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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    I was raised knowing my rights and to never expect a man to rape me but now that I live over here this first comment of your is very true for me. Still Im stubborn and I play by my own rules and choose to expect more from others.

    The second comment is bullshit though. It comes because there isnt a strong enough punishment. These men are not held accountable for their actions, they are not shamed for their actions so they know they can get away with it. Men know it is wrong and they are raised to know it is wrong! The laws need to be changed so that men know that one wrong step and we can nail their asses to the wall. I was once told in England that if a guy touched me and I pepper sprayed him I would go to jail for assault with a weapon. Women here dont have the right to defend their person (Unlike in America there is not a self defense law in most countries) and our behavior before the event is admissible as evidence to show that the guilty party is not responsible for his action. Change the law to reflect a woman right!! Its a civil rights issue and nothing more! Luckily this is changing but until the law makers start to make examples of men who rape and punish them accordingly the problem will continue.



    ^^ This exactly! Time to stop making excuses for these sickos. We need more power to enforce that law. It wont stop them but it slows them down a lot!
    To me, this is the heart of the matter.

    Instead of saying, "We need to protect ourselves because society encourages men to rape us and we can't blame them because of society's message to them."

    We should be saying, "Why the hell is society's justice system not properly protecting women and holding men accountable for their crimes? Why can a man go to jail longer for committing a crime on this computer that costs a company millions of dollars then a man who rapes a women? Do we as a society really care more about corporations then people?

    But in order for us to get to that point in society, we as individuals have got to start holding rapists personally responsible for their crimes. Regardless of society upbringing, just like every other person who commits a crime rapists know the difference between right and wrong.

    If we allow them a blank check on their behaviour is it really such a surprise that the consequence they face in a court of law are so minimal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chickchick8182 View Post
    ^ Not to state the obvious here, but how were you not aware that this was not okay? I don' t mean to attack you, I'm genuinely trying to understand why you were under the impression that No doesn't mean No and that it is acceptable to pressure someone into sex.
    Easy. I got the impression from my previous partners doing the forementioned things (having sex with a sleeping person or ignoring a "no" a because of being sure the partner's gonna like it or thinking being married entitles one to sex with their partner anytime) on a regular basis and also from movies and literature presenting the first two certainly rapey things as romantic. Really. I had no idea of these being wrong until I got my ass on Tumblr. If it wasn't for feminist articles in my feed, I'd still be doing that. Long live Tumblr.
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    I forgot to add that giving rapists this 'blank check' on their behaviour in a way that we don't give to other types of criminals is the essence of slut-shaming.

    If someone breaks into someone else's house.....you aren't going to hear someone say to them, "Well you shouldn't of had such nice stuff. We all know that there are poor people in the world who don't have nice stuff. So, of course they got jealous. Can you blame them? They can't help themselves. Look at all the messages on TV that tell you that you need to have nice stuff so people will love and respect you."

    If they were dumb enough to forget to lock their door they are going to hear, "Well, that was fucking dumb of you. Where the fuck was your head?"

    It isn't going to end with a huge discussion on the socio-ecomonical struggles of poor people and whether or not society is at fault for their stealing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Easy. I got the impression from my previous partners who did the forementioned things (having sex with a sleeping person or ignoring a "no" a because of being sure the partner's gonna like it or thinking being married entitles one to sex with their partner anytime) on a regular basis and also from movies and literature presenting the first two certainly rapey things as romantic. Really. I had no idea of these being wrong until I got my ass on Tumblr.
    You are right. It is easy. I got those messages too and there is no doubt in my mind that they completely fucked me over. I can promise you that you weren't the only one to fall for it. We are definitely in the same club on that one. (*gentle hugs*)

    That whole 'rapey as romantic' thing in movies thing has always freaked me out.

