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    Dizzy Nervous. Hour long private!

    So some guy wants to do an hour long private tomorrow and I am nervous, don't know what to expect. longest I have done is like 15 mins. Any advice would be appreciated. I am freaking out a little lol

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    Default Re: Nervous. Hour long private!

    Whoo hoo!!! Hour long privates can be greaaaat also can be very taxing. Don't be nervous, you got it! Just be yourself, go with the flow. Most guys who I have had for longer exc. aren't expecting you to shove toys the whole time.. they generally want to get to know you, chat, play together, etc. Regardless of what it ends up being, or what he's expecting, always remember that YOU are in control of the situation. Listen to your body, and only do what is comfortable for you Do you know whether he has a particular fetish? I find that most of them are very willing to guide you into what it is that they want.
    You could always tell him that he's your longest private and play up your nervousness to your advantage.
    I hope you update after and let us know how it went!!

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    Default Re: Nervous. Hour long private!

    That is great news! Its a great time to raise your rate

    I dont know what your shows are normally like but first of all slow down whatever you do! Chat at the beginning, ask him a lot of questions to waste time and remember if this guy wants you for an hour he likes you so if you start to get bored or tired dont be afraid to "cum" and take a break to chat some more with some pillow talk.

    The most important thing I do during long shows is to forget the clock, you dont want to make time drag by cause you keep checking and discover you only killed 4 mins! just relax and try to engage him as much as possible so you can kill time having him type.

    Goodluck and have fun!

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    Default Re: Nervous. Hour long private!

    I so am not trying to be a downer, but I'm hoping you have something more than just his word that he's gonna do this. Like do you know him, has he spent on you before? Because I would be a bit on guard and expect that he probably won't show. I'm only telling you so you won't be surprised. Unless you know him, like I said, in which case disregard
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    Default Re: Nervous. Hour long private!

    Thanks everyone for the advice! I will have to see if he has any fetishes. And he was asking for one last night but I just had to go to bed so we said tomorrow. Its actuallyva Skype show. He was tipping a lot in my free room, so I think he may show. Either way, its cool, not the end of thebworld.

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    Talk Talk and Talk. Most guys that want an hour or more tend to want personal details about the model. I'm talking about where do you live, and let me buy you shit off your wishlist so I can get your home address. Beware. The guy could have taken you private on the site.

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    Yeah no wish lists for me, just accept the gift cards. I kinda been debating on whether I should do it or not. It'd be a good chunk of change but it's iffy.

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    Most of my private shows are at least 30 minutes because that's were I start offering discounts. My longest was 2 hours and he wanted to spend the the first hour just chatting. Even once we started doing naked stuff if kept saying "but only if you feel like it". I find that when someone books a long session they are looking for a girlfriend fantasy.

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    ^^Exactly. I have a lot of both half hour and hour sessions.
    What I do when I first meet them, is to ask questions about them... their job, hobbies, even what they look like if they are too shy to put on their cam.
    Men love to talk about their jobs, and irl they usually aren't listened too that much.
    I had one really sweet guy who was a chef... I told him how much I admired that, because I can't even boil an egg right!
    He spent the next 45 minutes teaching me recipes that were easy to do. (I wrote them down v-e-r-y slowly.)
    With the 30 minute shows, the guy usually is not in a rush either. Nine times out of ten, when I ask him what he would like to do, he says whatever I want.
    For me, that is always a chance to have a real orgasm (hitachi). I just taking my time, and showing facial expressions is enough to get him off! It's a win-win situation, and I always get high ratings.
    Since I am very leery of giving any personal info about myself, I always turn the questions around to him...Always.. it works. So far I've only had one guy who kept persisting that we meet up, wanting personal details, etc,..and when I wouldn't answer him and just diddled myself, he never came back. But that is rare.

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    Generally most of my long shows are actually only talking, which is generally awesome but it can be a bit mentally draining. Trying to be entertaining for an hour straight...yeah, well. Its awesome if he does this because generally those guys who are the ones who like YOU and tend to spend the most money for no other reason than to support you. BIG FISH.

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    Make sure you accept payment through a site with no chargebacks as well, and DO NOT accept wishlist purchases as a payment. Id say 75% of the guys who ask me for a show longer than 30 minutes wants to pay through paypal ,or something else equally as sketchy. Id just hate to see u ripped off.
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    update OP
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Quote Originally Posted by TattooedBBW View Post
    Make sure you accept payment through a site with no chargebacks as well, and DO NOT accept wishlist purchases as a payment. Id say 75% of the guys who ask me for a show longer than 30 minutes wants to pay through paypal ,or something else equally as sketchy. Id just hate to see u ripped off.
    If you already have this covered then don't mind me

    I agree I had a few offers this week for amazon and one member keeps telling me about how much some other cam model chats with him on skype for free for hours. He sends them gift ( usually toys he wants them to use and amazon gift cards) I just say ooh wow that's so cool, get some tokens lol

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