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    Default How to prioritize dances?

    I apologize in advance if this topic has already been addressed.

    I've noticed that at the club I currently work at, there will be times when no one wants dances from me, and times when several people want dances from me. This is especially true after I get a bunch of "come talk to me later" and everyone's "later" is the same time, as in right after I get off of stage. What are some clues to figure out who is the biggest spender? (Aside from who tipped me the most on stage) How do you handle multiple people wanting dances from you at the same time?

    Thank you for your input!

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    Default Re: How to prioritize dances?

    Work more. We can tell you tips and tricks and blah blah blah, but really, when it all comes down to it: every night is different. And you get better at following your instincts the more you use them.

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    Default Re: How to prioritize dances?

    This happens pretty often on slow Saturday/Sunday afternoons... there will be like 5 girls on and when we get a rush, I've got a line of 3-4 guys for me.

    If I know a guy only has $20, I will sometimes hit him first and get it done with; I won't chat with him. If he wants to chat, I tell him "Sorry, I really can't, there's a huge line waiting for me". I've never had one NOT give me the money after saying that, as long as it's in a sympathetic tone. Then I go by descending order of whoever tipped the most. If nobody tipped the most, it's purely on instinct.

    Also, when this happens, make sure these guys KNOW you are in high demand. I usually end up taking at least ⅔ of them to the VIP couches because of that. Maximize your popularity, especially if it was visible (lots of stage tippers, etc.)
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    Default Re: How to prioritize dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by NightGoddess View Post
    Work more. We can tell you tips and tricks and blah blah blah, but really, when it all comes down to it: every night is different. And you get better at following your instincts the more you use them.
    This. You'll also get better at identifying your type, aka who will spend most on YOU, which is what's really important here. There are always going to be a few surprises when someone from a group you don't normally appeal to you drops big cash on you, but by and large, you will notice a pattern (or maybe a few) among your big spenders. My two biggest types are the slightly nerdy 30-40 year old and the intelligent/driven 50-60 year old. After the biggest tipper and regulars, those are who I approach first. Your types could be totally different though.

    When in doubt, go to whoever seems the most eager -- as in, they're smiling or nodding at you, gesturing for you to come over, shooing other dancers away, or even straight up coming up to you. Depending on your club culture, you could also try and do a lap before committing to your first customer, just to gauge how long they will be staying and if anyone wants to go to VIP vs. just get dances, but that can be time consuming and not ideal.

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