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    It may sound counterintuitive but I get on when I don't like what's going on in my life.... I use it as an escape, because I know that 'fantasy' land, for me, is usually better. It makes me lose myself, get out of my head, and I know I'm going to end up in a better mood than if I just stayed off and moped.
    Whenever I get on, and I don't really want to, but I only do because I NEED money....the money stops, and I don't make that much.
    Hope that makes sense... I'm just coming off a 7 hour camming day... bb9a0c7bae3da4acf28d27d70d075206.jpg

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    It may sound counterintuitive but I get on when I don't like what's going on in my life.... I use it as an escape, because I know that 'fantasy' land, for me, is usually better. It makes me lose myself, get out of my head, and I know I'm going to end up in a better mood than if I just stayed off and moped.
    Whenever I get on, and I don't really want to, but I only do because I NEED money....the money stops, and I don't make that much.
    Hope that makes sense... I'm just coming off a 7 hour camming day... bb9a0c7bae3da4acf28d27d70d075206.jpg
    Makes so much sense, I get ya and feel the same way too sometimes. Thank you, and I hope you had a great day

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    Because...bills

    Honestly for me, I've been in that situation when "I didn't feel like working" and what I got was depression, laziness, poverty, eviction warning notices, utility shut off notices, close call repossessions, low bank amounts, top ramen for diner, and the feeling of constant panic and stress and back pains from constantly laying in bed all day.

    When I started taking my finances seriously and working, I started to enjoy life better and got to experience the things I wanted to enjoy. I started paying bills on time or early, I started saving, I started seeing my bank grow from cents to a few thousand in just a few short weeks. No stress, no more panicking, and more energy. I also stopped talking to those with a negative mentality towards money/hustling.

    In a few days I move into a beautiful 2500sqft condo and life is amazing for me right now. None of this would've happened had I listened to that little lazy voice in the back of my head.That same voice that thought 10 hours a month work was enough to live off of and made me broke as hell. Nah, I'd rather just log on.
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    This post spoke to so many of us. True dat, true dat!

    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Because...bills

    Honestly for me, I've been in that situation when "I didn't feel like working" and what I got was depression, laziness, poverty, eviction warning notices, utility shut off notices, close call repossessions, low bank amounts, top ramen for diner, and the feeling of constant panic and stress and back pains from constantly laying in bed all day.

    When I started taking my finances seriously and working, I started to enjoy life better and got to experience the things I wanted to enjoy. I started paying bills on time or early, I started saving, I started seeing my bank grow from cents to a few thousand in just a few short weeks. No stress, no more panicking, and more energy. I also stopped talking to those with a negative mentality towards money/hustling.

    In a few days I move into a beautiful 2500sqft condo and life is amazing for me right now. None of this would've happened had I listened to that little lazy voice in the back of my head.That same voice that thought 10 hours a month work was enough to live off of and made me broke as hell. Nah, I'd rather just log on.
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    I need to make money. Plus I remind myself how lucky I am to be able to do this job. It provides me with so much freedom and I'm grateful for it.

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    I think " I just need to log on and see if i can make at least 50 dollars" ...wich doesnt really take alot of time,so i usually do that and if its slow and i feel unmotivated i log off after those 50 dollars are made but sometimes if i can get those 50 quick and i feel the traffic is good that usually will motivate me to do another 50-100 that night.

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    I grew up poor and I want to fucking get rich. I love nice stuff too. If I ever have/adopt kids I don't want them to grow up like I did having to worry about money I want them to be secure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vendela View Post
    I think " I just need to log on and see if i can make at least 50 dollars" ...wich doesnt really take alot of time,so i usually do that and if its slow and i feel unmotivated i log off after those 50 dollars are made but sometimes if i can get those 50 quick and i feel the traffic is good that usually will motivate me to do another 50-100 that night.
    Thank you! This is a great idea. I just need to get the fuck over my insecurities.

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    I think of my dreams and goals.. and how fabulous my life will be!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Because...bills

    Honestly for me, I've been in that situation when "I didn't feel like working" and what I got was depression, laziness, poverty, eviction warning notices, utility shut off notices, close call repossessions, low bank amounts, top ramen for diner, and the feeling of constant panic and stress and back pains from constantly laying in bed all day.

    When I started taking my finances seriously and working, I started to enjoy life better and got to experience the things I wanted to enjoy. I started paying bills on time or early, I started saving, I started seeing my bank grow from cents to a few thousand in just a few short weeks. No stress, no more panicking, and more energy. I also stopped talking to those with a negative mentality towards money/hustling.

