I'm moving out of my very expensive apt., and downsizing so I can save money.
I will have to put my stuff in storage, and move in with a roommate.(reluctantly).
My question for all of You who are roommates, is... how do You set boundaries?
I'm a loner when I am home... I'm very Quiet. I work a lot (cam and pso, clips), and a part time vanilla job, along with private party dancing.
I need my space, and don't really want to be friends with someone in order to be their roommate.
Just want to come and go without checking in, or even feeling the need to have 'forced' conversation, etc.
How can I do this, without losing my mind?
I just met with a potential roomie over the weekend, (slept over to see if id like the place,etc), and she NEVER SHUT UP!!!!!!
She followed me around her place everywhere I would go, flipping off the lights behind me, all the while talking, talking, talking!!
In the kitchen for a snack, she comes in.. talking, talking.
I woke up early and quietly went to the kitchen to make coffee... she came in talking, talking, talking!!! OMG!!!
Granted, we met because she is a friend of a relative of mine, but still!!
Is this what a roommate situation is???
Help!
Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
Glam![]()





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