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    Default CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    Hello to all my fellow Cyber Cougars.

    I have read other posts regarding this subject and would like some input from ladies on cam 40 and over. What do you wear when you are in free chat? And how much do you show of yourself in the Free Chat Room?

    Although I am doing well, I am curious to know if I could make more $$$ showing less. I usually wear very sexy lingerie, stockings, and high shoes in free because on LJ, I get alot of guys coming through my room and staying. I do get privates, but just checked my comparison of time I am in FREE and when I am PRIVATE and it shows me I am in the FREE ROOM 65% OF THE TIME.

    I want to improve that percentage and want to know if covering up and showing only the top half of my body, talking less, and showing less would do the trick.

    I see so many ladies when I pass them by during homework that don't move around or dance or flirt and if I was a guy and saw that while deciding who's room I am going to stop at, I would think that would be a boring room. I could be wrong. If sitting and being more low keep would get the numbers up, I would try it. I am exhausting myself both mentally and physically in free contorting my body and talking to these guys. So many of them get annoying and I give them the magic "BAN" after a while. Also, the guys that chat me up and say all kinds of things rarely buy a show. Usually it's someone who's in the room, but not revealing that scoops me up.

    Opinions ladies please. This is unlike any adult job I have ever done. I've been in massage, stripping, and escorting over the years where more was more. I have a hustle that has been working, but I want to know if another method is better, what mistakes you made when you started out, etc. I'm at a high payout % now and have only 2 days left in the pay period so it would be nice to make the most possible.

    Thanks MILFS around the world!

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    I really dont think it makes any difference what your age is - if what your doing is exhausting you change it up - you can be entertaining without wearing yourself out in FC

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    Hey! I'm 40 and I just generally sit on my ass unless they tip me. They get my conversation for free but that is it, and NO sexy conversation from me, unless it's a general description of what I do in paid chat. I never hustle to start a show because I've discovered after doing this for nearly three years, most of the guys who want dirty talk etc just want to waste your time. Also, I'm not a hot bodied 20 year old (though I'm in good shape for my age) so my audience is VERY different than that group. Generally my audience prefers to get to know me a bit first.
    If someone wants to see what I look like (boobs, butt, ect) but aren't willing to take the plunge they'll hang out long enough for someone else to tip me and then they'll make up their mind. They see me from the waist up unless I decide to move around on my own.
    I wear a strapy top, a bra, undies, thigh highs and heels and I pull the front of the top down enough that they can see it and my cleavage, which tend to be enough of a tease.
    I think the most important lesson I learned over the last few years is that less is more when it comes to your hustle and to do what you enjoy and what makes you comfortable. Also, don't be afraid to be mildly bitchy. I'm VERY nice to my free chat audience, but I am also horrible dry and sarcastic, which does well for me I know my strengths and advertise them and I quell any free chat fetish play that a guy tries to pull off.
    Also, I should mention, 65% in free is really not a bad average, it always depends on your rates and how much volume you have to pull to make your goal. I charge more so I can average more time in free chat and still make $$$. When I charged less I spent more time in paid chat but made much less.

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    I'm 53 but as Nikki says, I don't think age has any bearing. I wear and do whatever I feel like each day. That way, I'm comfortable and relaxed which always makes for a better room.
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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    I for myself do nothing in freechat, i sit on my ass or i lie on a side & only flash if i am tipped, my shows happen in private not in freechat, i just dont want to entertain people for free, if they want more of me they have to tip or take me pvt. I deal with back pain & i need to feel comfy while working, i avoid moving too much anyway.
    On cam things are different than anywhere else, too many guys trying to get off just by looking at us in freechat, more is less on cam in my opinion but this also depends on everyone's hustle.
    I would say body type is more important than age cause for example if u slim or looking pretty fit u can 'afford' to show body in full and turn most people on, is a lot easier than if u thicker & appeal to just curvy/bbw lovers. I am the last so i feel not comfy to show myself to everyone in free chat, who really is into me will take me pvt and see more in there.
    I often see models moving a lot in freechat, talking a lot and dancing, for me they look like they waste a lot of energy but who knows, maybe that hustle works for them. I think is important also how u 'learn' to cam, what u see or how some people teach u to cam (new studio girls are told how to cam).
    You can experiment & see how different hustle works for you. The members on LJ are of a certain type, cheap guys looking for freebies, pretty low quality members IMO, i worked the site too & for them $2.99/min was TOO MUCH there lol. Whatever!

