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    She only has CA. blocked, but on the cammodels link u can still see her. It's wild how random guys just walk up to her car and whip out there dick and start jerking off!
    She gets away with it, because she is making sm a shitload of money. Just another case of favoritism.
    Girls on here have reported her, but I even told them it would be a waste of time..and ..it was.
    Money talks
    She also sells her panties, a raffle to get to fuck her, etc.
    Good for her! I wish I had the guts, but... I don't even like guys looking at me when I go out, never mind opening my car door and let them fuck me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    So my husband linked me this, and I thought I would share this with the forum. A cam girl decides to tease a pizza delivery guy, and then the reality of bringing a non-consenting stranger into your show sets in.

    http://efukt.com/21208_Gimmie_Yo_Numba.html (NSFW - in case anyone is at their vanilla job)

    While I know most girls on here wouldn't bother crossing this line, I wanted to post it here as a reference for any new girls who think this might be a good way to make a quick buck. Thank god nothing serious happens to her on cam, but he now knows where she lives, has her phone number, and knows she lives alone based on what she said. It is not worth the potential risk.
    I agree! Every time I've heard about cam girls doing this, I thought to myself "WHYYYYY???" There are other ways to keep your chat room fun and interesting without resorting to risky shit like that. The guys on MFC (or any other site) tuning in to those shows probably couldn't care less about the safety of that model...while they shout out things like "You should suck his dick!"
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    Cutie101, you're backpeddling. You can't come on here and say shit like that, and then when we get pissed, you say "Oh, I wasn't serious! See? I put 'lol' at the end." SMH. Too late. You already said it...
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    Not to thread jack, but when I got raped I was wearing jeans and a winter coat. Clothes don't mean shit, if people say it's can't control themselves around scantily clad women, they deserve to be castrated with a rusty axe. Slowly.
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    To add to what Julia said I was fully clothed with jeans and long sleeved baggy shirt when my sexual assault took place. I think it's a power thing more than what a person actually looks like

    I think this girl is freakin crazy. Let the guy in... and touch you, hug you, tell him you're alone and you live there not that you're just renting the place or your boyfriend is in the next room or anything just tells him the complete truth - wow so stupid! She said she wouldn't do it again-_- ... I hope she learned something but it doesn't seem like she did. Dumbest camgirl in history or what. Why the hell wasn't she more firm and didn't come up with some lies before hand WOW mind = blown


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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Not to thread jack, but when I got raped I was wearing jeans and a winter coat. Clothes don't mean shit, if people say it's can't control themselves around scantily clad women, they deserve to be castrated with a rusty axe. Slowly.
    Can't but agree with it. But unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Clothes don't mean shit, if people say it's can't control themselves around scantily clad women, they deserve to be castrated with a rusty axe. Slowly.
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    Cutie101, you're backpeddling. You can't come on here and say shit like that, and then when we get pissed, you say "Oh, I wasn't serious! See? I put 'lol' at the end." SMH. Too late. You already said it...
    Unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissQuirk View Post
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    this video was hard for me to watch. i was so creeped for her, the feeling of "i'll just hug this dude and maybe he'll go away" :/ ugh this was hard to watch.
    Same here. I felt my skin crawl when he pulled back from that last hug. When she turned her back to him I about had a heart attack. Just such a dangerous position to put yourself in. I don't allow utility workers, maintenance or anyone like that in the house without my husband home or my big ass crazy dog by my side. No tip or amount of money is work compromising your safety like that. Just sad.

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    I skipped to the end of the thread so I am not sure if someone already mentioned this but video taping someone without their permission is VERY ILLEGAL in a court of law.

    That guy could pretty much sue her if he wanted too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosemary Rabbit View Post
    I find the model herself a little creepy too. Just reverse the genders! If a guy had answered the door naked for a delivery GIRL, he would be considered the creep. Cops are called, lives are ruined, and he's on a sexual assault database forever. If I were a guy I would run the fucking other way because I'd think that girl was trying to ruin my life.

