I feel a bit bad about wanting her to. And I'm not sure how to go about asking.
She's my boyfriend's cousin and she moved in approximately two months ago with her almost 3 year old and she just had another baby over a month ago.
When she moved in I had NO idea how out of control her son was, because I had met him a handful of times and noticed nothing unusual. Now that she's moved in however its become apparent there's a problem. Her child will hit my daughter, scream as loud as possible if you tell him no, take bites out of fruit on the table and put them back, he bites both my daughter and his mother! Its irritating and I know he's only 3 but my daughter never behaved in such a way when she was that age. Even now at 5 she listens 99.9% of the time and she's so confused as to why this kid is so bad, she shuts herself in my room because she doesn't want to deal with him. His mom absolutely can't or doesn't know how to control him and I feel its not my place to tell her how.
Furthermore, I'm expecting a baby in July and there is no way I'm going to not have my daughter back in her own room before then. Even now it's cramped because there's three peoples things in one room and I need some space. It's frustrating we have to wait to have sex once a week when my daughter goes to her dad's.
I've expressed my concerns to my boyfriend and I know he agrees the kid is out of control but every time I bring up giving her a notice to move he pretends he didn't hear it. Maybe he's afraid of his family getting mad since he's close with her dad and aunt.
Whether my boyfriend wants to or not I AM eventually going to ask her to. I may just send her a facebook message saying "Hey sorry, you know we're expecting now and realistically we need the space." I feel bad because she's really nice and quiet and I don't know where she's going to go but this is my apartment and it doesn't feel like it anymore.





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. Either way, if your husband is avoiding the talk and you can't take it any longer-I would just politely tell her she needs to find another place to stay when the baby comes. If he bites your 5 year old, he would be a risk to have around a new born.

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