Even though my ex and I are no longer together as a couple, we both agreed to be civil towards one another for the sake of our children. He doesn't seem to understand that in order for us to be civil, there needs to be respect from both ends. He is free from our toxic relationship but I'm not. He is still very verbally and emotionally abuse. Last night he threatened to take me to court for sole custody of our shared daughter and child support. Every single fucking time I have a gut feeling about something it comes true. I confronted him about this feeling I had weeks ago and he ensured me that he wouldn't take me to family court.
I refuse to give this man money when he lives in his mother's house and no longer has to pay for hydro, rent, groceries, and entertainment (phone, internet...). He still expects for me to contribute towards $3000 of debt (in his name). On top of dealing with all of these expenses on my own, I have to worry about family court for my first born. He wanted to adopt my daughter and yet, he plans on complicating things for all of us. Was splitting our family apart not enough???
I have never made threats to take these children away from him. The only time I have mentioned discontinue his relationship with my first daughter is because of his inability to treat both girls the same. His back and forth and unpredictability has me worried that one day he could change his mind about raising her. That's a legit fear I as her mother can have and it's being used against me.
He is the most irresponsible tool and the meanest bully I have known. I have fallen in and out of depression because of how he has treated me. The stress he puts my body and mind through are literally killing me. I have severe chest pains, and migraine headaches every time he acts poorly towards me. He knows I make good money dancing, and now plans on using that to ruin my life when I started dancing for him to begin with. Funny how he'll go after my money and at the same time complain about how I "mess around" and don't bring home enough.
The only reason he is threatening to take me to court is because I blocked him on all my social media and told him I'd be changing the home phone. If he needs to get a hold of me, he can email, but aside from that, I don't want to hear from him, and I don't want to see him. Would the court give a father sole custody if the mother was stable (financially, etc.)? I mean he lives in a room in his mother's house, smokes pot everyday, feeds the girls too much junk (the tooth in my oldest daughter's mouth that was rotting broke)...



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