    I don't blame him for showing interest, but no does mean no so he is not entirely without blame here. I'd feel the same way if a guy said no and a girl just. wouldn't. leave.

    It's cute and funny in a porno setting, but realistically our society is not there. We're somewhere else where this whole situation is dangerous for all parties involved.

    I feel bad and cringe for them both. I hope she's okay!
    When I got to the end of the video and she said, "Oh that was/he was creepy." I thought to myself, "You without anyone's consent answered the door naked. No matter how young, hot and sexy you are.....that makes YOU the creepy one."

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    Sometimes her camera appeared to be hidden under a towel and sometimes not. How was that possible? I'm Hoping it was a set up and she wasn't alone, otherwise holy crap, lucky escape!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.

    It seems to me that you require some education of your own. Despite what any person is wearing, it doesnt give anyone the right to assault them. It is a simple concept, but unfortunately it isnt common sense as you are proving. Women do not get raped because of what they are or arent wearing, they are raped because the person is a rapist plain and simple. While I do agree that what she did wasnt the smartest or safest thing, your comments completely disgust me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaT View Post
    Sometimes her camera appeared to be hidden under a towel and sometimes not. How was that possible? I'm Hoping it was a set up and she wasn't alone, otherwise holy crap, lucky escape!
    I could be completely wrong about this but I think it was one of those fabric hair ties. You know the ones I mean? It would have whole in the middle so the camera could still see but then look 'hidden' for lack of a better word? If not hidden at least less obvious?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.
    You could say that about PRETTY much every crime that is committed but I don't exactly see muggers & thieves getting the same blank check for their behaviour.

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    I am so sick and tired of some of you defending rape or sexual assault inflicted on women. Please miss me with the bullshit! Why is it that whenever you see a woman being violated, questions as such 'what was she wearing?' or 'why was she there in the first place?' always come up? Instead of telling a woman how to dress how about we tell men not to rape and understand that when a woman tells you 'NO', that is a complete sentence. Stop violence against women!

    I have been harassed and assaulted when I was fully dressed without an once of skin showing. My body is of my own and I'll dress how the fuck I wanna dress. No one has the right to violate it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.
    To every1 skewering Sunny for this comment ^^^^ first, let me say I agree w/ all of you that there is no excuse for rape. None. I've wished rape on rapists, I'll admit, & a genuine reason to fear being raped on the slags who file false rape reports to cover their own arses or to 'get even' -- but even then. That said, I didn't watch the original link, but from what I've read here, this sounds like a prime example of 'kicking the hornet's nest' & that girl is damn lucky she didn't get stung.

    I do sm what agree w/ the bolded parts of Sunny's statement, bc the mentality of a culture is what shapes the individuals raised w/in that culture. It's the same reason sex workers are vilified by vanilla housewives, rather than their straying husbands who create the demand for the sex worker's services. Most women outside the industry are ingrained w/ sm degree of the 'Sex workers are all home-wrecking diseased hoes, regardless of what they do or why they do it' + 'boys will be boys so it's not entirely our husband's fault', & it's not until they are more deeply exposed to the inner workings of the sex industry that they get to see how untrue those 'gospel' statements really are. I think what Sunny was pointing out is that you can't *completely* fault a person for a belief when they have nvr been exposed to anything opposing that belief.

    Do I defend rape if committed under sm premise of 'I didn't know that wasn't ok!'? Fk no. I still say, take em all out back & feed em a bullet, for the safety of their future victims. But I still think Sunny makes a valid point here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Unfortunately, controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone. By education, I also mean the societal standards the person was born and brought up into. The fact some think a person being naked or scantily dressed implies there's nothing wrong about having sex with them no matter what, doesn't make them terrible people. It just indicates how much the society is fucked up for misleading them about the way it's supposed to be. Probably right now some dudebro is lauging at the delivery guy calling him a loser for missing out on a chance to get some ass. When everyone else around you says that under certain circumstances rape is ok, there's no way for you to know it isn't - even if you are the victim.
    At the end of the day, a rapist is absolutely the only one responsible for a rape, but you make an interesting point about society and social conditioning.

