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    Default Not a regular, but have a curious question

    Hey Everyone. I am not a regular at any particular strip club, but find myself there several times a year while traveling for business or entertaining certain clients. I would say I have been in a club 4-6 times a year over 20 years and to probably 10 different clubs. Recently, I was in a club in Virginia that allows a dancer to do down to a g-string and pasties. There was one young lady that was built to my particular personal preference and when she approached me for a private dance, I quickly accepted. She was awesome both in her appearance, her dancing, and her conversation. I tipped her well. Later that evening, the club had a "lapdance special" where you could get two more songs for the same money with any dancer! Upon making eye contact with that same dancer, off to the private area we went! So...this time, she stripped all the way down to the g-string and pasties within seconds and was being awesome, but this time I told her how much she was turning me on with what she was doing. I basically did this so that an erection didn't embarrass me....LOL. However, within a few seconds, her hand glanced my erection and since I had shorts, her hand went about halfway up my leg towards it. She never actually grabbed it or anything like that, but it scared this old guy to death! I am 45 years old and didnt know if that was a signal, or just a flirt, or what?

    I would never consider "extra" services (too scared of the possible negatives) but it would be nice to know opinions of whether or not I was being teased for more tips, or actually being tested for my reaction to see if other things COULD be offered to me.

    Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    It was part of the dance, no worries bro.

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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    Bikini, nobody here is a mind reader. She may have been teasing you to keep you on the hook or it might have been an opening salvo for an additional offer. Since you didn't pursue it, only she knows the answer to that.

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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    I think if she were an extras girl it would've been clear within the initial conversation. I get a little "friskier" after a few dances (grind a little more, let them touch waist or thighs if I trust it). It's almost my way of saying thank you for spending more. But hey, who knows, could have meant anything.
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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    Rick puts it best, I think. Sm extras girls are blatant & grabbing your junk is their idea of a handshake. Others are more subtle & will drop offerings disguised as innuendo. Sm are both subtle + discriminating & favour an approach like the one you described, which I think is the most likely, & she backed off when you didn't bite. I don't think a truly clean dancer is going to intentionally graze a customer's junk w/ her hand, bc that can escalate quickly if she does it to the wrong guy (i.e. He takes it as an invite to push or even try to force more).

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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    Touching a customer's thigh is a pretty normal occurrence during lap dances.

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    Default Re: Not a regular, but have a curious question

    Thanks folks! Was worried that MAYBE I had "easy mark" or "sucker" written all over me.....LOL. Also didn't want my A$$ kicked by a bouncer.

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