    In a few days I move into a beautiful 2500sqft condo and life is amazing for me right now. None of this would've happened had I listened to that little lazy voice in the back of my head.That same voice that thought 10 hours a month work was enough to live off of and made me broke as hell. Nah, I'd rather just log on.
    Thank you so much for this, I really needed to read that to get some sense in my head because that is exatly what I'm doing to myself, and I need to get out of this cycle of just laying around, letting my days pass me by when I could be making money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Because...bills

    Honestly for me, I've been in that situation when "I didn't feel like working" and what I got was depression, laziness, poverty, eviction warning notices, utility shut off notices, close call repossessions, low bank amounts, top ramen for diner, and the feeling of constant panic and stress and back pains from constantly laying in bed all day.

    When I started taking my finances seriously and working, I started to enjoy life better and got to experience the things I wanted to enjoy. I started paying bills on time or early, I started saving, I started seeing my bank grow from cents to a few thousand in just a few short weeks. No stress, no more panicking, and more energy. I also stopped talking to those with a negative mentality towards money/hustling.

    In a few days I move into a beautiful 2500sqft condo and life is amazing for me right now. None of this would've happened had I listened to that little lazy voice in the back of my head.That same voice that thought 10 hours a month work was enough to live off of and made me broke as hell. Nah, I'd rather just log on.

    This really speaks to me. Exactly what I needed to see.
    I'm falling into that shitty depression where all I want to do is sleep and my body aaaaches from being in bed. <3 Good for you, bb.
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    Living the lifestyle I want, getting out of debt, not having money problems... designer clothes (one of my many weaknesses) when I'm not motivated, I go online and do online window shopping- look at houses I would want to live in, come on here and read the camming rocks forum!

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    My SO actually XD
    A huge part of my motivation came from him telling me not to get discouraged or stop just because things were slow. And when he hurt his knee and couldn't work for a bit, I was determined to give him the time he needed to heal so I got on and worked my ass off so that he wouldn't have to. I'm also with the girls who like being able to save, and enjoy life. I set my goal for $100 and when I hit it, I just don't want to stop now XD

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    Who says money doesn't buy happiness? It's certainly better to have money than it is to be broke ass. When i am camming, i am making money and that leads to peace, serenity, security, abundance, and tranquility because everyone i love is provided for including myself. Paying bills becomes a joy because i know i can do it and will always be able. I was born to be a cam girl and i am damn proud of being sexy and able to get boys jacking off and exploding for me and loving me with all their money. Yaaaaaaas. That is fucking motivating.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    It may sound counterintuitive but I get on when I don't like what's going on in my life.... I use it as an escape, because I know that 'fantasy' land, for me, is usually better. It makes me lose myself, get out of my head, and I know I'm going to end up in a better mood than if I just stayed off and moped.
    Whenever I get on, and I don't really want to, but I only do because I NEED money....the money stops, and I don't make that much.
    Hope that makes sense... I'm just coming off a 7 hour camming day... bb9a0c7bae3da4acf28d27d70d075206.jpg
    This is about the only thing that motivates me as well--I get it. It's an escape. I need to money as well--so moping is easy.
    I did make the resolution to be kind to myself this year--and I never make resolutions.
    Lately I've been getting the mindset-that it will work out regardless--as long as I stay focused and motivated. Need to keep my eye on my goals.
    Hard to keep that motivation going--but I should just stay motivated.
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    In a few days I move into a beautiful 2500sqft condo and life is amazing for me right now. None of this would've happened had I listened to that little lazy voice in the back of my head.That same voice that thought 10 hours a month work was enough to live off of and made me broke as hell. Nah, I'd rather just log on.
    Congrats Kourtney!! That's some good motivation right there--and reminds me to not listen to the negative voice that doesn't want me to succeed--I need to listen to the uplifting voice that wants me to win.
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    The side of town I live, the guy who lives next door in filth (giving me bugs), my debt, wanting to travel, candle addiction, a new house, bacon. All my motivators. Yep.

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    That guilty feeling festering in my gut the next day knowing I fucked off doing nothing the night before and now I have no money to show for it.

    Would I have no motivation to go to work if it was not camming? No.

    Can't pay my mortgage with lazy.

    Things I want/ want to do aren't going to happen if I don't put in the time for it.

    Knowing the struggle is real when you take off too many days off in a row. Hate having to hustle twice as hard to get myself back to the top.

    If I don't work and get that money, someone else will.

    Goals are set for a reason, otherwise they are just an airy-fairy dream.

    Feeding off the positive energy with my earnings, going up wards in goals in life with making money...

    Also, I've been there done that with struggling for money. We didn't have lots of money growing up, and I didn't want that in my adulthood. I'm both blessed and happy to be where I am now and with my earnings, I would not want to jeopardize that. Not after all that hard work.

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    You and me both!.. one of the reasons I am so mad at men .. they slowed down my progress at my ONLY dream I EVER HAD!.. Hope you have a Plan.. you need a plan.. I will be a millionaire by the time I am 50 and that's being generous.. even if I am not at least I will be living like one by then.. which is better than now...lol

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