    It seems like every girl that watched this video thought, "That chick is going to get raped!" But the guy wasn't wearing a t-shirt that said "Hi! I'm a rapist!" He didn't have tons of obvious prison tattoos, and none of us looked him up on the sex offenders registry. He seemed more or less like a normal guy. In fact, he tried to get her phone number and a couple hugs - he didn't outright demand sex or immediately start groping her - so his approach was inappropriate, but relatively tame (as compared to the expected behavior of, say, some entitled frat boy). Since we had no hard evidence that this guy is a rapist, why did all of us have to worry that she was going to get raped?

    I think we all worried because we believe that in that scenario, a lot of guys could become rapists, whether they are inherently "rapey" or not. We know that a lot of guys have been led to believe that if a girl opens the door naked and lets you into her home, the appropriate response is to have sex with her. It's such a classic porn plot that it's become cliche. The sexual assault prevention lectures that guys get once a year in high school/college don't compare to the tons of porn and other social conditioning that tells them to fuck the welcoming naked girl. If society taught men that the appropriate response was "run away screaming if a girl opens the door naked," all of us would have watched the video worried that the dude would run away and she wouldn't get her pizza (which is probably what would have happened if the genders were reversed). Instead, we all thought that she might get raped because society has taught too many men that "naked girl opening the door" = "automatic yes to sex." It's an idea that even "normal" guys have, not just the evil rapist guys.

    Plus, Lexie is right in that every last one of us probably knows of *at least* one guy who would watch the video and say, "What's wrong with that dude? If that were me, I totally would have fucked that chick!" I also bet that every one of those guys has at least one friend that would sit there with him and say, "Totally, bro!" And neither of them would think for one second about whether "that chick" would want to fuck either of them. These aren't guys that are compulsive or serial rapists, who thrive on the power aspects of rape. They're just under-educated dudes that haven't learned or internalized the fact that "scantily dressed or naked" =/= "consent". If they rape someone, that's still 100% their fault, BUT they have an appalling mindset toward women because SOCIETY FAILED.

    It's a fucking shame that we live in a world where most women have the *rational* fear that being nude around ANY male stranger is likely to result in rape.
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    There's a lady on SM that does this kind of stuff daily. She parks at the beach, and fucks strangers who walk by. Been doing it for years. She now cams from a 'glory hole place, and sucks off random dicks who come in. And for the highest tipper, she gives out the location of the place.
    you probably would never even go into her room, cause she's over 40, and stays under the radar.
    I even saw her point the cam at hot girls walking to the beach, and telling guys she would invite them in for the right tip.
    She cams with another guy most of the time, but still... Takes balls.. or stupidity.. or both
    I think I know who you're talking about and my impression is that it's all staged. Regardless of money being made, I don't think she would get away with it for that long. The few times I've seen her free chat it always had a staged feel to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    To every1 skewering Sunny for this comment ^^^^ first, let me say I agree w/ all of you that there is no excuse for rape. None. I've wished rape on rapists, I'll admit, & a genuine reason to fear being raped on the slags who file false rape reports to cover their own arses or to 'get even' -- but even then. That said, I didn't watch the original link, but from what I've read here, this sounds like a prime example of 'kicking the hornet's nest' & that girl is damn lucky she didn't get stung.

    I do sm what agree w/ the bolded parts of Sunny's statement, bc the mentality of a culture is what shapes the individuals raised w/in that culture. It's the same reason sex workers are vilified by vanilla housewives, rather than their straying husbands who create the demand for the sex worker's services. Most women outside the industry are ingrained w/ sm degree of the 'Sex workers are all home-wrecking diseased hoes, regardless of what they do or why they do it' + 'boys will be boys so it's not entirely our husband's fault', & it's not until they are more deeply exposed to the inner workings of the sex industry that they get to see how untrue those 'gospel' statements really are. I think what Sunny was pointing out is that you can't *completely* fault a person for a belief when they have nvr been exposed to anything opposing that belief.