    I mean, a guy messed up with a girl because he was an asshole and his need for redemption from being an asshole is so important that they completely trump the girls and he either stalks the shit out of her and/or ruins her wedding and then she REWARDS him for being such a selfish and self-absorbed and/or creepy asshole by telling him that she loves him too?


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    I am sorry, but she answered the door naked. She should have expected some sexual attention. Any man who opens the door to a naked woman is going to think something sexual and assume she wants to show off in some way.

    I do not think the man was too out of line here. He was very pushy and could have left sooner than he did, but he saw a woman open the door up to him naked. Of course he was going to be flirty. It is not like he tried to molest her or anything.

    Well at least she knows not to do that now and it could have went a lot worse than it did. Girls do too many things to try to get attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    Easy. I got the impression from my previous partners doing the forementioned things (having sex with a sleeping person or ignoring a "no" a because of being sure the partner's gonna like it or thinking being married entitles one to sex with their partner anytime) on a regular basis and also from movies and literature presenting the first two certainly rapey things as romantic. Really. I had no idea of these being wrong until I got my ass on Tumblr. If it wasn't for feminist articles in my feed, I'd still be doing that. Long live Tumblr.
    I can understand this. It's easy to get wrapped up in the romantic fantasy projected to us through literature and movies. Early traumatic experiences in my life always made me afraid of anything sexual when I was younger, so I've always been that annoying girl that asks a million times if " ect. ect is okay", "do you mind if I do this" and the like. Which sucks in itself, because even after 18 years I still get nervous sexually with SO, totally making me want to kill rapists/molesters worldwide bc it really is life long damage.

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    To me it's more of a crying out for help! People do many things when they are broken or battered in spirit! Happy, secure and confident people don't need to seek attention. #beautifulthingsdontaskforattention


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    This conversation makes me think of this woman I know whose teenage son was badly beaten by 3 or 4 guys over a pair of sneakers he was wearing. I wonder if she and her son had to hear "Well, he shouldn't have been wearing nice sneakers" from people. Smh. I hope not. The good news is that they found the guys who attacked him, and they were charged as adults.

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    Someone is walking around with a $50 bill hanging out of their pocket and you could easily take it from them without them having any idea. Do you do it? You are in an elevator with a really hot guy that you are totally hot for eg. Hugh Jackman, do you spontaneously hump him? You see a delivery of fresh bread in front of a bakery that is not open yet because they owners are late, do you take a loaf because it smells so fucking good?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thespark88 View Post
    I respect your opinion, but I agree with JAC, its a cop out. At some point in a persons life, they have a responsibility to educate themselves and stop blaming their shit on other people or 'society'. Rape literally means sexual intercourse or other sexual penetration perpetrated against a person without their consent. I mean, hello?

    Also,
    This may not be a popular opinion, but I believe most men (people) who do these things KNOW they are wrong but they just dont care because they feel entitled and even get off on the fact that they are taking advantage of a women and will likely get away with it. A rapist KNOWS they are a rapist whether they say it aloud or not. Those men who assault you in the club? They know exactly what they are doing.
    You're goddamn right they know what they are doing. Just as you're goddamn right that the delivery guy would STILL be a rapist & still be responsible for his actions if he had forced himself on her. But where is the girl's responsibility for taking appropriate measures to protect herself? Unless she just teleported in from sm magical land of fairies & rainbows where ppl nvr hurt each other, she knows, just as we all do, that there are sm sick fks out there who really couldn't care less abt her boundaries. That's the sad reality of this world, the existence of those sick fks. Several of us have mentioned being raped or otherwise assaulted when we were FULLY DRESSED. Even when we do 'everything right' we still had these things happen. If we can't expect to be safe when we are 'doing everything right' according to the standards set by the ppl who would hurt us, wtf can she expect when she pulls a stunt like greeting a stranger naked?

