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    Default Ach! Creepy guys with too much info on me!

    This dude rolls into my chat on SM and just starts listing off stats for me, like every time I've been online in the last week, how many pvts I've done, how long they were, what times (given in my local time zone) that I logged off, etc. They were all exactly correct. He then tells me how dreary the pacific northwest is this time of year???? (I live in the PNW). I lied and said I live in socal, and then logged off after a few minutes, but he seriously creeped me out with the location and stalker stats. I blocked the little worm.

    Do they have access to those stats? Do you think it was just a coincidence that he knew where I was from? Or maybe he got into streamates servers or something. I'd never seen him before, and it was really creepy.

    I'm trans and super scared of people coming to my house to hurt me. Also my real address is on my license pic with SM. I know now that was a bad idea, but it's too late to change. I'm scared to get back on now. Maybe I'm just making a big deal out of this. Ugh.

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    Default Re: Ach! Creepy guys with too much info on me!

    I don't know who would have access to those sort of stats except a SM employee.

    Might be worth contacting SM and giving details and the screen name.

    Maybe run some scanners too to be sure you don't have a virus or keylogger. Have you done any skype or anything like that where they could get your IP?


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    Default Re: Ach! Creepy guys with too much info on me!

    No, no skype or anything other than the SM website. This is the only thing I do on this computer, and it's behind a linux router with a good firewall that I control. No VPN though. I did run a virus check though with MSE and it came back clean. Contacting SM might be a good idea, thanks! I'll see if he comes back under a different name.

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    I would like to chime in on this. I recently found out that I had a virus on my computer after going a few months of no signs or anything. Please run a virus scan immediately. He could be seeing you through a backdoor!

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    That MyCamgirl site has stats of cam girls, the cam sites where the cam girls work, etc. I think it's also the same site that even gives you info on how much time MFC models spent in private shows that month or whatever, shows a chart of the different cam scores she's had, and all kinds of other stuff. Some people thought it was cool, but it's always weirded me out a bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    That MyCamgirl site has stats of cam girls, the cam sites where the cam girls work, etc. I think it's also the same site that even gives you info on how long a MyFreeCams has spent in private shows that month or whatever, shows a chart of the different cam scores she's had, and all kinds of other stuff. Some people thought it was cool, but it's always weirded me out a bit.
    That site crossed my mind too, but does it tell you how many privates and how long they were for Streamate? Plus the fact that the guy hints at her location is concerning too.


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    Second what TheBrownFox said. There are sites that list all of those stats with 100% accuracy, right down to your time zone. Yes, they are massive invasions or privacy. In all likelihood, he was a troll sitting there trying to freak you out into telling him something. Block his shit and report him directly to Liz (SM Support doesn't do anything about members like that) as he's clearly looking to fuck with you. If he had real info on you, he'd use your name, a more accurate geographic description, and so forth.

    Yes, it's horrifying what you can find out about cam girls on the internet. No, it's unlikely he really knows you. That said, do still run a virus scanner.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Issabelle View Post
    Second what TheBrownFox said. There are sites that list all of those stats with 100% accuracy, right down to your time zone. Yes, they are massive invasions or privacy. In all likelihood, he was a troll sitting there trying to freak you out into telling him something. Block his shit and report him directly to Liz (SM Support doesn't do anything about members like that) as he's clearly looking to fuck with you. If he had real info on you, he'd use your name, a more accurate geographic description, and so forth.

    Yes, it's horrifying what you can find out about cam girls on the internet. No, it's unlikely he really knows you. That said, do still run a virus scanner.
    Would you mind PMing me the name of the site? I have seen it for MFC but not SM.

    also, how would he know her location from that? If it's showing actual locations then I'm REALLY pissed.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Issabelle View Post
    Second what TheBrownFox said. There are sites that list all of those stats with 100% accuracy, right down to your time zone. Yes, they are massive invasions or privacy. In all likelihood, he was a troll sitting there trying to freak you out into telling him something. Block his shit and report him directly to Liz (SM Support doesn't do anything about members like that) as he's clearly looking to fuck with you. If he had real info on you, he'd use your name, a more accurate geographic description, and so forth.

    Yes, it's horrifying what you can find out about cam girls on the internet. No, it's unlikely he really knows you. That said, do still run a virus scanner.
    Yeah, it freaked me out, but I'm guessing that's it. That site sounds disgusting. The way he was dumping information and ignoring me was very much "look at all I know about you, be afraid" and he probably would have dumped all my info if he had it, to scare me further. I also go to a really high enrollment college, so it's possible he's seen me there and was trying to figure out if I was the same person.

    I'm also embarrassed to say that I had 5 viruses when I re-checked with malwarebytes. I have NO clue how they got there, and I thought my computer was clean. Hopefully that wasn't it, but they're gone now.

    Thanks so much y'all for the help.

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    Was he being mean about it or just listing off the info? Some of these guys think they're being flattering like, "I know all this cool stuff about you, I'm your most devoted fan!" Those guys don't understand that this is terrifying, not alluring. Best case, he was one of these guys, not understanding what a creepazoid he was being?


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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    That site crossed my mind too, but does it tell you how many privates and how long they were for Streamate? Plus the fact that the guy hints at her location is concerning too.
    I think so. Unless it's actually a different site I'm thinking of, that site also tells you how much time the model has spent in private sessions and whatnot. It tells too much of a model's business, in my opinion. I think the person in charge of the site had posted on the AmberCutie Forum once or twice a long time ago.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    I think so. Unless it's actually a different site I'm thinking of, that site also tells you how much time the model has spent in private sessions and whatnot. It tells too much of a model's business, in my opinion. I think the person in charge of the site had posted on the AmberCutie Forum once or twice a long time ago.
    You are right! I had to dig a bit for the info but it's there!

    Nothing about location though. Some fans are just obsessed idiots. WTF


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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    Was he being mean about it or just listing off the info? Some of these guys think they're being flattering like, "I know all this cool stuff about you, I'm your most devoted fan!" Those guys don't understand that this is terrifying, not alluring. Best case, he was one of these guys, not understanding what a creepazoid he was being?
    That's totally possible. I freaked out right away, but he might have been trying to impress me. God these guys are all so out of touch. I'm still new to this all, and it shocks me how little they know about basic human interaction.

    I got over my anxieties and went online anyway. Got taken for an hour long private by a new guy after 3 min in free chat! So I'm feeling much better now. Thanks again all for the help. You all are really amazing. And I'm glad I know about that site now. If only to keep an eye on it!

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    Well, the sites I'm thinking of list what time zone the cam model is in based on her IP address, so I doubt it's a far stretch that they'd also list more specific locations? Or maybe he just guessed based on you saying it was cold where you were (since Cali is rarely cold except for the weird snow thing happening right now).


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    Hmm. I started camming on a small site, and same thing happened. Guy came to pvt, and told me how much i earnt today, yesterday, he knew all the stuff.
    I was scared as fuck lol, by the way he was one of the site s owners.
    Soon, i recognized, he sent me a friend request in fb. (and a message: how much should i wait for u) <<< xdddd
    That was the moment, when i deleted all my social accounts lol.
    He came to my pvt room every day, turned on his cam and stayed hours. I hated it.
    It was 5 yrs ago. Now i wish the same thing to happen lol.

    < if i were u, i would make a print screen of him, than ask support chat, how such a thing can happen.
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