. I'd heat up a bowl of refried beans (I'd mix in a bit of vegetable broth, raw garlic, cumin, salt, and cayenne) and top it with feta cheese (cheap at Costco!). It'd encourage me to drink lots of water after work, and it's a comforting, filling, warming, healthy meal. Very, very easy to put together!

^This is what i should be doing!!
currently i smoke a little herb, count my money, surf the net or watch New Girl, and read until i pass out. I also like to write down what i am grateful for about that night when i get home and try to think of everything positive that happened that night so i can stop dwelling on all the negative stuff that happened. There is always something to be grateful for.



I eat (try to stay healthy but I usually end up with a footlong Subway after a Saturday night shift), shower, count my money, and hop into bed to watch some netflix. I WISH I could pass out right away but it takes me a bit to relax before I can sleep.



The guys at my club don't really gross me out and I limit where they can touch. I guess I'm lucky because work doesn't stress me out. I do keep the radio off during my drive home to rest my ears. I always take a shower right when I get home, before I get into bed, so I don't feel gross. It actually calms me down to touch, hug and kiss my husband. He's like my big security blanket.![]()
I was hoping to find a thread like this!
My SO picks me up from work and we talk about my shift on the car ride home. Once we're home, I play with the pup and smoke a bit before eating a small meal and pop an iron pill so I don't get sore the next morning.
Afterwards, I count my money and then take a long hot shower before going to bed. I wish I had more energy to stay awake and relax with a cup of tea, but I'm usually done with my home-from-work routine around 4 am and by that time I really just want to go to lie down.
Of course, I'll peruse Tumblr or SW once I'm lying down/before I fall asleep![]()
Okay this is funny cause I've found myself doing almost the same thing like the last 5-6 nights. Leave the club, smoke a cig right when I leave. Stop at Wawa for more cigs and a monster energy drink and some junk foodlol I get home and take a couple hits if my roomie has the green stuff around. Count my money and enter it in an app I got. Take a shower and since water is now a free utility I find myself soaking in the tub instead of just a shower. Get up, dressed in some sweats and a tee and watch some tv shows on tv with my roomie.





Gym.
Play with alligator. Clean up snake bins. Wrangle new aggressive boa that is a Picasso with its own shit.
Fuck.
Shower.
Sleep.
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"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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You guys are lucky, given high contact Ohio, the first thing I'd do was shower and scrub myself raw.
depending on hour i leave, ten versus 2, i will go out with a friend because I don't want to waste a good hair day. Or at 2, crash.



Long hot shower, eat something hearty (burger, peanut butter sandwich, sometimes I just make myself eggs and toast in the middle of the night) with a huge glass of juice or hot tea. I try to eat or drink something with tons of electrolytes too. Then pass out, sometimes with a couple ibuprofen. I should do stretches after work and I try to some nights but almost never care at that point.
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