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    Duh I would like to appologize....again...

    I am back at work after 2 weeks off, and am in a fair amount of pain, plus a wave of SADD depression. That combined with some other stressors have led me to be snapish, and over reactive.

    I would like to apologize to Kellydancer, everyone in the Bible Belt thread, and to Audrey_k.

    I have looked back through some of my posts since Monday a.m. and it might appear that I was being argumentative with Audrey_k. I'm sorry Audrey I really like the way you come forward with opinions, but heart is on my sleeve right now and I find myself taking things personally. I know better than this, and I will continue to read, but I will try to refrain from posting unless I can be more constructive.

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    Ok, not sure what you're apologizing for but no biggie. I have an idea what you are talking about but it's no big deal. Not sure what happened between you and Audrey but I'm sure she's not losing sleep either.

    Btw I know many with SADD. A friend of mine (actually I want him to be my boyfriend)suffers from it severely every winter so I don't see him that much during this time. Once spring comes we'll see each other much more.

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    There was some information postedcin a thread, and some comments were made about fairness. My OCD kicked in hard and I went fact checking, and my reply may have been seen as a harsh correction. It just rankled cause there were a couple of snarky statements in threads that strict out at southerners, men, and such.

    I REALLY take offence at being stereotyped and thrown in the same bucket as .....well, you know.

    I wasn't feeling well, I have some hormonal issues like low testosterone, which I get shots for. The shots haven't done much but something happened the week prior to Thanksgiving, and I have been as "randy as a goat", until about Monday and suddenly it just went away. I tried something medically that I had theorized as the trigger for this past months episode, and I think I may have found an issue to bring up with my Dr.

    I also may have been a little more intense on the whole " no dads" conversation. I get that you are probably Catholic, and that rules out divorce. I guess as a hopeless romantic I hate to see anyone ruled out when it comes to love. Anyway, my comments, my "prediction", was truly ment to be in jest.

    I really enjoy injecting good information, and a little flirtation into the banter here, and I don't want to come off as being like the asshat customers that sometimes pop up on here.

    I even have my wife's permission to be reading and posting on here.

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    No problem. Yes I am Catholic which rules out no dads, but I also don't want to deal with that. It's something I am super strict about to the point I'd rather be single with 1000 cats than marry a dad. When I meet a guy the first thing I ask is if he has kids and if he does tell him it'll never go past friendship. Ironically, since I stopped looking online (online dating sucked)I have found the men I desire offline which was bizarre.

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    You always find what you are looking for when you stop trying too hard.

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    Oh, trust me, Unkle Fuzzy, you shouldn't worry. Do you know how many times I lost my shit, went on rants, and possibly offended people on this forum? I had to go back and edit or delete posts because of that. But it's ok, we all have bad days. We should all be understanding of that. We all have the right to our opinions, too. If everyone on here agreed with everything all the time, how boring what that be! Difference of opinion and perspective is what makes the world colorful and intriguing. I don't get offended over politics either. I just laugh it off, b/c politics is nothing but a game anyway! But I don't want to get on that subject, lol.

    Anyway, I just wanted to say, I think you're cool and you seem to be a good guy.
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    I'm assuming your talking about the egg donation thread? If so no worries, I honestly haven't given it much thought. I'm probably one of there most argumentative posters on SW so I can't really expect people not to be argumentative back.

    Hope you're feeing better!

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    Thanks, Audrey and SK.

    I was pretty sure I was over reacting, but wanted to be sure. I have very good recall, especially when I fuck up, and I'm not sure a mistake of any magnitude in my new favorite hangout, would be an event that I could easily put out of mind.

    It helps that I did not cause any friction.

    Yes I am better today, and really started improving late yesterday. I have had a physiological change take place, and my medication experiment seems to have confirmed my suspicions. I have a theory for my Dr and she is pretty good at listening because she knows I do my research before I ask for any changes to my meds. If this is what I think it is my health and well being is going to make a huge turnaround soon. The last month I've been feeling like a teenager again, and it just suddenly stopped. I tried a med we had leftover in the cabinet,(nothing narcotic or dangerous just 2 doses of a " Big Gun" antibiotic), and the jangley feeling that preceded my really good month has returned. Now to see if it holds for a while now that the meds have run out. If so a 2 week course of treatment should get me fixed permanently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    Oh, trust me, Unkle Fuzzy, you shouldn't worry. Do you know how many times I lost my shit, went on rants, and possibly offended people on this forum? I had to go back and edit or delete posts because of that. But it's ok, we all have bad days. We should all be understanding of that. We all have the right to our opinions, too. If everyone on here agreed with everything all the time, how boring what that be! Difference of opinion and perspective is what makes the world colorful and intriguing. I don't get offended over politics either. I just laugh it off, b/c politics is nothing but a game anyway! But I don't want to get on that subject, lol.

    Anyway, I just wanted to say, I think you're cool and you seem to be a good guy.
    I have too. I've gotten into it with people I actually like and then I felt bad. It happens and unless it is really nasty (like calling names personally)it's usually forgotten.

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    You always find what you are looking for when you stop trying too hard.
    So true. I would get frustrated with online because I often attracted men I'd never date. Offline the opposite. The thing is that I think the men I want probably don't do online.

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    I have actually made some good friends here after arguing with them, at least partially a result of the argument. I didn't see the thread his happened in, but there weren't any reports or anything. Usually there are reports if there is anything bad.
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