    I know it's coming so I'm going to ask right now: Where have I said that a rapist is not 100% responsible for committing rape? Where have I said that this girl deserves to be attacked? Anyone who can find that in my posts is welcome to point it out to me. :waiting:

    There's a reason we tell children not to get into cars w/ strangers. *doubles up flame suit* There's a reason we not only tell a woman in an abusive relationship to leave the abuser, but have numerous resources to help her do so. We don't tell her to stay w/ a guy who smacks her around bc 'he'll get better eventually' -- in fact, we tell her to GTFO precisely bc he won't.There's a reason we don't take drinks from strangers, esp if we didn't see that drink poured. We all have a responsibility to ourselves to take the measures necessary to protect ourselves. Pointing out this girl's idiocy in doing this stunt, & noting how fortunate she was that nothing happened, isn't 'blaming the victim' esp since, given that nothing happened, she's not a victim. It's pointing out that she was an idiot, tempting fate, & she's damn lucky nothing happened.

    You guys seem to want it both ways in these kinds of discussions: 'Predators know exactly what they are doing & know rape/murder etc is wrong … the world is sooooooo unsafe bc of these assholes … but I shouldn't have to take any responsibility for my own safety even tho I know the world isn't safe.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    But where is the girl's responsibility for taking appropriate measures to protect herself?
    And this is the exact point I am arguing......she has no responsibility to take appropriate measures.

    The only person with responsibility in this situation is the rapist.

    Could she have been smarter about how she acted. Hell yeah. Was it a stupid thing to do? Probably one of the dumbest I've seen.

    But that still doesn't change the fact that she has no responsibility to take appropriate measures.

    Crimes are still crimes even when they happen to stupid people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosemary Rabbit View Post
    I was under the impression that the delivery folks had to call their workplace to request a number in order to call people? That's how they do at Dominos around here anyway.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sunnylexie View Post
    In some places, it's not the delivery man but the order clerk who calls the customer. If there's a problem, the delivery person calls the order desk and has them contact the client. So him not having her number is possible.
    True. Perhaps he didn't get lost to receive it or guess it depends on the pizza shop. Whenever, I order Pizza 90% of the time the delivery person always get lost finding my apartment unit. The delivery person then calls me directly. I do wonder if they already receive it prior to deliver the Pizza or the order clerk only gives it out if they call the shop lost on directions. Now, I sorta want to call up the Pizza shop that I usual order just to find out if they only give out the number if the delivery person is lost.

    She might of even already knew of this guy discussed the plan out to him and just did of a hell of convincing job making it real to the viewers in her cam room. If the guy really didn't know her, shocking that she was willing to risk her life for tokens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    You guys seem to want it both ways in these kinds of discussions: 'Predators know exactly what they are doing & know rape/murder etc is wrong … the world is sooooooo unsafe bc of these assholes … but I shouldn't have to take any responsibility for my own safety even tho I know the world isn't safe.'
    I can't speak for other girls, but I can tell you that isn't what I am saying at all.

    Yes....everyone should try to do what they can to keep themselves safe but I don't see people being blamed for not doing so with other types of crime so what's up with it happening when it comes to sexual assault?

    Hindsight is 20/20 after all.

    Wouldn't it be considered idiotic by the rest of the mainstream population for any women to work as a stripper? You could argue that 'it isn't taking responsibility for your own safety' since you are taking a larger risk by doing it.

    That's the thing about other people's lives when you've never walked in their shoes. It is so easy to judge them from the outside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Yes....everyone should try to do what they can to keep themselves safe but I don't see people being blamed for not doing so with other types of crime so what's up with it happening when it comes to sexual assault?
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    And this is the exact point I am arguing......she has no responsibility to take appropriate measures.

    The only person with responsibility in this situation is the rapist.

    Could she have been smarter about how she acted. Hell yeah. Was it a stupid thing to do? Probably one of the dumbest I've seen.

    But that still doesn't change the fact that she has no responsibility to take appropriate measures.

    Crimes are still crimes even when they happen to stupid people.
    I'm not, & have nvr, said that 'it's not a crime if it happened to a stupid person'.

