Hey, everyone. So I recently met a very kind older gentleman in the club that I work at. He was with some friends, on his way home from a Blazers game (basketball) and we had some dances. He insisted that he return to see me again, and has many times. Usually, if asked nicely and I feel they will not abuse the privilege, I give regulars my phone number after a few times of seeing me so they can contact me and ask when I am on the schedule or what club I will be working at when they fancy a night on the town. A couple of them have been married, in relationships, or otherwise, though I have never run into a problem with this until now. This particular man's wife is apparently the jealous type, as she had somehow gotten a hold of his phone last night and went through his text messages. Nothing particularly incriminating...
Him: "Hey, Zora. It was really nice meeting you tonight, would love to see you again. Talk soon."
Me: "It was nice meeting you as well, and I look forward to it!"
That was the end of that, and all the wife saw. However, I received multiple phone calls from a number not in my contacts list between 6-8 in the morning. Granted, when people call me at that time, I am never happy. I do not wake up until at least noon. I didn't answer, and when I woke up I had received a text from my regular saying that his wife had seen the texts, was trying to contact me, and "not to engage her", which of course I assured him no exchanges would be made between me and his wife. A couple of hours later, I received a text from the wife's number saying, "How was the Blazers game?" to which of course, I did not reply, as I did not even go and do not like basketball. It's not like I was about to try to explain to this woman that I am a stripper. I just don't know how to handle things like this. I assume that the husband will work things out with her should I keep myself out of it, though I can't help but think that my job is ruining marriages. How do you ladies deal with things like this?



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I have no idea what she wound up doing, but I hope she moved on. His behavior was pretty scummy.


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