I'm going to keep this quick for now...
I met a guy last night who is quite a bit older than me (early 60s) and a very successful lawyer. We met online and we met up last night, I got dinner and he just got a drink since he was meeting someone else for dinner after. Went pretty well. He dropped me off (not my place). Anyway so in the car I went to give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek and he says "is that all I get?" So I gestured just to give him a hug again and he kissed me quickly on the lips, and then again at which point I didn't really care but I was like okkkk we are done now. He texted me "sweet dreams" last night and then got all butthurt today when I said I couldn't meet for dinner tomorrow night (I finally conceded to getting lunch). But now about 20 minutes ago he texted me "miss me?" and I cannot tell if he is actually fucking serious. Like what would I say to that? He definitely has money, he already feels so needy...I don't know if I can handle it. I am super gfe/gnd style which is fine in the club when it mostly stays in the club but I think if he is going to feel a need to be so much in my space on a daily basis the money is not worth it to me (and we don't even have a set arrangement yet, which also concerns me).
So, girls, who have done the SD/SB thing before, is this kind of thing normal? Already feels overbearing to me.



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Just make sure this arrangement feels right to you. I hope this helps you




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