So I have a regular. He's fairly dependable, nice enough to talk to, and there's money...or there used to be. I'm starting to have some issues, mostly stemming from my inexperience I think. One issue is that starting a few weeks ago, he has begun spending less and less money every time he comes in. I think he's trying to find out how little money he can spend and still have a fun evening of conversation with me. Normally, the answer would be to pack it in and leave when dances aren't forthcoming but I work at a dead club right now and he's often one of the only people in the damn place.
The other issue is kind of embarrassing, and I know I'm a goddamn idiot so there's no need to bring it up. Basically, he was one of my first regulars and I was a lot less good at saying "no" then I am now. At this point, I've become a lot more confident in my sexiness and personality and I do not allow men to do anything in private dances that's against club rules, like boob groping. This regular, however, has been quietly and slowly pushing that with me, starting from when I was less confident, until that's honestly most of the dance I do for him at this point. I'm not sure how to fix this, or if I can fix this at this point. How does one back away from something like that?
Do I ditch the regular, or is there a way to try and reverse this situation? I know regulars aren't forever but money is absolute shit right now (did I mention my club is effing dead?) and I don't want to turn my back on what has become consistent, but low-grade high-stress money.



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