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    I'me just wondering because I had some questions to ask. I'm kind of nervous but I am kind of feeling pressed against a wall. Anyhow I was wondering why I'm not allowed to post there? Is it because I'm male? And If so I put male because it asked my gender which is what's in my head. Which is male. I'd be a female stripper since my body is female though. Anyway why does it matter what my mind says I am? This is about business and making money not my gender identity mishaps.

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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    The reason why the site doesn't allow men to post in the "stripping" section is because the site had have many men who there to be harassing.
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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

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    The reason why the site doesn't allow men to post in the "stripping" section is because the site had have many men who there to be harassing.

    If you want to post in the stripping section, then make an account as a female.
    Well I don't even like girls. I'm only here because My job sucks and I don't think any job would get me money fast enough. Next week I might get kicked out of my aunt doesn't give me a 100 than I'll have to stay in daily hotels. That'll dry out soon and I'll be homeless. I just wanted a job I could get fast cash at. I tried the restaurants I have no experience. I'm 21 so I can work anywhere. Anyhow I guess I'm going to have to use another account then. Which sucks I was just trying to be anonymous.

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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    If you are a male poster (i.e. you have a dick and balls regardless of gender issues), you are not allowed to make an account as a female simply to get around the rules about people with dicks and balls posting in stripping general and other female only areas.

    I am an industry veteran of 15 years, and a female newbie just thinking of maybe possibly starting dancing, but not sure & may never set foot in a club anyway, can still post where I cannot, nor any other men. Saying you feel like a woman is not enough to circumscribe that rule.
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    Furthermore, having an account as a male AND as a female is grounds for getting banned.
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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    But the OP has said that they feel as if they are male but they have a female body. That would allow this poster (I think) to talk to admin, explain the situation, close the original account and open a new account.

    Honestly though, we go on people's word on who they are, so maybe even re-thinking this whole male/female exclusion thing would be for the best? Maybe there should be a stripper area (like in the camming verified) that is only for those who can prove they are strippers, etc.

    My youngest child is female but identifies as a male, so I can totally understand why the OP registered as he did, even though he has all the right "parts".

    I think this is going to be something we (all people) will all have to come to terms with as time goes on.

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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    The OP indeed sounds like a special case, I did not mean to come across as being unsympathetic.
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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    There are plenty of places he or she can post that are not gender blocked, i doubt whatever he wanted to say is specific enough that it MUST go in general. Would probably be better in life support i imagine.
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    ^That. Or industry insight, so their thread gets traffic and there's no risk being banned.
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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    If you are a male poster (i.e. you have a dick and balls regardless of gender issues), you are not allowed to make an account as a female simply to get around the rules about people with dicks and balls posting in stripping general and other female only areas.

    I am an industry veteran of 15 years, and a female newbie just thinking of maybe possibly starting dancing, but not sure & may never set foot in a club anyway, can still post where I cannot, nor any other men. Saying you feel like a woman is not enough to circumscribe that rule.

    Why do people always assume transwomen when the topic of gender identity is brought up?

    I never said I had male parts my mind is a male therefore my gender is male. My sex is female. But it really doesn't matter I have everything figured out.

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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    ^^I'm always baffled by that bias too.

    Anyway, I've mentioned this in another thread, but would it be possible to have a "Registered Users" section in addition to "Ladies Only"?

    I understand why some cis women feel most comfortable with a private place to talk and I respect that. On the other hand, I've posted threads in "Ladies Only" solely to keep a flimsy layer of anonymity because a few IRL friends know my username, when in reality I've actually wanted advice from all genders. (I suppose if someone were truly nosy about my account history they could go ahead and register, but I'm not too worried about that.)

    I don't mean this to sound like I'm only concerned about remedying my own lack of foresight, though -- A lot of people use the same handle on different media without thinking much.

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    Default Re: I had a personal question in the general section? Why can't I post there?

    Arguably, someone who has both a male and a female account doesn't quite have everything figured out. That would need to be explained and remedied very soon.

    As for possessors of male genitalia registering with female accounts, obviously we cannot have that, or there will be hordes of men doing so. No doubt many will claim they have female minds and are therefore female. I remain skeptical in most of these cases.
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