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    I work in a massage parlour with a gorgeous top earner who does whatever she pleases. She hands out her real name and number to her regulars, kisses, takes people out to breakfast with her on her way home from a long shift... OTC with most of her regs..

    She now has a stalker client that messages constantly and tries to fuck her on sight either otc or in a booking. And spreads her real info to anyone who will listen..

    She claims their friends and if management could just make him stop the bad behavior so they can enjoy the friends part... They said he is banned from seeing her and will pursue legal action if he harasses her further.

    SHE QUIT!! Said they were being unfair, she still wants to see him as they are friends. And he is a big spender. Oh and management can't control her.

    He just asked who else was on shift coz he was horny...

    Am I missing something? Coz for all their faults, I think management had her back. I am reeling at her tendency to attract constant drama.

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    Sounds like a drama-whore. I know that's not a nice thing to say, but come on -- unless she's truly dumber than the dumbest inanimate object you can think of, she knows exactly what can happen as a result of her behaviour, yet she does it anyway. I would distance myself from her & keep a very tight lid on anything you tell her abt yourself. She doesn't seem to give a rat's ass abt her own safey, don't give her any avenue to compromise yours.

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    She is playing a dangerous game BUT often many relationships devolve into "stalking-restraining order" territory whether the people are involved with the adult industry or not. My theory is she knows how to play him and will stop/move when the money dries up. She might even have a boyfriend dictating her "moves" with this guy (a grifter team.)

    Edit to add- I worked with an extremely crazy not-so-attractive girl who would brag about having stalkers. IMO some women do this to feed their ego. Weird but honestly humans do a lot of weird things. If she's not grifting then she is just nuts & you should allow her to deal with her actions on her own. Avoid her like she has Ebola, lol

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    Well, having watched "The Grifters" we all know how it turned out, so..


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    Some people don't care & are hardcore scamsters. I've met a few strippers who were mentored by pimps/con artists....a lot of people who do these things ALREADY have f*cked up public records so they don't care if they get busted for forgery, fraud, burglary, etc. Sometimes it's a family thing (aka why Gypsies got bad raps...it's a chicken & the egg debate if you want to discuss why people bad-talk gypsies as thieves, or that Gypsies resort to scamming and moving away b/c they've been that way due to persecution for hundreds of years.)

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    At least she's gone and you don't have to deal with her drama anymore?

    I don't get it either but you can't change other people, unfortunately.

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    I think it's a game too. She is highly manipulative and plays games w everyone. She was upset about the money going not him. Cue tantrum.

    Seeing it clearer. Staying the hell away too.

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    I feel bad for her, but that was pretty dumb. It's like she read every safety thread on here, smiled, and did the opposite. She's also creating a potential problem for you cuz she's training customers to expect this sort of "intimacy"-gag.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    She is playing a dangerous game BUT often many relationships devolve into "stalking-restraining order" territory whether the people are involved with the adult industry or not. My theory is she knows how to play him and will stop/move when the money dries up. She might even have a boyfriend dictating her "moves" with this guy (a grifter team.)

    Edit to add- I worked with an extremely crazy not-so-attractive girl who would brag about having stalkers. IMO some women do this to feed their ego. Weird but honestly humans do a lot of weird things. If she's not grifting then she is just nuts & you should allow her to deal with her actions on her own. Avoid her like she has Ebola, lol
    I feel for your former coworker,in a way.
    " When a lion gazes upon a gazelle, should the gazelle be flattered?". I hope she's grown and learned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thisunrest View Post
    I feel for your former coworker,in a way.
    " When a lion gazes upon a gazelle, should the gazelle be flattered?". I hope she's grown and learned.
    Someone posted on stripclublist that she ran off to Vegas and married a guy after knowing him a short while. This was not long after Britney Spears did something like that so the poster actually typed "she pulled a Britney Spears move".........IMO I now realize this dancer was seriously mentally ill and her job as a stripper allowed her to engage in dangerous gambles to support her ego.

    (BTW our club was very strict- dancers were not allowed to leave the parking lot at closing until the bouncers made all the customers leave first. Meaning this crazy girl had to go out of her way to make sure her stalker was paying attention to her..lol....)

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    I feel like I learnt alot! The safety information is alot more real.

    That and don't trust anyone. Co-worker/customer/mgt just be distant and polite.

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    She is back! Announced we are all evil and its our fault for spreading her information... And she hates us all.

    She could have just stayed away... Self responsibility obviously isn't her thing. She had another tantrum and then just stayed away from everyone.

    Im just going to avoid.

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