I have gone to a handful of clubs for several years now. Too often, really. And it has been a long time since a dancer has been able to get under my skin. But one has. All these posts are all versions of that same issue - I want her, does she want me.
But I accept that she does not.
I am genuinely interested in what lies or acts or hustles or whatever you would not put on the string a guy along? If he expressed genuine emotion for you, would you take advantage? If he's depressed, do you have bipolar? Do you tell him stories about how shitty your childhood or old boyfriends were? Is there a line you would not cross, personally?
For what it's worth, I don't ask as a bitter thing or a judgmental thing, I just want to better understand the creature so that I don't find myself in so unpleasant a place again.
It hurts, wanting, and wanting something when you can't tell if is a dream or not, even more.
Appreciate it.



stop making it so personal & just enjoy it for what it is! It's naked customer service.



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