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    Do what you want. Show your body in your profile photo and if they want to pay they already know what you look like. Guys that sit in free are just that. Sitting in free. FREELOADING. I give them jack shit. And they still masturbate looking at what little they see. Guys that pay give minimal talk and tend to just go right in, and they know they have to wait out the free timer limit.
    You could second guess the game until the cows come home. There is no rhyme or reason. Some days it's the site, sometimes it's the model, ect.
    But I will say if someone's going to give me stuff for free, thank you very much- I'll take it. But they aren't getting PAID.

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    I am over 40 and still strip at a club and I cam on the side and successfully I am happy to say because I look much younger than my age and I have a body that is better than many 20 somethings .

    I don't like privates so I will get fully nude and do everything most girls do in private in public chat. My goal is to get as many viewers in my room as possible. If they like your show and personality they will tip you even if you are giving them everything for free. I think it is all about personality, laying around in your bra and panties and looking unhappy like many cam girls do won't lead to privates just customers quickly exiting your room.

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    I am 51, I wear sexy lingerie, stockings heels etc. I never flash/perform in free chat. All the guys can see is my mid torso, neck to thighs, I don't even show my face in freechat, if they want to know what I look like there are tons of free photo's on my profile, I feel that by directing them there I am encouraging them to look/read my profile, if they can't be bothered to do that then they probably aren't going to pay anyway. I rarely even talk in freechat, I prefer to type and only to answer questions. Basically I give 'owt for nowt lol. I will stand, twirl, bendover etc for a decent tip.
    TBH It's not so much what you do or say but more HOW you do/say it. My room topic states 'I do not beg for tip, please do not beg for freebies', it works for me . Lets not forget, whatever site you are on they are all 'Pay To Play' sites, if they aint paying, I aint playing lol.
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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    Age has nothing to do with it. Each cam site is different.

    All camming is a daily adventure of trial & error, so mix it u & try out different outfits yourself.

    Free chat those so-called freeloaders is YOUR Traffic, it is up to YOU to turn them into a sale. This is your JOB, other girls NEED to stop hating on 'freeloaders' and work on turning them into paying customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StripperSierra View Post
    I don't like privates so I will get fully nude and do everything most girls do in private in public chat. My goal is to get as many viewers in my room as possible. If they like your show and personality they will tip you even if you are giving them everything for free.
    Just a caution to any new cammers that may be reading this -- That may work for you if you are on myfreecams or naked.com, but if you do that on Streamate it will get your account suspended or banned.

    and as for myself, I'm an older host as well, but I think for a private based site the less you show the better. When I first started I wore myself out dancing around and found I make less money the more I show for free.


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    Quote Originally Posted by StripperSierra View Post
    I don't like privates so I will get fully nude and do everything most girls do in private in public chat. My goal is to get as many viewers in my room as possible. If they like your show and personality they will tip you even if you are giving them everything for free.
    Just a caution to any new cammers that may be reading this -- That may work for you if you are on myfreecams or naked.com, but if you do that on Streamate it will get your account suspended or banned.

    and as for myself, I'm an older host as well, but I think for a private based site the less you show for free the better. I do show cleavage and dress in something sexy, but I don't take requests in free chat from men who do not tip.

    A lot depends on the site you are on and whether you prefer privates or gold shows also. I have found that gold shows do not bring in the money they used to and I tire of the idiots who beg for free everything. I sometimes use them to get my traffic up but the money I make from gold shows tend to be the privates I get afterward.

    When I first started I wore myself out dancing around and found I make less money the more I show for free.


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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    That's the thing. We can give each other grief all day about our different hustles. I personally prefer it my way. Sam says to hustle those guys. I prefer they go to Sam and she hustles them- and she prefers this too. Sierra prefers to be naked in public, that's her thing. If you prefer to lay around in your bra and panties then do that. Build it and they will come. You will attract the customers that like how you work. So it comes down to try it. If you like it and it works for you then by all means make that paper. ( just don't get naked in public on the sites where you can't)

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    Default Re: CAMMIES OVER 40...Do you cover yourself in free chat..What do you wear?

    ^^Agreed! I'm not over 40 (well, not on cam anyway), but there is another BBW who is on one of the cam sites I work on who is ALWAYS in paid chat.
    So I looked at what she was doing... Sitting propped up on one arm on the bed, in full stockings, spike heels, panties and bra, sometimes a dress on over it, smiling and greeting everyone who came in... Always first row, always busy.
    I tried that numerous times, and all it brought me was a sore back, sore feet, and lots of looky loos who just sat in chat and demanded to see more!
    I cam my way in which I am comfortable ,and my income is steadily increasing each week. it's not for everybody though... I don't show eyes, (cause of all of the cappers), dress down, sitting up in a lounge chair, very little makeup, and make the most when I'm quiet.
    Camming custies chose it, not me.
    I would prefer to be glammed up, and show some cleavage, but that never works for me.

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