    In other words … 'I'm going to open the door to a stranger, naked. I don't know him or what he is capable of. I am going to deliberately invite him into my house, naked. I know there are very bad, harmful ppl in this world, & he may or not be one of them, yet I am going to turn my back, still naked. I'm not tempting *him* in the least by being naked, even tho lots of guys would probably take my nakedness as an invitation. I'm going to intentionally put myself out on a platter & give him every indication that it's perfectly ok for him to do whatever he wants … but if he DOES do whatever he wants, well, it's not like I put myself on a platter for him!'

    Your responses JAC are exactly what I mean by 'wanting it both ways'. Sadly, the world is a dangerous place. There's no getting around that. But to potentially invite it in bc you don't believe that reality should apply to you, to deliberately invite it in bc 'every1 else should know better' (& they absolutely should, the problem is they don't care) is deeply stupid & irresponsible.

    Not the same w/ other crimes? Idk where you're located but I have lived in the DC area & have close family still living there. Now I'm probably going to get pegged as a racist as well but I'm gonna say this anyway: there are parts of DC that are dicey no matter what colour you are, & sm areas are particularly unsafe if you're white. There are neighbourhoods where you park your car on the street to visit your mates, when you come back you'll be lucky if the only thing missing is the tyres. These are neighbourhoods where you definitely don't want to be walking down the street dressed like you're worth a million bucks, flashing pricey bling. Why? Bc it's not safe. Same mentality as this dumbass from the video -- there are things you don't do bc common sense tells you it's not smart. Does it make the person who attacks you any less of a scum-sucking POS? No it absolutely does not. But putting yourself in that situation puts the criminal equivalent of a 'Kick Me!' sticker on you, & if you willingly put yourself there(as the girl in the video did), that's not the attacker's fault. You gave them an opportunity & they capitalised on it.

    This girl's stupidity wasn't the fault of the guy she let into her home, that's purely on her. She was responsible for letting him in while in a vulnerable position. We're not talking abt children, we're talking abt two grown-ass adults. I think it's just as infantilising to say 'but she's not responsible' as it is to say the guy wouldn't be responsible for his actions bc she was naked.

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    ^^^^^^

    I am not sure where the miscommunication is happening between us so I am going to try to go over ground we have covered so we can figure out where it is happening.

    "I'm not, & have nvr, said that 'it's not a crime if it happened to a stupid person'."

    I never said you did. But you keep talking about how it is someone's personal responsibility to keep themselves safe. I keep pointing out that it is wrong to blame someone for not knowing something is going to happen.


    "Sadly, the world is a dangerous place. There's no getting around that. But to potentially invite it in bc you don't believe that reality should apply to you, to deliberately invite it in bc 'every1 else should know better' (& they absolutely should, the problem is they don't care) is deeply stupid & irresponsible."

    <snip...>

    if you willingly put yourself there(as the girl in the video did), that's not the attacker's fault. You gave them an opportunity & they capitalized on it.


    Okay, but by that same logical reasoning then that means that anyone who chooses to be a sex worker is deeply stupid and irresponsible since it is common knowledge (common sense) that being a sex worker puts you at a bigger risk for violence and sexual assault since the world is a dangerous place then it would an average person.
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    Even though this thread has been around for a few days or so this is the first time I thought to open it.
    Omfg It makes me feel sick. I cant believe she would do that. Disgusts me of how stupid she is.
    Wrong on so many levels...
    All I can say is holy fuck, shes lucky to be alive.

    Omg...

    Im in shock .