    Do I defend rape if committed under sm premise of 'I didn't know that wasn't ok!'? Fk no. I still say, take em all out back & feed em a bullet, for the safety of their future victims. But I still think Sunny makes a valid point here.
    By your logic since we didn't choose the 'right decision' to 'keep ourselves safe' then that mean that each of us has 'kicked the hornets nest'? A lot of us do show off our naked bodies after all.

    Why do we even complain about freeloaders and beggars 'if controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone'. Shouldn't we just forgive them all? They just can't help themselves. Aren't we now obligated to give them free stuff? I mean....what did we expect? Why do they need to pay us? We live in a society, in a culture, where men expect naked girls to give sex away for free and fuck them in real life. Right?

    Does that mean we 'all deserve what we get' for choosing to be sex-workers, up and including to violence against us?

    I am sorry.....if you commit a crime against another person that makes you a bad person. I don't care what 'the culture' says. Men know it is against the law to rape and that they will go to jail.

    The sad part is that they also know the majority of women won't report rape because they are slut-shamed by society, just like you are doing right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    At the end of the day, a rapist is absolutely the only one responsible for a rape, but you make an interesting point about society and social conditioning.

    It seems like every girl that watched this video thought, "That chick is going to get raped!" But the guy wasn't wearing a t-shirt that said "Hi! I'm a rapist!" He didn't have tons of obvious prison tattoos, and none of us looked him up on the sex offenders registry. He seemed more or less like a normal guy. In fact, he tried to get her phone number and a couple hugs - he didn't outright demand sex or immediately start groping her - so his approach was inappropriate, but relatively tame (as compared to the expected behavior of, say, some entitled frat boy). Since we had no hard evidence that this guy is a rapist, why did all of us have to worry that she was going to get raped?

    I think we all worried because we believe that in that scenario, a lot of guys could become rapists, whether they are inherently "rapey" or not. We know that a lot of guys have been led to believe that if a girl opens the door naked and lets you into her home, the appropriate response is to have sex with her. It's such a classic porn plot that it's become cliche. The sexual assault prevention lectures that guys get once a year in high school/college don't compare to the tons of porn and other social conditioning that tells them to fuck the welcoming naked girl. If society taught men that the appropriate response was "run away screaming if a girl opens the door naked," all of us would have watched the video worried that the dude would run away and she wouldn't get her pizza (which is probably what would have happened if the genders were reversed). Instead, we all thought that she might get raped because society has taught too many men that "naked girl opening the door" = "automatic yes to sex." It's an idea that even "normal" guys have, not just the evil rapist guys.

    Plus, Lexie is right in that every last one of us probably knows of *at least* one guy who would watch the video and say, "What's wrong with that dude? If that were me, I totally would have fucked that chick!" I also bet that every one of those guys has at least one friend that would sit there with him and say, "Totally, bro!" And neither of them would think for one second about whether "that chick" would want to fuck either of them. These aren't guys that are compulsive or serial rapists, who thrive on the power aspects of rape. They're just under-educated dudes that haven't learned or internalized the fact that "scantily dressed or naked" =/= "consent". If they rape someone, that's still 100% their fault, BUT they have an appalling mindset toward women because SOCIETY FAILED.

    It's a fucking shame that we live in a world where most women have the *rational* fear that being nude around ANY male stranger is likely to result in rape.
    Yes, we do live in a rape culture but it isn't like every man doesn't know that rape is wrong. In this study men said they would sexually take advantage of a women but when asked about the word rape they changed their tune. (http://www.independent.co.uk/news/wo...s-9978052.html)

    So, I am just not buying it.

    Then where is all this 'fear' actually coming from?

    Why 24 hour news, of course!

