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    My husband is an asshole, he isn't always if hardly ever, but today I hope something fucking eats him.

    We usually have a pretty fun marriage where we tease and pick at each other in fun silly ways but today I have asked like several times to "please can you just be genuinely nice?" Jokingly calling me a bitch on my birthday and making a silly rhyme of "can you put this in the sink and also your pussy stinks" makes me just want to punch you in the face. Even on days that are not my birthday he isn't even that immature or an asshole. So he flips me off and acts even more immature with whatever insulting he says. Why today? Couldn't he have his asshole day some other time?

    So I finally lost my temper and I am having a lame pity party for myself because I just want to be treated normally if not nicely today.

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    My usual method to resolve this is to be an asshole back. I'm better at it than them and they get the hint.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Cute Hopefully you losing your temper will get the message across. I also tend to mirror my boyfriends irritating behavior when he pisses me off.

    Happy birthday! Hope that knob head comes around.

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    I'd be considering singlehood if it were me. Sorry to hear he is acting like such an ass.


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    that sounds like some real passive aggressive bullshit, NOT fun and light hearted teasing..i'm sorry, what an asshole :/ if he isn't responding to your calm and polite attempts to tell him that he's being hurtful, then i would just leave for awhile until he can apologize and man up to whatever is making him such a dickhole

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    I don't think you're being lame. On your birthday of all days you should be respected. Have you let him know how you felt about his behavior?

    Calling you a bitch and saying your pussy stinks is disrespectful even if he is joking. And most times when people are rude and then say 'oh I'm joking'....they're usually serious but saying its a joke so you don't get upset and to justify saying dumb sh*t

    I'm all for jokes and what not but some stuff crosses the line.
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    My ex husband used to treat me like that. Constantly teasing and making snarky little comments that he said were "jokes", but I knew they were meant to hurt me or at the very least annoy me.
    I asked him very seriously one day if he could please start treating me like his WIFE and not one of his guy friends or a roommate.
    He did change a little after I called him out, and every time he would go back to his old ways I would gently remind him to be more respectful, etc.

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    Evaluv, it sounds like time to sit down and have a serious, quiet conversation.

    You may know that he is just kidding, but that constant erosion of your mental state is not healthy at all.

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    Ah, shit-happy late birthday!
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    Ugh I HATE teasing, and immature "joke-y" guys. I would have freaked out if my husband made that rhyme. I probably would have not spoken to him for a good while.

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    If you wanna troll him, don't wash your privates for several days and make good on the "pussy stinks" think when he tries to get some sex..lol

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    Dammit my girly parts better not stink! I ended up having a pretty great night, I took the family to the circus and just seeing my 3 year old happy over elephants makes it so awesome.

    Also butthole cleaned the entire place and groveld for forgiveness grrr. We do get so silly and tease in an immature way, but that asshat took it way too far. I didn't kill him yet lol. Also I have way more awesome makeup now that I can ever use. woot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    My usual method to resolve this is to be an asshole back. I'm better at it than them and they get the hint.
    LMAO!

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    It sounds like things escalated quickly. If this immature, rude and unnecessary behavior is out of the ordinary maybe it would pay to talk to him about his comments (there might be something behind them, and at least you can explain why they annoyed you and why they were not appreciated, especially today. Hopefully he will be mature enough to apologize). It's always hurtful when loved ones ruin a special day .
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    Evaluv,

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