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    Why was her turning her back on the man so dangerous? I genuinely want to understand. Clearly Im missing something

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    You're goddamn right they know what they are doing. Just as you're goddamn right that the delivery guy would STILL be a rapist & still be responsible for his actions if he had forced himself on her. But where is the girl's responsibility for taking appropriate measures to protect herself? Unless she just teleported in from sm magical land of fairies & rainbows where ppl nvr hurt each other, she knows, just as we all do, that there are sm sick fks out there who really couldn't care less abt her boundaries. That's the sad reality of this world, the existence of those sick fks. Several of us have mentioned being raped or otherwise assaulted when we were FULLY DRESSED. Even when we do 'everything right' we still had these things happen. If we can't expect to be safe when we are 'doing everything right' according to the standards set by the ppl who would hurt us, wtf can she expect when she pulls a stunt like greeting a stranger naked?

    I know it's coming so I'm going to ask right now: Where have I said that a rapist is not 100% responsible for committing rape? Where have I said that this girl deserves to be attacked? Anyone who can find that in my posts is welcome to point it out to me. :waiting:

    There's a reason we tell children not to get into cars w/ strangers. *doubles up flame suit* There's a reason we not only tell a woman in an abusive relationship to leave the abuser, but have numerous resources to help her do so. We don't tell her to stay w/ a guy who smacks her around bc 'he'll get better eventually' -- in fact, we tell her to GTFO precisely bc he won't.There's a reason we don't take drinks from strangers, esp if we didn't see that drink poured. We all have a responsibility to ourselves to take the measures necessary to protect ourselves. Pointing out this girl's idiocy in doing this stunt, & noting how fortunate she was that nothing happened, isn't 'blaming the victim' esp since, given that nothing happened, she's not a victim. It's pointing out that she was an idiot, tempting fate, & she's damn lucky nothing happened.

    You guys seem to want it both ways in these kinds of discussions: 'Predators know exactly what they are doing & know rape/murder etc is wrong … the world is sooooooo unsafe bc of these assholes … but I shouldn't have to take any responsibility for my own safety even tho I know the world isn't safe.'
    You asking where her responsibility lies in protecting herself implies that if something were to happen to her it would be atleast partially her fault.
    So if I were walking on the street alone at night and I were attacked, I would have to accept my part in the assault because I didnt go through extra precautions to 'protect' myself? That is true according to your argument.

    And no in these arguments I do not want it both ways. Yes, there are predators in the world and yes they DO know what they are doing is wrong. But because they have issues, it doesnt mean I or any other woman should stop living their lives because of it. It doesnt mean that everyone has to live a life full of paranoia. Yes, it is important to ensure your safety as much as you possibly can, but instead of being taught "how to not get raped", we should be teaching men "how to not rape."

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    Also, I am not denying that what this woman, specifically, was incredibly stupid. I said myself that it is not a choice that I would have made personally and I do not understand why anyone would think thats a good idea. Does it open her up to unwanted advances and potential harm, yes, but does that makw their lack of self control her fault? No.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thespark88 View Post
    You asking where her responsibility lies in protecting herself implies that if something were to happen to her it would be atleast partially her fault.
    So if I were walking on the street alone at night and I were attacked, I would have to accept my part in the assault because I didnt go through extra precautions to 'protect' myself? That is true according to your argument.

    And no in these arguments I do not want it both ways. Yes, there are predators in the world and yes they DO know what they are doing is wrong. But because they have issues, it doesnt mean I or any other woman should stop living their lives because of it. It doesnt mean that everyone has to live a life full of paranoia. Yes, it is important to ensure your safety as much as you possibly can, but instead of being taught "how to not get raped", we should be teaching men "how to not rape."
    I'm saying that choosing to put yourself in a compromising position in sm righteous attempt to 'stick it to the bad bad men out there' is your own damn fault. If your hypothetical street is in a neighbourhood like Alabama Avenue in southeast DC, no, I wouldn't be entirely sympathetic bc that's a very dangerous area. Like, nightly shootings & robberies dangerous, & you would be taking your life into your hands. Predators definitely know what they're doing is wrong. The problem is, They. Don't. Care. About. Your. Safety. If they did, there would be nothing to fear from them, & thus no need for these kinds of discussions, no need for the Safety Tips stickies at the top of these boards. The girl in the video opened her home to a stranger while naked. He didn't break down the door. She deliberately put herself in a dangerous position (regardless of her reasons for doing so), & the stupidity of that action is NOT the fault of the guy. Him capitalising on her stupidity would absolutely, completely be his fault, but if she chooses to hand him that opportunity, that is on her.