    Can't let your children out to play to far, the boogyman will take them and rape them. Can't let your women wander to far, the boogyman will take them and rape them.

    Of course, for men....all their fears get to be played out in the business section.

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    I'd also like to say that it is pretty damn sexist of someone to assume that men are 'so confused by the messages that they have been given by society therefore he has no free will of his own to know right from wrong and therefore can't be blamed for thinking it is okay'.

    TV shows non-stop violence as well as sexist bullshit. So are men to be forgiven for being violent too? I mean, it is part of the culture. They play violent videos games all day. They aren't bad people they can't be blamed.

    Men are not children.

    If they can tell TV isn't real life then the sure the hell can tell that porn isn't real life either.

    It is beyond insulting to treat them that way.

    Men deserve way more respect then that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    By your logic since we didn't choose the 'right decision' to 'keep ourselves safe' then that mean that each of us has 'kicked the hornets nest'? A lot of us do show off our naked bodies after all.

    Why do we even complain about freeloaders and beggars 'if controlling oneself under these circumstances requires a certain level of education and emotional maturity, which aren't something you can expect of everyone'. Shouldn't we just forgive them all? They just can't help themselves. Aren't we now obligated to give them free stuff? I mean....what did we expect? Why do they need to pay us? We live in a society, in a culture, where men expect naked girls to give sex away for free and fuck them in real life. Right?

    Does that mean we 'all deserve what we get' for choosing to be sex-workers, up and including to violence against us?

    I am sorry.....if you commit a crime against another person that makes you a bad person. I don't care what 'the culture' says. Men know it is against the law to rape and that they will go to jail.

    The sad part is that they also know the majority of women won't report rape because the are slut-shamed by society, just like you are doing right now.
    I'm the last one to slut-shame anyone. As I said, Idc who commits the rape or why, I say feed them each a bullet & let God sort it out. This includes the guy who raped me b4 I started dancing, & pretty much all of the guys I've seen assaulting myself or any other dancer in the 5+ yrs I danced.

    Magical_Hoohah said it better than I could, that a good bit of the problem comes from social conditioning. Have you ever danced yourself, or does your experience in sex work not extend beyond the safety of your computer screen? Why exactly do you think so many dancers (myself included) complain not only abt the POS customers who assault us at work, but the mgmt & security in the clubs who let it happen or even outright encourage it? Why do we complain of extras girls in other clubs who essentially condition travelling customers to expect sex acts in every club they visit? There are plenty of threads on here discussing these problems but the common denominator is the environment(s) that permit/encourage this behaviour from customers, thus re-inforcing the idea that such behaviour is acceptable, rather than backing up the complaining dancer & kicking them out or calling the police.

    Unless the video from the original link was staged, that girl was a fkng idiot. Do I think she deserves to get raped? NO. Would I want her to get raped to 'Teach her a lesson'? NO. The guy was still 100% responsible for his actions, & had he raped her, I would still file him under 'People who oughta be killed' along w/ any other rapist. But as Magical pointed out above, social conditioning has resulted (intentionally or not) in a sizeable population who wouldn't think twice abt doing so simply bc she answered the door naked, & that's just a sad & disgusting fact of life. Unless she's spent her entire life living under a rock, she's probably well aware of this. Like several others posted, I was fully dressed when I was raped, in a smelly work uniform I'd been wearing for 13+hrs. If so many of us share this experience -- being raped/assaulted while in 'non-sexually-provocative' clothes -- should it really be so surprising that sm POS feels free to attack this girl bc she was naked? Instead of exercising sm common (read: self-protecting) sense, she did smtg akin in many guys' minds to offering herself on a silver platter. So yes, I think she was absolutely 'kicking the hornet's nest'.

    Have you read the 'cat de-clawing' snafu in the Lounge? A few posters described having de-clawed their cats thinking it was basically harmless, similar to simply trimming-back the cat's nails. They did this bc THEY WERE NVR TOLD THAT DE-CLAWING = AMPUTATION. Are they still bad, evil horrendous, animal-abusing cretins, regardless of the fact that they refused to de-claw future pets after learning what de-clawing actually entails?