    There's a big difference between being paranoid, spending your entire life in a self-imposed bubble of terror, & being smart abt your own safety. This girl wasn't smart, & she's fortunate to have not been hurt bc of it.

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    Also, I am not denying that what this woman, specifically, was incredibly stupid. I said myself that it is not a choice that I would have made personally and I do not understand why anyone would think thats a good idea. Does it open her up to unwanted advances and potential harm, yes, but does that makw their lack of self control her fault? No.
    No one is saying that another person's lack of self-control is her fault. It's been stated repeatedly that had the guy tried to hurt her, that's 100% HIS fault. Her fault, if you want to call it that -- or maybe 'naïveté' would be more charitable -- was in taking the major gamble that the guy on the other side of the door WOULDN'T be the kind of person to just help himself.

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    You and I will have to just agree to disagree because no matter how you word it, youre victim blaming.

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    Filtering through all the craziness here so I'm sorry if I missed this- how is she not a sex offender now exactly? If a man had answered the door naked for a delivery girl and started touching her, he'd be arrested or at the very least called a pervert or predator. Why does she get a pass just because she is female and thought what she did was cute or sexy? It's not cute, it's messed up to spring that on someone and it's also wrong to broadcast someone on an adult site without their consent. So many problems with this, not to mention with some of the comments here.
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    no matter how you word it, youre victim blaming.
    Who's the victim here? The dumbass who gambled w/ her safety & was fortunate nothing happened to her? Since she wasn't hurt, what was she a victim of, other than her own stupidity?

    Like KimKlass said, what's equally fk'd up here is springing a situation like this on the delivery guy. By that I mean, putting him on the spot w/ a live adult-cam broadcast, w/o his foreknowledge or his consent. I don't see a lot of sympathy for him on this front, whereas if it were a naked guy pulling this on a girl I bet nothing would be able to contain the outrage.

    So far, all I've heard is that the guy, by sole virtue of being a guy, is a potential rapist, & rapists should know better, & shouldn't rape. No argument from me on that subj. But as you know, ppl continue to rape, steal, assault, whatever-else. That's the way the world is. The fact alone that 'it shouldn't be that way' is not going to keep you safe. That needs to change, via better education, tougher laws, etc, but unfortunately we aren't there yet. The ppl who commit these acts … News Flash … they don't care abt you. They don't care abt your right as a human being to not be raped/assaulted/whatever else. The ppl who commit these acts don't give two liquid shits abt your safety … so why do you want to risk your well-being by tempting them just to prove a point?

    Sm1 above brought up sex work as being high-risk for sexual assault. I completely agree, by the nature of the job(s) there is a much greater risk. Do we deserve it when it happens? Fk no. But it's an unfortunate reality, & what exactly is your 'The world shouldn't be that way!' attitude doing to change it? By itself, not a goddamn thing. Again, why the need for all those Safety Tips stickies? I mean, maybe this is just me being a dumb stripper, but I'm guessing the escorts who screen out the wazoo aren't doing so bc they've got nothing better to do w/ their time. I've read in Camming Connection from girls who worried abt customers being able to find them based on landmarks visible thru the bedroom window, or afraid of their location being traced via their IP address.

    Most criminals are opportunists. They look for easy, quick hits. Arguing abt whether the mark deserves to get marked doesn't change that mentality, that strategy. A naked woman, alone, inviting a stranger into her house, is basically advertising herself as an easy target, & merely getting huffy & saying 'The world shouldn't be that way!' isn't doing her or any1 else any good.

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