    The point I took from Sunny's post, & that I was trying to expand on, is that you can't be completely surprised by a person's actions when they were nvr taught that those actions are wrong. The fault for not solidly teaching these shitsacks that 'naked woman =/= your right to sex' lies w/ society.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    I'm the last one to slut-shame anyone. As I said, Idc who commits the rape or why, I say feed them each a bullet & let God sort it out. This includes the guy who raped me b4 I started dancing, & pretty much all of the guys I've seen assaulting myself or any other dancer in the 5+ yrs I danced.

    Magical_Hoohah said it better than I could, that a good bit of the problem comes from social conditioning. Have you ever danced yourself, or does your experience in sex work not extend beyond the safety of your computer screen? Why exactly do you think so many dancers (myself included) complain not only abt the POS customers who assault us at work, but the mgmt & security in the clubs who let it happen or even outright encourage it? Why do we complain of extras girls in other clubs who essentially condition travelling customers to expect sex acts in every club they visit? There are plenty of threads on here discussing these problems but the common denominator is the environment(s) that permit/encourage this behaviour from customers, thus re-inforcing the idea that such behaviour is acceptable, rather than backing up the complaining dancer & kicking them out or calling the police.

    Unless the video from the original link was staged, that girl was a fkng idiot. Do I think she deserves to get raped? NO. Would I want her to get raped to 'Teach her a lesson'? NO. The guy was still 100% responsible for his actions, & had he raped her, I would still file him under 'People who oughta be killed' along w/ any other rapist. But as Magical pointed out above, social conditioning has resulted (intentionally or not) in a sizeable population who wouldn't think twice abt doing so simply bc she answered the door naked, & that's just a sad & disgusting fact of life. Unless she's spent her entire life living under a rock, she's probably well aware of this. Like several others posted, I was fully dressed when I was raped, in a smelly work uniform I'd been wearing for 13+hrs. If so many of us share this experience -- being raped/assaulted while in 'non-sexually-provocative' clothes -- should it really be so surprising that sm POS feels free to attack this girl bc she was naked? Instead of exercising sm common (read: self-protecting) sense, she did smtg akin in many guys' minds to offering herself on a silver platter. So yes, I think she was absolutely 'kicking the hornet's nest'.

    Have you read the 'cat de-clawing' snafu in the Lounge? A few posters described having de-clawed their cats thinking it was basically harmless, similar to simply trimming-back the cat's nails. They did this bc THEY WERE NVR TOLD THAT DE-CLAWING = AMPUTATION. Are they still bad, evil horrendous, animal-abusing cretins, regardless of the fact that they refused to de-claw future pets after learning what de-clawing actually entails?

    The point I took from Sunny's post, & that I was trying to expand on, is that you can't be completely surprised by a person's actions when they were nvr taught that those actions are wrong. The fault for not solidly teaching these shitsacks that 'naked woman =/= your right to sex' lies w/ society.
    And my point is that Sunny's point is a complete and utter cop-out.

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    i thought MFC was female only?
    Yeah I bet she got a temporary suspension at least for that. Seems like the "no men on cam" is the only rule MFC enforces consistently.

    Also, I think it was definitely staged because he kept asking for her number. If he's a pizza delivery guy - he had her number already.


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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    I'd also like to say that it is pretty damn sexist of someone to assume that men are 'so confused by the messages that they have been given by society therefore he has no free will of his own to know right from wrong and therefore can't be blamed for thinking it is okay'.

    TV shows non-stop violence as well as sexist bullshit. So are men to be forgiven for being violent too? I mean, it is part of the culture. They play violent videos games all day. They aren't bad people they can't be blamed.

    Men are not children.

    If they can tell TV isn't real life then the sure the hell can tell that porn isn't real life either.

    It is beyond insulting to treat them that way.

    Men deserve way more respect then that.

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